# A Black Man's Daily Nightclub Adventures

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**Category:** Men's Journals\
**Created:** [October 31, 2013, 3:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392 "2013-10-31T03:35:35Z")\
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**Author:** ![007](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/0/a4c791/32.png) [@007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/007)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2013, 3:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/1 "2013-10-31T03:35:35Z")

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hey guys,

I’ve decided to start a journal here as a long term way to track my progress.

I have a lifestyle that allows me to go out every night so I will update this journal daily.

I have to warn you that this will be a completelly uncensored journal with very long and detailed posts.

Any feedback regarding the daily updates I’ll post are greatly appreciated.

First, let’s start with…

**My Story/Background Information**

- I’m a 21 year old, 6-1 black guy.

- I guess most girls consider me a good looking guy as I get some form of female attention (ioi) literally every day and I’ve actually been approached by girls multiple times in the past without any [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) though these girls where not hot.

- I would not describe myself as shy but I am introverted. Also, I’ve actually just turned 21 and have literally only been going to nightclubs for the past week and a half. Being so new to this world I still have trouble approaching girls in this environment.

**My Goal**

My overall goal is simple, I want to get to a point where I can consistently take a girl home from the club each night i go out.

**Field Reports:**

Below are field reports for my first 3 nights of going out with pheromones.

**Monday October 28th:**

Application:

- Ammunition: 2 sprays on front of the neck + 1 spray on back of the neck

- TUTH: 1 spray on chest

- Openess: 1 spray on each forearm

- Honesty: 1 spray on each wrist

- Shine: 1 spray on left and right of neck

**Self effects:**

- Nothing significant but felt a bit more cocky then usual so far in my time going to nightclubs.

**Obvious IOIs from girls:**

- 2 hot girls spent over an hour dancing beside me instead of on the dancefloor trying to get my attention

- one girl with a nice ass but chubby face opened me directly.

- one blonde girl with nice body and plain/ok face spent a lot of time checking me out + dancing besides me trying to get my attention.

**Effects on guys:**

- No agressiveness and a weird respect/intimidation.

**My Behaviour In The Club:**

- Unfortunately, I was unable to force myself to approach any girl and spent my night standing at the bar.

**My Thoughts:**

- I spend most my time standing at the bar not being social and I think that was incongruent with the mix; I think this mix requires that  
I be social and outgoing to work at its best. I think at least if I had spent time laughing/smiling to look more social it would have helped.

- I also never tried to make eye contact with girls so I’m not sure how that affected this aspect. Next time I wear this mix I think I need to try  
to make eye contact with girls and smile and then wave them over and see what happens.

- I also think next time the first thing i should do i walk around the club a few times next to the hot girls so they can smell me and then I can try  
opening them.

**Tuesday October 29th:**

**Test #1:**

**Application:**

- Ammunition: 2 sprays on chest + 1 Spray on back of the neck

- TUTH: 2 small sprays + one big spray on front of neck

- Openess: 1 spray on each forearm

- Honesty: 1 spray on each wrist

- Shine: one spray on left and right of neck.

**Self effects:**

- Nothing that stood out.

**Obvious IOIs from girls:**

- nothing that stood out. There where definitely some IOIs but nothing that I have not seen before with no pheromones.

**Effects on guys:**

- Did not have any interations with any guys.

**My Thoughts:**

- I tested this from 9:30 to 10:30 PM on a university campus, I basically went around asking girls for directions to see how they reacted to me.

- This mix might be too strong but I need to test it more in depth to find out for sure.

**Test#2:**

This test was the same day as test 1 but just under 2 hours later; so as you will see below I added more pheromones to what I had already put for test 1.

**Application:**

- TUTH: 2 medium sprays on front of neck + one medium spray on back of neck

- Shine: 1 spray on left and right of neck.

**Self effects:**

- Nothing that stood out.

**Obvious IOIs from girls:**

- nothing that I have not experienced before with no pheromones but I definitely did not OD as I got multiple IOIs throughout the night.

**Effects on guys:**

- Did not have any interations with any guys.

**My Behaviour In The Club:**

- Unfortunately, I again did not approach any girls.

