# A big warm hello from NYC **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [November 1, 2011, 6:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-big-warm-hello-from-nyc/53098 "2011-11-01T06:39:05Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 9\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![jhillx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/13edae/32.png) [@jhillx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jhillx)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2011, 6:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-big-warm-hello-from-nyc/53098/1 "2011-11-01T06:39:05Z")
Ok so here I go, I’m 28 years old originally from Israel now living in New York city. My first post here was [this](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/best-mones-for-family-bonding/53080). I asked to receive some recommendations for mones that could potentially break the ice or relieve some weird tension between my father and I. He is visiting me from Israel my home country. Again, I’m in NYC and here is where my quest to research and discover [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) began. It was a few months ago, I was standing in line at a Rite Aid and in front of me was this asian dude. I never ever notice a guy - but I couldn’t help smelling such a “luxurious” GOOD smell coming from this dude. I just felt his presence and the smell was wonderful. I didn’t want to be a weirdo and ask him about the fragrance and that is something I truly regret today. I placed it out of my thoughts, but it lingered in my mind nagging me from time to time - that I absolutely needed to FIND this scent for myself. So I started crawling the net doing my research and somehow stumbled upon Pheromones. I fell upon this wonderful forum and started reading.. now I am nearly convinced. There can’t be so many false placebo situations so I am 95% a believer until I try this for myself. More about me: I’m 5’10, 160. I go out a lot enjoying the nightlife NYC has to offer. So I will definitely have some fun experimenting with mones. My main goal is to lighten up the tension and awkward vibe within my family gatherings. You see I come from a “well-to-do” family and my father is quite conservative and I always get the vibe he is underwhelmed with me that I didn’t follow his “footsteps” getting into his business or acting like him and all that.. you know the typical father son dysfunction story. I dislike the vibe between us. Heavy, no? So I know mones won’t magically fix everything but they might enhance the atmosphere. That would be great. I’m looking forward to maybe starting a journal to document my adventures, or “hits” and to contribute to these beautiful forums! So I’m looking for a great social mix, and also a sexual mix. Any recommendation would be appreciated. I am ready to place my first order, so I would love this $25 gift card issued! That would really help. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Aghor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aghor/32/1558_2.png) [@Aghor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aghor)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2011, 6:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-big-warm-hello-from-nyc/53098/2 "2011-11-01T06:51:36Z")
Hello, welcome to pherotalk, > [@jhillx](#): > > My main goal is to lighten up the tension and awkward vibe within my family gatherings. You see I come from a “well-to-do” family and my father is quite conservative and I always get the vibe he is underwhelmed with me that I didn’t follow his “footsteps” getting into his business or acting like him and all that.. you know the typical father son dysfunction story. I dislike the vibe between us. Heavy, no? > So I know mones won’t magically fix everything but they might enhance the atmosphere. That would be great. > 😃 Looks like your dad is kinda disappointed with you or what you have done. Am I right there ? and you want to mend fences with him..without bending over backwards.. What I would suggest is A314 + [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) + Instant Shine A314 is probably androtic’s flagship product. its a trust and respect pheromone.. a cocktail of 8+ pheros intended to project the vibe of a successful and dependable and trustworthy man. typically used in work environment to gain respect of colleagues and superiors.. essentially it makes career progression smoother. In your situation I hope using A314 would make your father look at you as an achiever instead of being disappointed in you.. Instant Honesty when used with A314 amplifies its dependability vibe several time.. its like together they project a vibe of success and dependability and creates bonding. IH is excellent for bonding.. so hopefully it would reduce the silent friction between both of you. Instant Shine is also a must here. feel good phero can diffuse friction and awkwardness of the situation. Here is the suggested dossage. A314- 2 drops IH- 4 sprays IS -4 sprays hope this works for you. In case you find the oil version above your budget, you can try the spray version. In case you dont want to smell like a perfumery, get 2x strength of IH and Shine and use 2 sprays instead of 4 ---
