# 23 Asian Male - Hello From Alberta Canada **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [September 21, 2008, 8:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/23-asian-male-hello-from-alberta-canada/20013 "2008-09-21T20:13:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![AhhGiantPotato](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ahhgiantpotato/32/602_2.png) [@AhhGiantPotato](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AhhGiantPotato)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2008, 8:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/23-asian-male-hello-from-alberta-canada/20013/1 "2008-09-21T20:13:58Z")
Salutations, My name is Dennis. I am a 23 year old asian male from Alberta, Canada. I’ve recently finished Pharmacy Tech School, and now work in a Pharmacy inside a local grocery store. I tend to go out often on the weekends to bars and nightclubs and was curous about Pheromones for the longest time. As medicine and chemisty were some common interests of mine, at an early age I’ve been compelled to learn more about how certain chemicals affected the body; hence my career 😛 . I’ve purchased this really cheap [pheromone cologne](https://a314.com/shop/) from a local drug/convienience store years ago to see if it worked. It had an unnatural salt water smell with a light fragrance in a test-tube like bottle. All i’ve ever noticed was people glared more.. not just women but men… although I did tend to drench myself with it (guilty)… nothing much more came of it. Fast forward 5 years later, the interest in medicine and chemisty got me into alot of trouble. After 2 years of Pharmacy school, I chose a very bad career path and I guess after a while I started feeling guilty. Even though the income was ridiculous… and I was very successful at what I did… I just couldn’t sleep at night. So I stopped what I was doing and chose to take schooling again to correct what I’ve done to others… Kinda like karma (not saying im religious or anything)… I’ve walked out on a dangerous path with a very expensive car, alot of friends, few enemies and alot of guilt that I’m slowly trying to fix and earn back my wings 😉. Now i’m out every weekend, looking for the right one… I’d like to say I dress well, am well at conversations with women (that i already know 🙄 ), and a great relationship guy… I’ve never been dumped, and have really good relationships with all of my exes. The problem is… those are all my behind the curtain traits. When i’m at a bar or in public, to women I tend to be the awkward shy person. Or my friends describe me as “If you acted around girls the same way u act around us, you’d be set”… but I just can’t get myself to pick up girls, start interaction, get them to notice me, or even be social. Not even with liquid encouragement (alcohol 😃). Especially because the friends that I hang around are not very approacheable… We hang around in a large group, which sort of looks gang-ish.. and they way we dress kind of looks the part as well. And i guess i act more “enforcer-ish”… or put more of a tough guy act around them too… Even though all my friends are stereotypical asian “heatbags”… Naturally, i’m a caring, nerdy at times, more intellectual person. And probably would like to meet a girl that would not look at me for my assets (gold diggers) that I tend to meet. Sorry to drag this intro along any farther, but the summary is that its hard for me to be natural to women unless they’ve already known me for a while. I’d love to get noticed more, as I feel as though i’m a drone when i’m hanging out in public with my friends. We’re noticed more as a whole, and I think i’d rather be an individual. I’ve already started reading the forums and it seems like A314 would probably be a good start. I’m also wondering what else I should probably use with it.. in my situation. Viva la Pherolution!🙂 Dennis ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2008, 9:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/23-asian-male-hello-from-alberta-canada/20013/2 "2008-09-21T21:32:11Z")
Hey Denis! Welcome to the forum sweetie! lol, wow…you’re studying mecine huh? that’s hard stuff! (or maybe to me…ugh, I can remember those days when I studied science in highschool lol I did manage to get top rank though ^\_^), anyways it’s nice to have a brainy member 😃 Sorry to hear about your past experiences, I hope things get better for you 🙂 Just to let you know, if you wear pheros, you will attract EVERY girl, the “gold-diggers” and the sweet ones. Pheros just enhance you, they don’t attract only a specific kind of girls. Do give instant shine and instant openness a try, they’re great [social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) and they’ll people more comfortable and chatty around you. Have fun! and good luck! ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2008, 9:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/23-asian-male-hello-from-alberta-canada/20013/3 "2008-09-21T21:33:30Z")
hey whast up! its so nice that ur from canada! im from BC myself and im going to med school in philly 🙂 im not sure about A314, although ive heard some good reviews about it.. however, u should also look into the instant lines to ease the communication and make others feel at more ease with you. ive personally used instant openness, instant honesty and instant shine and the products really do what they describe to do 🙂 anywyas, welcome! ---
**Author:** ![Tenant](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tenant/32/1668_2.png) [@Tenant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tenant)\ **Post date:** [September 21, 2008, 9:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/23-asian-male-hello-from-alberta-canada/20013/4 "2008-09-21T21:36:03Z")
Hey Denis! Welcome to the community. Good luck with the medical pursuit, god knows I couldn’t stand that stuff after Organic Chem. While A314 is an awesome pheromone, it has some caveats. In particular, it is very sensitive to your own congruence–i.e. you must personally project the calm, collected attitude to go alone with the a314. As selva has indicated, the socials are good place to start playing with [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) too, so do not write them off. They will definitely aid you in being noticed more, as you put it. ---
**Author:** ![marty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/marty/32/714_2.png) [@marty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/marty)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2008, 12:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/23-asian-male-hello-from-alberta-canada/20013/5 "2008-09-22T00:44:07Z")
Aloha Dennis, While A314 is an amazing product, I don’t think it’s what you are looking for. A314 projects a high status vibe that will make people more intimidated by you. They’ll want you, but they’ll be too afraid to say anything. And while it will make you feel more confident in yourself, we want you to come off as approachable. I’d really recommend trying some IO. It’s like liquid chatterbox, it makes you want to talk to people and makes people want to talk to you. Really great at opening doors, which is our goal here. You should also try Ishine. it puts people in a really good mood and makes the whole world around you seem a bit brighter. Those two products should combine to make you more approachable and friendly looking to others. Then you can work the magic of your own personality. IH is also great for making conversations deeper, but I don’t find it’s very good for starting them out of the blue. That’s where IO excells, so I think for you it would be the better choice. You sound like you’ve got a lot of depth of character, all we need to do is get the ball rolling. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) is also a great product that helps light the sparks and make you appear more desirable. It’s much easier working than A314 and mixes really well with the socials. So if I had to recomend three, I’d say get a to-go of Ammo, Shine, and IO. Ammo for attraction. Shine for cheer. And IO for conversation. One cavet, you still need to try and make yourself a bit more accessible for these to work. Sometimes, all you need to do is give a girl a really big smile, or say hello. Or accidentally bump into them. While you’re up getting a drink even, seperate yourself from the group even a little to give people the breathing room for an interaction to happen. Even a friendly looking group is still a group, and even the most confident people don’t want to walk up and start a conversation with someone surrounded by all that. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [September 22, 2008, 7:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/23-asian-male-hello-from-alberta-canada/20013/6 "2008-09-22T19:30:26Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. Sounds as if you are in very good hands as far as making solid decisions that could effect the rest of your life. Sometimes we do things based on financial opportunity that can leave others in a bad way. I’m glad you decided that your life was important enough to change for the better. As you are aware this greatly effects those who might have been hurt by your actions. Nice work! OH, and awesome introduction post. It earned you an extra special Gift Certificate which I will be sending you shortly. Welcome.