**My Thoughts:**

- I tested this from 12:15 to 1:20 AM at a bar.

**Wednesday October 30th:**

**Application:**

- TUTH: 2 small sprays on front of neck + one big spray on chest + one medium spray on back of neck

- Shine: 1 spray on left and right of neck

- Openess: one spray on left and right forearm

- Honesty: one big spray on each wrist

**Self effects:**

- Had an easier time being social.

**Obvious IOIs from girls:**

- None. Tonight I received by far the lowest amount of IOI I’ve ever experienced in my 10 days of going to clubs. I literally got a lot less IOI compared to what I’ve received even with no pheromones in my short time going to nightclubs. I really dont think I overdosed since guys where friendly and I didnt sense girls where avoiding me.

**Effects on guys:**

- Very social and friendly, had more conversations with random guys then ever before in my short time going out to nightclubs.

**My Behavior At The Club:**

I was able to do some approaches tonight. here’s the full details on how they went:

- As I was walking around looking for an opportunity to approach, this girl with the exact body i love came right towards me and I unconsciously/instinctively reacted and i literally pulled her in by the hips. I dont remember the full details but basically I pulled her in so we where face to face, I told her how hot she was, I would turn her around put her ass on my dick and would grind for a few seconds then i would turn her around grab her by the hips so we are face to face…basically just moving her around examining/enjoying her body. I could tell she was a bit overwhelmed so i would say things like "sorry I;m being too touchy and physically push her away for a bit and talk then pull her back in as I said how hot she was. She told me she was actually the marketing manager for the club, I told he she was full of shiet and she pulled out her card proving it. Then I told her how I was in internet marketing…I dont think she believed me. Unfortunately, at this point (probably after like 4-7 min) I had no idea what to do/talk about to continue the interaction and I think she could tell this… so I said “I have to go find my friends” and asked for her number and she refused. I insisted and challenged her to a staring contest for her number…she refused and started dancing away from me and thats how it ended. I

- The 2nd girl I opened after was a similar situation. I grabbed her by the hips and was again very physical and proceeded to basically move the girl around as i examined her body while telling her how hot she was (which she was). At one point, i turned her around and spanked her ass after she told me she was wearing zebra stripped pants. I also remember she was holding her cell phone in her hand and i grabbed it and put it away in her pants telling her the club was for socializing. She replied by saying she had 2 kids and needed to check up on them or something…I think she was lying but I remember i used her saying that as an excuse to again pull her in and get physical as I told her there was no way she had 2 kids with that body and how she was the sexiest Milf I’d met. She laughed hard at this. Then she started telling me how she was a lesbian and started grabbing her friend she was with saying they where married or some shiet. Her friend was talking with this other guy, …I joked with him that he should not try to get the friend since they where lesbians…he started saying some shiet about how the 3 of them where cousins or some shiet, not sure how it happened but eventually the girl I opened went behind her friend near this guy, i tried pulling her back, she resisted…the guy kept saying shiet about how they where cousins…I walked away

- After this the next open was not really an open but it’s an interesting interaction…basically this girl with a nice ass was wearing a hat…i reached out, grabbed her hat and put it on my head (not sure what my plan was here)…out of nowhere this guy in front of me grabs the hat from my head and starts yelling “dont take her fucking hat” in an agressive way…now I’ve been in many fights so I never panick in situatiosn like this …also I’m actually suprised by the guys reaction since I thought it was obvious i was joking…so i laugh and I’m like “cant u tell its a joke man”…he’s like dont fucking joke like that and gets a bit closer to me …again having been in many fights I know instictively he’s just acting tough and really does not want to fight so I’m like “she can talk for herself”, then the girl comes and is like “it’s ok, he’s just drunk, turn around and have a good night”…basically it turned out that this girl was the sister of that angry guy’s best friend and i guess he was “looking out for her”. It’s funny because the girls actual brother was actually standing next to me during this entire interaction and he was all chill and apolagizing for his drunk friend. Eventually the guy calmed down, apolagized and i talked to their group of 3 guys for a bit about silly guy stuff like what race has the hottest girls.

