# 22 year old at my gym **URL:** \ **Category:** Lounge\ **Created:** [August 17, 2011, 7:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/22-year-old-at-my-gym/51857 "2011-08-17T19:04:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![castlerock](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/castlerock/32/1503_2.png) [@castlerock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/castlerock)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2011, 7:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/22-year-old-at-my-gym/51857/1 "2011-08-17T19:04:58Z")
A 22 year old has been showing interest in me. She is very easy on the eyes. But the problem is I am 34. She has a terrific personality and seems very mature for her age. She keeps on telling me how I don’t look 34. So what to do? Any guys in a similar situation? ---
**Author:** ![DotCom](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dotcom/32/2152_2.png) [@DotCom](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DotCom)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2011, 11:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/22-year-old-at-my-gym/51857/2 "2011-08-17T23:47:06Z")
Don’t look 34 as in you look older or younger than you really are? But in all honesty, if you wanna get her to stop bugging you without being rude, I recommend using mones to put yourself in the friend zone. So use a bunch of socials basically. IO and IS are great. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2011, 12:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/22-year-old-at-my-gym/51857/3 "2011-08-18T00:14:53Z")
Most of the women I date are in their 20’s and I’m old enough to be their dad ---
**Author:** ![Oasis314](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/oasis314/32/219_2.png) [@Oasis314](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oasis314)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2011, 12:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/22-year-old-at-my-gym/51857/4 "2011-08-18T00:42:04Z")
age is just a number when you hit your peak. ---
**Author:** ![The\_Hammer](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/90db22/32.png) [@The\_Hammer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/The_Hammer)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2011, 1:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/22-year-old-at-my-gym/51857/5 "2011-08-18T01:28:41Z")
Don’t worry about her being 22. I’m guessing that you are more worried about the social stigma, real or imagined, in dating a 22 year old. Here is a hint: all of it is in your head. Either go for it or send her to me. ---
**Author:** ![toocheesy3](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/toocheesy3/32/1632_2.png) [@toocheesy3](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toocheesy3)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2011, 2:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/22-year-old-at-my-gym/51857/6 "2011-08-18T02:15:11Z")
Love is blind. There aren’t any reasons why you shouldn’t dater 'er. Go for it! ---
**Author:** ![castlerock](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/castlerock/32/1503_2.png) [@castlerock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/castlerock)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2011, 3:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/22-year-old-at-my-gym/51857/7 "2011-08-18T03:36:04Z")
> [@DotCom](#): > > Don’t look 34 as in you look older or younger than you really are? But in all honesty, if you wanna get her to stop bugging you without being rude, I recommend using mones to put yourself in the friend zone. So use a bunch of socials basically. IO and IS are great. She thought I was much younger. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2011, 9:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/22-year-old-at-my-gym/51857/8 "2011-08-18T09:46:32Z")
> [@castlerock](#): > > A 22 year old has been showing interest in me. She is very easy on the eyes. But the problem is I am 34. She has a terrific personality and seems very mature for her age. She keeps on telling me how I don’t look 34. So what to do? Any guys in a similar situation? LOL (((Castlerock))) The age difference is not huge so the question you should be asking is “what do I want to do ?” If your interested go for it, make your move. If your not interested then just keep doing what your doing flirting, having fun and keeping it casual. I assume since she keeps saying you appear younger that she knows your age and this is not detering her. You mention she seem mature so its all good. This is why you wear mones dude. Its show time 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Walc](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/walc/32/2210_2.png) [@Walc](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Walc)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2011, 12:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/22-year-old-at-my-gym/51857/9 "2011-08-18T12:55:42Z")
if she’s emotionally mature why not? One of the most emotionally mature and also wonderful women I ever met was 21 (I was 33 at that time), I fell head over heels in love with her but sadly she didn’t feel the same. She said though that my age was not the problem at all. ---
**Author:** ![castlerock](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/castlerock/32/1503_2.png) [@castlerock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/castlerock)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2011, 4:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/22-year-old-at-my-gym/51857/10 "2011-08-18T16:55:02Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > LOL (((Castlerock))) The age difference is not huge so the question you should be asking is “what do I want to do ?” > > If your interested go for it, make your move. > > If your not interested then just keep doing what your doing flirting, having fun and keeping it casual. > > I assume since she keeps saying you appear younger that she knows your age and this is not detering her. You mention she seem mature so its all good. > > This is why you wear mones dude. Its show time 😉 > > Tisha I clearly blame this one on you. If we married then I wouldn’t be having this predicament. 🙂 Regardless, I need a test subject to test my mones on. And I know you’ll give me your honest opinion. I also need to test out my kissing techniques and I know you’ll give my honest opinion about that too. 😃 A few of other things I need to test out while we’re at it. 😉 You are correct, she thought I was much younger than 34. ---
**Author:** ![castlerock](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/castlerock/32/1503_2.png) [@castlerock](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/castlerock)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2011, 4:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/22-year-old-at-my-gym/51857/11 "2011-08-18T16:57:48Z")
> [@Walc](#): > > if she’s emotionally mature why not? One of the most emotionally mature and also wonderful women I ever met was 21 (I was 33 at that time), I fell head over heels in love with her but sadly she didn’t feel the same. She said though that my age was not the problem at all. So what was the problem then? ---
**Author:** ![Misein](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/7bcc69/32.png) [@Misein](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Misein)\ **Post date:** [August 18, 2011, 5:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/22-year-old-at-my-gym/51857/12 "2011-08-18T17:00:34Z")
I mostly attract girls in their early 20’s and I’m nearly 40. Everyone says I look younger but I guess I also act as if I were. Maybe I’m still childish? 🙂 Who gives a shit? I’m not gonna try to change my behaviour or appearance to get more age proper women. I guess younger “will have to do”. 😃 You have nothing to worry about. 12 years age difference isn’t even that huge. ---
**Author:** ![Walc](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/walc/32/2210_2.png) [@Walc](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Walc)\ **Post date:** [August 19, 2011, 8:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/22-year-old-at-my-gym/51857/13 "2011-08-19T08:43:50Z")
> [@castlerock](#): > > So what was the problem then? I dunno, guess I got wrong natty 'mones 🙂 Seriously, she was sexually attracted to me and only reason we didn’t have sex at least once (she stayed the night though) was because she thought that since I had fallen in love with her that would make it harder for me to ‘give up’ my feelings for her. At that particular time she was pro’lly right too. She has two children now with a nice guy, who I think is a bit older than her 😉 Problem was, if I may be introspective, that I kinda hung so much hope for change in my own life on the hope of finding someone to love and to be loved by, which ofc goes back to certain things lacking in that area during my childhood. This is a lesson I’ve learned: Love will not make your life perfect, and hopes that it may will probably keep love _out_ of your life. First, make friends with yourself and your life whatever that may mean; secondly, find love. Not other way around 😛 Interesting thing is, I never told this girl anything about my less-than-healthy hopes for love in my life. She just figured it out anyway and told me. As I said, one of the most emotionally mature persons I’ve met. Now, if I could only stop comparing every other girl to her…😃