# 20 Year Old & Shy, wanting to break out **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 15, 2008, 5:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/20-year-old-shy-wanting-to-break-out/19593 "2008-09-15T17:39:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Ryutatsu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/a183cd/32.png) [@Ryutatsu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ryutatsu)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2008, 5:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/20-year-old-shy-wanting-to-break-out/19593/1 "2008-09-15T17:39:00Z")
Hello all, I am a really shy 20 year old, hoping to break out of my shell. I saw this site and decided to give some of the products a try. There is this girl that I am really interested in, any suggestions for some of the combinations I can use to get started? ---
**Author:** ![river](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/river/32/934_2.png) [@river](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/river)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2008, 6:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/20-year-old-shy-wanting-to-break-out/19593/2 "2008-09-15T18:06:07Z")
Ryutatsu, Welcome to the forum buddy!! Definitely give the “socials” a try. I recommend [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and Instant Openess to give you a little boost in the 'ol confidence department. These really make me feel awake, and fun, and “shiny”, if you will. Hopefully one of the more experienced users will stop by & give their recommendations on what works best to break that shy shell of yours! Good luck and don’t forget to read thru the Stickies as they contain a TON of great info. ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2008, 6:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/20-year-old-shy-wanting-to-break-out/19593/3 "2008-09-15T18:13:42Z")
hey welcome 🙂 i def agree with river on socials 🙂 socials are a great way to ease into the phero world! and the results are really noticeable i personally like instant shine since it makes others happier (as well as yourself) but a lot of people prefer more serious products like instant honesty to have a more intense convo anyways, gluck! ---
**Author:** ![Curiouschic](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f19dbf/32.png) [@Curiouschic](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Curiouschic)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2008, 7:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/20-year-old-shy-wanting-to-break-out/19593/4 "2008-09-15T19:09:38Z")
Hi Ry, and welcome to the forum. Make sure to check out the stickies in the mens section to get an idea of what products are available and what to expect. As the other members have said, the socials are a great place to start. You may also want to take a look at [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) as this can be great to give you a boost on the enticement scale. Also I am just curious about how she is responding to you now, and how you are acting around her? How do you want this to change? Welcome once again! CC 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![chicagokid1](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/53a042/32.png) [@chicagokid1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chicagokid1)\ **Post date:** [September 15, 2008, 9:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/20-year-old-shy-wanting-to-break-out/19593/5 "2008-09-15T21:45:34Z")
Welcome aboard buddy. Instant honesty is another good one I would suggest to help the level of conversation. Maybe just a drop of a314 to boost the ol confidence. I am more outgoing when I have those two on. good luck 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Ryutatsu](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/a183cd/32.png) [@Ryutatsu](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ryutatsu)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2008, 1:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/20-year-old-shy-wanting-to-break-out/19593/6 "2008-09-16T13:18:53Z")
Hey guys, Thanks for the replys=) I spent some time looking around and I’m pretty sure I’ll start off with some Instant Shine and maybe the A314? Think these two be ok to mix? [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) looks appealing as well… To Curiouschic, She seems pretty at ease around me, but I’m always nervous and shy when I’m around her. She’s not like any other girl I’ve met, and I’ve always been a klutz in the romance department.. =( ---
**Author:** ![josef](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/josef/32/2007_2.png) [@josef](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/josef)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2008, 2:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/20-year-old-shy-wanting-to-break-out/19593/7 "2008-09-16T14:36:30Z")
> [@Ryutatsu](#): > > Hello all, > I am a really shy 20 year old, hoping to break out of my shell. I saw this site and decided to give some of the products a try. _ **There is this girl that I am really interested in, any suggestions for some of the combinations I can use to get started** _? hello and welcome to the forum. suggestion, forget about her long enough to order some Instant Shine and [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/). over the next day or two while waiting for your delivery, continue to forget about her and assess who you are after 20 years, recognize the good and what you have to offer. forget her long enough so that you can open the package and deliver 3 sprays Instant Shine to your neck, chest and inside elbows and 1 spray IFM to the back of your head. forget about her long enough to put yourself into almost any environment and feel the emotional and psychological edge you have over just about everyone at that point. next step is sorting through the options, she’s in there somewhere, that is if you haven’t forgotten about her by now 😉 that’s my favorite combination. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [September 16, 2008, 11:10pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/20-year-old-shy-wanting-to-break-out/19593/8 "2008-09-16T23:10:51Z")
Ryutatsu hello and welcome to the forum. Sure am glad you discovered this pretty amazing place with pretty amazing innovative ideas to get the juices flowing on most social interactions. I’d love to be able to offer you a gift certificate, but in order to do so I need to get you qualified for one. You see in the spirit of giving away $15 just for stopping by and saying hello I need you to say your hello with a little more oomph. I have a few questions for you and if you would please don’t just answer using one liners. The members here are truly remarkable in their willingness to help one another out. You have experienced it already I see 😛. So how did you find out about [pheromones](https://a314.com/) and what brought you to pherotalk? You say you’re shy, do you have problems aproaching people and is that what you need the most help in? This girl you’re interested in, does she know it or not? As much info as you can give us will allow us to better help you get started. You see there are many different mones with many different applications. Some are social and some are sexual. Not all will help you get started so please fill in the blanks so that I may recomend some products to really give you a boost. When you come back and give me more info not only will I stop back by with suggestions I’ll send you a Gift Certificate to help get you started too. Looking forward to your participation.😛