- I also had one other attempt that went nowhere, this girl was walking by and i grabbed her hand and tried to pull her towards me, she resisted and gave me this look like “not interested”. It’s funny because she was the least attractive of the 3 girls i went physical on.

- My last approach was at the end of the night… as I got out of the washroom this blonde girl looks at me and points right, I’m like “whats over there?” …she mumbles something that i dont remember and i start to walk away…then I think to myself that this must be her way of trying to get my attention…so I take a step back and say “hi, I’m (name)…who are you?” and i extend my hand to offer a hand shake…she looks at my hand shakes her head and says “no”… I’m suprised because this same girl was one of the very few girls that had actually given me multiple iois earlier in the night…so like I said im suprised by her refusing my hand shake offer but I dont panick…I keep my hand up and look at her with a suprised /wtf look and ask " are u a bitch?"…she says “no”…then I’m like “why are u acting like a bitch then and not shaking my hand”…she reaches down and shakes my hand…I notice she has a ring on her hand…im like “are you married?”…she replies “yes”…I’m like “then why are u here?” and tell her how night clubs are for single people to socialize…I ask her age she ways 19…I ask why the fuck is she married at 19 and she’s like “why are you not married?”…im like because im fucking 21 years old…I know she’s BS about being married so I’m like tell me the exact date you got married and she tries to make up a BS date…and I give her this look like “got u”…after that she tells me some shiet about how the ring was passed down from her grandma…for some reason i say “was your grandma a bitch?” and bring the subject back to her being a bitch and refusing to shake my hand…she’s like no…after this I just turned around and walked away without saying anything…i felt it was going nowhere, and part of me kind of did not want to deal with her anymore after her WTF moment at the start with the handshake…and she had also mentioned at one point that her boyfriend worked at the club.

**My Thoughts:**

- Like i said this was by far my worst night for IOI in my short time going to nightclubs but again I dont think i overdosed since most guys where friendly.

- And as you can see from the approaches i did, girls where not really feeling me tonight. My theory is i came across as a guy who was obviously on the prowl but that’s just a guess; I’m really not sure why things went so badly.

Any advice/suggestions/help is greatly appreciated.

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**Author:** ![still18](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/34f0e0/32.png) [@still18](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/still18)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2013, 3:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/2 "2013-10-31T03:46:41Z")

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Good start on the journal, I do think you overdid it on the TUTH on your last report. I would not use TUTH at all, it is too sexual. Go back to 1 or 2 sprays of AMMO to attract the girls, AMMO does get sexual at some point when the girl starts to get into you. I would save TUTH at the end of the night to spice and heat things up, or when you actually have a girl in your bed if that is what you want.

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**Author:** ![007](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/0/a4c791/32.png) [@007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/007)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2013, 4:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/3 "2013-10-31T04:00:08Z")

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> [@still18](#):
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> Good start on the journal, I do think you overdid it on the TUTH on your last report. I would not use TUTH at all, it is too sexual. Go back to 1 or 2 sprays of AMMO to attract the girls, AMMO does get sexual at some point when the girl starts to get into you. I would save TUTH at the end of the night to spice and heat things up, or when you actually have a girl in your bed if that is what you want.

Hey man,

I was actually thinking maybe TUTH was the problem but I’ve read on here that its hard to overdose in a crowded nightclub so thats why i wore so much.

And also I am looking to take girls home and i thought TUTH would make them horny but that did not seem to be the case tonight. I think tomorrow I will roll with no TUTH and see what happens.

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**Author:** ![XyzN](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xyzn/32/2416_2.png) [@XyzN](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/XyzN)\
**Post date:** [October 31, 2013, 8:04am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/4 "2013-10-31T08:04:40Z")

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From what I’ve read on from others about nightclubs, there are tons of other guys who are already producing a ton of -enone. Trying to attract ladies with a high amount of -none on yourself may not work as good as you’d expect. Surely it could, but these girls are probably already feeling hot enough as is being with all these guys around.

You may have had better time when you wore [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) the first tests because Ammo has Alpha Nols (a social mone) and Rones (a status/alpha mone) to buffer the -none.

