# 50 Clues Your Partner is Having an Affair

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Some of these signs of cheating are “tongue in cheek” while others are tell-tale signs that commonly appear with a cheating husband or cheating wife.  
**1)** You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you’ve had a  
vasectomy.  
**2)** Mutual friends start acting strangely toward you. (They either know  
about the cheating or have been told stories about what a horrible wife  
or girlfriend you are.)  
**3)** Your cheating husband or wife stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.  
**4)** Sets up a new e-mail account and doesn’t tell you about it.  
**5)** He leaves the house in the morning smelling like Irish Spring and  
returns in the evening smelling like Safeguard.  
**6)** She joins the gym and begins a rigorous workout program.  
**7)** She buys a cell phone and doesn’t let you know.  
**8)** He sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to his office.  
**9)** The cheating husband carries condoms, and you are on the pill.  
**10)** Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.  
**11)** Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.  
**12)** He becomes “accusatory,” asking if you are being true to him, usually out of guilt.  
**13)** Raises hypothetical questions such as, “Do you think it’s possible  
to love more than one person at a time?”  
**14)** He buys himself new underwear.  
**15)** He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.  
**16)** The cheating wife stops wearing her wedding ring.  
**17)** Has a sudden desire to be helpful with the laundry.  
**18)** Has unexplained scratches or bruises on his or her neck or back.  
**19)** Suddenly wants to try new love techniques.  
**20)** He/she fairly suddenly stops having sex with you.  
**21)** He/she suddenly wants more sex, more often.  
**22)** Supposedly works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the  
pay stub.  
**23)** Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.  
**24)** You find out by accident he or she took vacation day or personal  
time off from work - but supposedly worked on those days.  
**25)** Shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.  
**26)** Spouse’s co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.  
**27)** Has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.  
**28)** Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer, especially  
after you have gone to bed.  
**29)** He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress’s house and  
had to eat the dinner you prepared when he got home.  
**30)** Your spouse is away from home, either nights or on trips, more  
than previously.  
**31)** His/her clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume or after-shave. You  
see lipstick on your husband’s shirt.  
**32)** The amount of money being deposited into your checking account  
drops off.  
**33)** You find items of intimate apparel or other small gift-type items that you did not give your spouse.  
**34)** Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is “touchy”  
and easily moved to anger.  
**35)** You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your  
voice.  
**36)** He/she loses attention in the activities in the home.  
**37)** Your intuition (gut feeling) tells you that something is not right.  
**38)** He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the  
home.  
**39)** She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.  
**40)** She has a “glow” about her.  
**41)** Atypical erratic behavior.  
**42)** He sneaks out of the house.  
**43)** She sleeps with her purse by the bed  
**44)** She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.  
**45)** He tells you can get hold of him at a different telephone number.  
**46)** He or She comes straight home and takes an immediate shower.  
**47)** Your spouse seems bored. Bored with you, with job, with kids, with hobbies, with life in general.  
**48)** Your spouse seems to want danger or thrills in his/her life.  
**49)** Your spouse deletes the internet history and cookies on the computer to cover his or her tracks.  
**50)** Your spouse is indifferent to family events like birthdays and holidays.