# 1 drop/low dose of A314 **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 15, 2010, 6:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/1-drop-low-dose-of-a314/43321 "2010-11-15T18:01:45Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![CHICAGO-29](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4da419/32.png) [@CHICAGO-29](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CHICAGO-29)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 6:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/1-drop-low-dose-of-a314/43321/1 "2010-11-15T18:01:45Z")
I’ve experimented with several [pheromones](https://a314.com/) over the last 12-18 months with pretty decent results. Mainly IShine IO, IH, IG, TUTH, and more recently AMMO. Some have given me good results and others have given me limited results. That said, I’ve had no bad results from anything. Here is my situation…I’m 30 years old and am going through a few issues with my girlfriend. She is 27. One of them is me not being more assertive in our relationship. We’ve been together for just over 1 year and she knows that I am not this big alpha male and she doesn’t want me to be that, but she just wants me to be more assertive and take charge a bit more. I do realize this and it’s something that I want to do. I know A314 is the alpha male pheromone. I don’t really want to give off this super, big alpha male vibe to her because I do not want to be someone who I’m not, but would a low dose (was thinking 1 drop) of A314 at least help me give off more of an assertive vibe without being too overbearing? I was thinking 1 drop of A314 combined with IH, IO, and actually taking actions that make me more assertive might help a lot. The last thing I want to do is scare her off or ruin things by going too far. And as I said before, I don’t want to completely be someone who I am not. Any ideas or thoughts? Thanks ---
**Author:** ![Bolkie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bolkie/32/1056_2.png) [@Bolkie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bolkie)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 6:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/1-drop-low-dose-of-a314/43321/2 "2010-11-15T18:38:41Z")
I don’t think you need to be worried that using a314 will push things too far. It will not make you the over the top intimidating alpha male. Pheromones will not alter your character unless you actively try to become a different person and use mones as an aid. ---
**Author:** ![CHICAGO-29](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4da419/32.png) [@CHICAGO-29](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CHICAGO-29)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 6:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/1-drop-low-dose-of-a314/43321/3 "2010-11-15T18:43:39Z")
Thanks for your response. So, you don’t think it will cause any harm. That’s good. Do you think it will do some good for my situation? ---
**Author:** ![Bolkie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bolkie/32/1056_2.png) [@Bolkie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bolkie)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 6:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/1-drop-low-dose-of-a314/43321/4 "2010-11-15T18:47:32Z")
It will not do any harm. Respect or status takes a while to get noticed by those close to you. So results with your gf will not come overnight. She needs to get used to your new signature. I think the product is excellent for your situation. What your gf probably means by assertiveness is that she wants you to take more control in the relationship. She wants you to take more decisions and to ‘lead’ her. So be prepared to do just that 😉 ---
**Author:** ![CHICAGO-29](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4da419/32.png) [@CHICAGO-29](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CHICAGO-29)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 6:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/1-drop-low-dose-of-a314/43321/5 "2010-11-15T18:51:13Z")
Thanks again. My plan is to do more of the decision-making and taking more of a lead. Regarding the low-dosage idea…do you think that is a good idea? ---
**Author:** ![Bolkie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bolkie/32/1056_2.png) [@Bolkie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bolkie)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 6:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/1-drop-low-dose-of-a314/43321/6 "2010-11-15T18:55:59Z")
I suggest you try and find your ‘sweet spot’ just like you would with another product. You don’t want to use only one drop without ever knowing 2 drops would be better. There is a thread around here in which Steve explains the ‘sweet spot’, but I can;t find it at the moment. Don’t be afraid of a314, it will not make you act like an asshole or arrogant jerk. One more thing !! Do not tell your GF about your [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) test on her. That could mess up your objectives. ---
**Author:** ![CHICAGO-29](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4da419/32.png) [@CHICAGO-29](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CHICAGO-29)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 7:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/1-drop-low-dose-of-a314/43321/7 "2010-11-15T19:14:33Z")
> [@Bolkie](#): > > I suggest you try and find your ‘sweet spot’ just like you would with another product. You don’t want to use only one drop without ever knowing 2 drops would be better. There is a thread around here in which Steve explains the ‘sweet spot’, but I can;t find it at the moment. > > Don’t be afraid of a314, it will not make you act like an asshole or arrogant jerk. > > One more thing !! Do not tell your GF about your pheromone test on her. That could mess up your objectives. Thanks, and I didn’t plan on telling her about Pheromones ha-ha. I’ve been wearing other pheromones for a large part of our relationship and she has always commented on how good I smell. At the end of the day, I’m just trying to add more to my effort to be more assertive. ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 7:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/1-drop-low-dose-of-a314/43321/8 "2010-11-15T19:41:48Z")
> [@CHICAGO-29](#): > > Thanks for your response. > > So, you don’t think it will cause any harm. That’s good. Do you think it will do some good for my situation? Honestly, Two drops since you’re using socials would probably work the best. Since none of us are in your situation, I would suggest you start with one first, by itself, then up your dosage to two. I’m 25 and my sweet spot ideally is 2-3 drops depending on the situation. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 8:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/1-drop-low-dose-of-a314/43321/9 "2010-11-15T20:00:26Z")