My recommendation, go higher on socials and/or lower the -none output. Lower Tuth or drop entirely, use Ammo in place of it. Try out more rone heavy products like IG or A314.

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**Author:** ![redlion](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/8491ac/32.png) [@redlion](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/redlion)\
**Post date:** [November 3, 2013, 3:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/5 "2013-11-03T15:58:52Z")

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Hey 007, you write a great report! These were detailed and interesting, and fun to read.

My first suggestion, and this is assuming this is your first experimentation with pheromones (“Below are field reports for my first 3 nights of going out with pheromones.”) is to start with one or two pheromones at most. Instead of spraying one of everything, try spraying a particularly strong dose of just one product. See if you can spot the set of effects that pertain to you. Not every pheromone (or mix of pheromones, like the consumer lines) will have the same set of effects for every user. Your first goal should be to see what effects each product have for you individually. This is about results, amirite?

If you want to maximize the effect, you ought to start with sweet spot testing for a base product like Ammo. Find out what gets consistent results for you, and go from there. Ammo and IG can work wonders on their own if you know your sweet spot dosage.

Then add in the social pheros (IO, IH, IS) to augment the vibe you give off. IO for a get to know you feel, IH if you want to make a deeper connection, IS for a happy-go-lucky attitude (both for you and others).

Beware though, large and equal amounts of all of them turns you into a ghost. It’s a phero-overload. One might say… a phero-bomb. I think a few of those girls were turned away by how crazy a scent you must have been putting off. 10 sprays of pheros on your first go? Crazy!

Find out what one spray of one product does. Then two sprays. Then three, until it has a negative reaction, an OD. Then do this for each product. Then you’ll know what you’re working with. Until then you’re bound to kinda take shots in the dark, if you know what I mean.

But I love that you’re writing it down! That’s the best part about a journal, one day you’ll see your first post and think - man, I had some balls! LOL

Keep at it brotha.

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**Post date:** [November 3, 2013, 7:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/6 "2013-11-03T19:21:18Z")

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Also in addition to OD’ing, you test your OD levels around different people. You keep doing this till you find your suitable OD level for the general populus, a certain age group, certain ethnicity, etc. You can have different OD levels for everyone 😛

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**Author:** ![007](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/0/a4c791/32.png) [@007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/007)\
**Post date:** [December 8, 2013, 11:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/7 "2013-12-08T11:24:36Z")

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**Field Report:**

**Saturday December 7th:**

- Until today I had stopped using pheromones because I was getting less attention from girls with them then without them. Of course this was probably due to the fact that I was using so many different pheromones at once so today I decided to try pheromones again but this time with proper testing.

- I only sprayed one drop of ammo on my neck before going out, that’s it. I went to a packed club and the attention from girls was good but really nothing noticeably better then what I’ve experienced before without any pheromones. I also know i did not OD as I don’t remember any weird reactions like girls running away from me or something like the last time I used pheromones. Tomorrow I’ll go out again and this time with 2 drops of ammo.

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**Author:** ![007](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/0/a4c791/32.png) [@007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/007)\
**Post date:** [March 7, 2016, 6:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/8 "2016-03-07T06:40:37Z")

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hey guys,

I’ll be going clubbing a lot for the next few months so I’ve decided to restart this journal to track my progress and get some feedback/help.

**About me:**

-I’m 23 years old, black male, 6 foot 1

**My goals:**

- to have sex with as many hot girls as possible

**Why did i started using mones:**

-I’m tall and good looking and get plenty of attention from girls without mones.

-But I’m shy and it’s hard for me to make the first move so i mostly rely on girls approaching me and making the 1st move to get laid.

-Girls do approach me pretty often without mones but usually girls will give me signs they are interested but they wont actually make the 1st move to start talking to me.

-I want to find out if with pheromones I can get more girls to actually make the 1st move and start talking to me or at least get them to give me such blatant signs of interest that it makes it easier for me to overcome my shyness and talk to them.

**Saturday March 5th Report:**

**Location:**

- loud , busy dark nightclub

**My mix:**

-7 sprays of jerk rubbed all over my neck and upper chest.

