# 40 year old - first try with pheromes **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 20, 2013, 2:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/40-year-old-first-try-with-pheromes/59370 "2013-06-20T14:13:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![TroubleMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/87869e/32.png) [@TroubleMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TroubleMan)\ **Post date:** [June 20, 2013, 2:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/40-year-old-first-try-with-pheromes/59370/1 "2013-06-20T14:13:11Z")
I heard from somewhere else that I trust there’s real evidence for the effectiveness of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). I guess it’s time to give them a shot. There’s a lot of great information here, so I’ll be reading a lot. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [June 20, 2013, 2:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/40-year-old-first-try-with-pheromes/59370/2 "2013-06-20T14:49:03Z")
Welcome to the forum. You can find the experiences of many people as you browse around. If you tell us a bit about your personality, how you relate to people, and what types of changes you would like to see, we may be able to give some good advice. And, perhaps not coincidentally, that is what it takes to qualify for the introductory gift certificate. ---
**Author:** ![TroubleMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/87869e/32.png) [@TroubleMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TroubleMan)\ **Post date:** [June 20, 2013, 3:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/40-year-old-first-try-with-pheromes/59370/3 "2013-06-20T15:13:55Z")
> [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](#): > > Welcome to the forum. You can find the experiences of many people as you browse around. > > If you tell us a bit about your personality, how you relate to people, and what types of changes you would like to see, we may be able to give some good advice. And, perhaps not coincidentally, that is what it takes to qualify for the introductory gift certificate. There’s a couple of things I’m looking for: 1. Just became a manager at work. I’m interested if A314 would help. A new manager can often struggle with establishing himself/herself if not assertive in the beginning (but you don’t want to be too bossy). 2. Divorced and take care of two kids by myself and I’m extremely busy. I don’t have much time to go out to places that are traditionally thought of as pick-up places. I’m looking for something that brings the attention to me a little more. I’m in great shape and look good, but in my 20’s I used to have women approach me. Now they usually don’t. I have to make an effort, and I don’t want to look like a creep who constantly hits on women in front of my young daughter. She looks up to me and we’re very close - I feel uncomfortable making overt moves on women around her. It feels more natural when they come to me. I’m constantly around my kids or working, so there’s really no club time or going out time. 3. Just general knowledge. I’m very big into the science of biochemistry, mostly as it relates to fitness, but this is closely related. I love reading the sciency stuff. ---
**Author:** ![JKim](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jkim/32/1741_2.png) [@JKim](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/JKim)\ **Post date:** [June 20, 2013, 4:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/40-year-old-first-try-with-pheromes/59370/4 "2013-06-20T16:47:49Z")
Welcome! A314 will definitely help you for your position. The product will bring out the “sucess vibe” and help you gain respect from your fellow coworkers. Using A314 will not make you look like “a bossy manager” but instead bring out that manager status. As for your second concern I believe that the combination use of AMMO and Instant shine can help you improve with having women approach you instead. However pheromones will not do all the work for you; maybe sometimes you have to approach other women in order to interact with them. ---
**Author:** ![Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gone_with_the_wind/32/2227_2.png) [@Gone\_with\_the\_Wind](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gone_with_the_Wind)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2013, 5:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/40-year-old-first-try-with-pheromes/59370/5 "2013-06-21T05:39:32Z")
A314 is something you should definately try for work. Certain women find it attractive too. They tend to be high status, self reliant women looking for LTR. IG is another rone based product like a314, but a bit more relaxed and approachable. Again, often attractive to women seeking ltr. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) is anone based and has a bit more of the player vibe. ---
**Author:** ![TroubleMan](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/87869e/32.png) [@TroubleMan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/TroubleMan)\ **Post date:** [June 21, 2013, 2:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/40-year-old-first-try-with-pheromes/59370/6 "2013-06-21T14:45:10Z")
Thanks for the responses. ---
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [June 22, 2013, 2:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/40-year-old-first-try-with-pheromes/59370/7 "2013-06-22T02:16:37Z")
Hello TroubleMan, Welcome! These guys are pretty smart, they’ll be able to get you started pretty well. Please let us know if you come up with any more questions. As a word of advice, it’s probably not a good idea to wear any sexual pheros around your daughter. It’s recommended that sexual products not be used around children, and things can be awkward if they’re used around family in general. Looking forward to hearing about your experiences! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 26, 2013, 3:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/40-year-old-first-try-with-pheromes/59370/8 "2013-06-26T15:34:49Z")
Welcome Troubleman, This is a super informal and not so tailored response if you will. I would luuuuuuuv to spend more time assisting you especially since you are a newbie. We are short staffed and these gift certificates are done manually. It takes a great deal and I am back logged. I am hoping that when I catch up on my work, I can start answering these intro threads the way I use to In fact, I am hoping that soon, someone more experienced than me can come in so I get to do what I am great at, customer service. Thank you for giving pheromones a chance. Your gc was issued!