I have a related but slightly off topic question. Is she wanting you to simply be more assertive with her, or is she wanting you to be more assertive in general in your daily life? ---
**Author:** ![CHICAGO-29](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/4da419/32.png) [@CHICAGO-29](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CHICAGO-29)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 8:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/1-drop-low-dose-of-a314/43321/10 "2010-11-15T20:17:23Z")
> [@RADMAN513](#): > > I have a related but slightly off topic question. Is she wanting you to simply be more assertive with her, or is she wanting you to be more assertive in general in your daily life? Probably both, but more so in our relationship (so with her). She wants me to have a more assertive role in our relationship with regards to making the decisions and initiating plans. She wants to be “taken” out more as opposed to just “going” out with me. And it doesn’t have anything to do with buying her things. She is the kind of person that believes in paying for half most of the time. We both have very respectable white collar jobs and have similar incomes. ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 8:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/1-drop-low-dose-of-a314/43321/11 "2010-11-15T20:44:24Z")
> [@CHICAGO-29](#): > > Probably both, but more so in our relationship (so with her). She wants me to have a more assertive role in our relationship with regards to making the decisions and initiating plans. She wants to be “taken” out more as opposed to just “going” out with me. And it doesn’t have anything to do with buying her things. She is the kind of person that believes in paying for half most of the time. > > We both have very respectable white collar jobs and have similar incomes. Honestly A314 is great, but so are [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) and IG, All three products contain Rone and Ammo and A314 also have None. These can all be steered in a very masculine and dominant direction. Yeah A314 is great but it’s also subtle and requires more congruence than the others. So if you’re not BEING assertive then the positive vibe she gets from your phero signature will eventually be disregarded. You want to come across as assertive, not bullying or uncompromising. I suggest reading the books “The Way of The Superior Man” and “Hold on to Your N.U.T.S”. Your assertiveness should be supported by valid reasons and not simply to be contrary or just because. ---
**Author:** ![RisenAlpha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/54ee81/32.png) [@RisenAlpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RisenAlpha)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 8:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/1-drop-low-dose-of-a314/43321/12 "2010-11-15T20:45:48Z")
> [@RADMAN513](#): > > I have a related but slightly off topic question. Is she wanting you to simply be more assertive with her, or is she wanting you to be more assertive in general in your daily life? Curious about where Radman will go with this. > [@CHICAGO-29](#): > > We’ve been together for just over 1 year and she knows that I am not this big alpha male and she doesn’t want me to be that, but she just wants me to be more assertive and take charge a bit more. I do realize this and it’s something that I want to do. > > I know A314 is the alpha male pheromone. I don’t really want to give off this super, big alpha male vibe to her because I do not want to be someone who I’m not, but would a low dose (was thinking 1 drop) of A314 at least help me give off more of an assertive vibe without being too overbearing? Hi Chicago, thanks for being willing to ask for help. I can take two approaches with this. I have been in this kind of situation before. Only I’m married. Wife wanted me to be more assertive and didn’t want to nag, but she said and still says that she doesn’t want me to change. I think there is some misconceptions going on here. **“I am not this big alpha male and she doesn’t want me to be that, but she just wants me to be more assertive and take charge a bit more:”** For some reason, media, we seem to have this theory about what an alpha male is that may be incorrect. Alpha male doesn’t mean big hulking jerk that lifts weights all day and bullies people around. It means that you are the leader of the pack. Someone that is willing to make decisions based on your own inner code. If a woman ever tells you that she wants you to be more assertive. She is asking for you to be the leader. OK so first approach: a314. This was my first approach. I went through my testing from 1 drop to 5 drops. I got a really good feel for A314 and it’s effects that way. Yes I was more assertive. No I was not a dick, however I dealt with any challenges instead of letting them slide. A great movie that shows both sides of this is Pursuit of Happyness. Chris Gardner let stuff slide until it put him and his son on the street. (A little extreme I know). That pressure forced him to be the Alpha male. He wasn’t overbearing. He wasn’t a dick, but there was no doubt that he was true to his inner core and could not be stopped. The other approach is to check yourself. This is the approach that I am currently taking, because I want to internalize what A314 is. I picked up a book called “The Way of the Superior Man” that some people here recommended. It explains very well what a woman means by “more assertive”. Hope that helps. ---
**Author:** ![RisenAlpha](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/54ee81/32.png) [@RisenAlpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RisenAlpha)\ **Post date:** [November 15, 2010, 8:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/1-drop-low-dose-of-a314/43321/13 "2010-11-15T20:47:09Z")
> [@RADMAN513](#): > > Honestly A314 is great, but so are Ammo and IG, All three products contain Rone and Ammo and A314 also have None. These can all be steered in a very masculine and dominant direction. Yeah A314 is great but it’s also subtle and requires more congruence than the others. So if you’re not BEING assertive then the positive vibe she gets from your phero signature will eventually be disregarded. You want to come across as assertive, not bullying or uncompromising. > > I suggest reading the books “The Way of The Superior Man” and “Hold on to Your N.U.T.S”. Your assertiveness should be supported by valid reasons and not simply to be contrary or just because. AWWWWW you beat me to it!!!