**Author:** ![looifookmeng](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/8baadc/32.png) [@looifookmeng](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/looifookmeng)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2011, 7:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-big-warm-hello-from-nyc/53098/3 "2011-11-01T07:24:44Z")
Hi there, Aghor has already given you fantastic advice which you should definitely follow so mainly going to say hi(^_^)Pretty cool how you got into pheromones.Thats always difficult when a father thinks that their son didnt live up to their expectations.Not really realistic to think that a son should always follow in their footsteps nowadays.A314 will definitely give him the vibe that your doing well and of high status.Although it could also cause a confrontation possibly if it intimidates your dad(\>_\<)High doses of instant shine and instant honesty like aghor said will help counteract that possibility though(^_^)Looking forward to reading your journals and adventures when you start them.A good social mix would be instant shine+instant openness/instant honesty,and to make it a sexual mix,you would just have to add ammo to it.All the best and hope things go well with your dad.Mickaelia should be around to issue your gift certificate in a day or two depending how busy she is.Catch ya later(^_^) ---
**Author:** ![Oasis314](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/oasis314/32/219_2.png) [@Oasis314](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oasis314)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2011, 12:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-big-warm-hello-from-nyc/53098/4 "2011-11-01T12:46:47Z")
Note that you might want to first try out the toGO versions before committing towards the full 30ml versions 🙂 But rest assured that with practise, trial and error and active tracking, you will reach a stage whereby applying mones will more or less become second nature. The timing, frequency and social awareness skills will all be heightened to a significant extent. Having said that, all the best to your journey friend 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![jhillx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/13edae/32.png) [@jhillx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jhillx)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2011, 4:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-big-warm-hello-from-nyc/53098/5 "2011-11-01T16:52:52Z")
Sounds good! I am quite excited. Thanks for the detailed responses. **Aghor** : My dad was kinda disappointed with my actions when i was younger. I was rebellious. I didn’t really care how he felt but now as I’m maturing I see that good relationship with my family is what I want. **looifookmeng** : Thanks for the advice! **Oasis314** : Thank you for pointing that out about the ToGo bottles! That will be awesome to try those out before comitting to the bigger bottles which I probably will be doing! I have a very good feeling about all this. 🙂 First thing I’ll do when I get the mones is start a journal. ---
**Author:** ![Aghor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aghor/32/1558_2.png) [@Aghor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aghor)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2011, 5:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-big-warm-hello-from-nyc/53098/6 "2011-11-01T17:13:52Z")
At young age most kids are rebellious.. may be you went a bit too far by your father’s measure… but thats ok… now that some time has passed..he wouldn’t mind putting it behind him especially if he feels that you are doing well for yourself. when you are wearing A314+IH and Shine .. you can take the initiative to mend bridges between both of you… chances are that it wont be taken as a sign of weakness. just wait some time so that they are all exposed to your phero cloud .. give some time for it to register in their subconscious… after than chances of being rebuffed will be reduced… I guess rest would depend on how far you two have drifted already and how you manage to communicate with him. worst case you may need several exposures to bring them around… I swear by the bonding ability of IH and the mood up liftment of Shine hope things workout for you. ---
**Author:** ![jhillx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/13edae/32.png) [@jhillx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jhillx)\ **Post date:** [November 1, 2011, 11:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-big-warm-hello-from-nyc/53098/7 "2011-11-01T23:04:01Z")
Aghor: I can’t wait to try it out! Thanks for your help, advice and good wishes bro. ---
**Author:** ![jhillx](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/13edae/32.png) [@jhillx](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jhillx)\ **Post date:** [November 2, 2011, 6:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-big-warm-hello-from-nyc/53098/8 "2011-11-02T06:22:28Z")
**I just placed my order!** Very excited about all this. 🙂 Ordered ToGo spray bottles of A314, IH, IS, IO, and AMMO. All in x2 double strength. I just want to say the shopping site is tremendously detailed, fantastic and placing my ordering was an easy breezy task. The $25 GC + the points really makes the shopping experience even better. Most of all I’m so impressed with this community (this forum) full of cool devoted people. Stay tuned for my reviews and more. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [November 3, 2011, 10:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-big-warm-hello-from-nyc/53098/9 "2011-11-03T22:11:00Z")
Welcome to pherotalk jhillix! Good luck with everything _ **Your gc was issued! 🙂** _