**My Gameplan:**

- I decided to put on this very strong mix and go to the club near closing time.

- The club closes at 2:30 AM and I arrived at 1:30.

- I positioned myself in a high traffic area near the exit.

**The Results On Me:**

- Jerk puts me in a very cocky “i’m the coolest guy ever” frame of mind.

- I was leaning back in the high traffic area with body language and vibe like I felt i was the coolest/hottest/best guy in the place.

**The Results On Girls:**

- no girl approached me directly

- Around 10 hot girls gave clear signs of interest.

- Most of the signs i got was girls coming and positioning themselves near me for no reason.

- One woman who looked early 30s was more bold came and stood directly in front of me made eye contact for 2 sec then walked away.

I’m dissapointed to say i did not approach any of these girls but one reason for this was that even though a lot of girls showed interest ; most of these girls never made eye contact even when i looked at them several times.

It was weird, because they where clearly interested and i would look at them to show i was also interested but they would never look back but would stay near me.

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**Author:** ![Conjurator](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/conjurator/32/410_2.png) [@Conjurator](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Conjurator)\
**Post date:** [March 7, 2016, 6:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/9 "2016-03-07T06:47:15Z")

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Thanks for pursuing your journal. I’ll read with interest.

Maybe 7 X IJ is a bit overboard. Try lowering the dose next time.

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**Author:** ![justintime469](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/justintime469/32/1402_2.png) [@justintime469](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/justintime469)\
**Post date:** [March 8, 2016, 12:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/10 "2016-03-08T00:44:21Z")

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Nice journal and thanks for starting one. A lot of the doses seem very high and some of the mixes like your first post seem like there are to many to tell what is doing what. I did the same exact thing when I first started and thought pheromones didn’t work. It took me 2 years to realize what I have done which was mix to many things or wear to much of something.

I tend to stick to no more than 3 products at once and this is if I solo test each one first so I know what it is doing in a mix and how to adjust it.

Being 21 and fit you already produce lots on None already. I would try 3 sprays Ammo and see what you get in the club

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**Author:** ![007](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/0/a4c791/32.png) [@007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/007)\
**Post date:** [March 8, 2016, 5:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/11 "2016-03-08T05:03:37Z")

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> [@justintime469](#):
>
> Nice journal and thanks for starting one. A lot of the doses seem very high and some of the mixes like your first post seem like there are to many to tell what is doing what. I did the same exact thing when I first started and thought pheromones didn’t work. It took me 2 years to realize what I have done which was mix to many things or wear to much of something.
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> I tend to stick to no more than 3 products at once and this is if I solo test each one first so I know what it is doing in a mix and how to adjust it.
> 
> Being 21 and fit you already produce lots on None already. I would try 3 sprays Ammo and see what you get in the club

hey man,

Thanks for the advice.

Btw, I’m 23 years old NOT 21.

I originally started this journal back in 2013 when i was 21 but that was over 2 years ago.

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**Author:** ![007](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/0/a4c791/32.png) [@007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/007)\
**Post date:** [March 8, 2016, 10:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/12 "2016-03-08T10:49:10Z")

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**Monday March 8th Report**

**Location:**

- dark, loud and super busy bar with small dancefloor.

**The Mix:**

- At 12:45 AM I applied 5 sprays of jerk rubbed all over my neck and upper chest.

**Results:**

If my dream night is 100% then tonight was 20%.

- I Arrived inside the club at 1:16 AM and even though the place was going to close in 1 hour it was still packed inside.

- While waiting in line outside to get inside this short cute blonde girl started making small talk with me asking me about the club and why they where making us wait. She had an accent that seemed either British or Australian.

- I made no attempt to take the interaction with this girl anywhere because we had no sexual chemistry at all. We where very close to each other and where holding eye contact as we talked. Usually when I’m that close to a girl i’m attracted to and there’s eye contact i will literally get hard and start to get turned on but with this girl I felt nothing. Maybe i felt nothing because she had no sexual interest in me and really was just trying to make small talk. My experience tells me girls dont usually start talking to guys they have 0 sexual interest in but who knows maybe she was drunk.

- When I got inside at first it was hard to get any clear signs of interest from girls since the place was so packed and there where so many guys around me so it wasn’t clear if a girl standing there was there for me or one of the other guys.

- Later on when the place got more empty at closing time at 2AM I found a bar near the exit and leaned back against the bar with very cocky vibe and body language in a way like i thought i was the coolest guy ever.

- I got 5-7 signs of interest during the last 10-15 min that the place was closed but no girl approached me directly.

- I think it might be time to switch to a drastically different mix. My theory with the jerk heavy mix was that it would repel tons of girls but then a few would be so turned on/attracted that they would approach me directly or give me super blatant signs of interest that would make it easier for me to overcome my shyness and make the first move on them.

- This has not been the case at all. What has happened with the jerk heavy mix is basically what happens when i use no pheromones. Girls have not been approaching more and the signs of interest have not really been anymore blatant then what i get with no mones.

- On the good side it seems jerk heavy doesn’t at all repel a lot of girls for me. Everything I read on this forum about jerk was that u will get a lot of negative reactions from girls who dont like jerk at all but then a few really like it.

-That has not been my experience at all, I’ve yet to see any sign of girls being uncomfortable with my presence in nightclubs when I’m wearing a lot of jerk. Girls have either not shown any sign of interest or shown signs of interest of the same level that i get with no mones; ive yet to see any clear sign of girls being disgusted by my presence or anything like that.

-For Example, tonight there where several times when i would be standing super close to a girl and i was expecting some them to immediately leave due to their dislike for my jerk heavy mix but this never happened. Girls who where close to me either did nothing showing no interest or showed subtle interest by glancing my way or getting so close that our bodies are touching for a few sec. There was never any sign of repulsion like a girl leaving the area as soon as i get close to her.

- Of course I have not been approaching these girls so maybe things would be different if i was actually interacting with girls instead of judging everything based on signs of interest.

**Other Thoughts:**

- Tonight i saw the 2nd girl fight i’ve seen n my life. It happened right after i came in. And it happened right in front of me so i think my jerk heavy presence might have played a role. The whole thing was pretty surreal given how masculine the girls where behaving. This brunette girl walks up to these 2 blondes and starts doing the whole “you want to take this outside” trash talking that guys do before fighting. She is saying this to one of the blondes who wants to fight but is being restrained by the other blonde and this white guy. Then suddenly the blonde breaks free and throws a punch to the brunette an chaos ensues as everyone around is cheering and yelling and I’m calmly observing the whole thing in a state of semi disbelief. It should be noted that every single time I’ve now worn a jerk heavy mix there has been a fight at the club. I see a lot of fights in this city when i go clubbing even without mones but never this many so my jerk heavy mix is definitely related.

- 2 of my black friends where inside the place and my super high dose of jerk did not seem to affect them at all which was a relief for me. These 2 guys are both early 30s, super tall (6 foot 4 and 6 foot 5) and muscular so maybe because they are both so physically gifted such a strong/aggressive mix does not phase them at all.

- Other guys where normal and even slightly friendlier then when i wear no pheromones.

- I want to also note something i just realized. In the past when wearing jerk heavy mixes I’ve had hostility from other guys but almost always when i mix jerk with something else like honesty and shine.

- Very rarely do i get any hostility or issues when wearing a jerk heavy mix alone. Also, weirdly when I go places that have a lot of black people with jerk heavy mixes I almost never had any hostility or issues with guys but almost all of my issues when wearing jerk heavy mixes have been when i go to places where I’m the only black guy or there’s very few black people like less then 10.

- I also want to reorganize my thoughts and remind myself why I’m using mones and what I’m trying to accomplish. I get plenty of approach invitations and signs of interest without mones. I’m using mones entirely to get more girls to actually approach me and start talking to me first or at least give me more blatant approach invitations and signs of interest then what I get without mones and hopefully such blatant signs of interest will allow me to overcome my shyness and make the 1st move. Judging by these criterias the jerk heavy mixes are a failure when it comes to my goal so I think its really time to try something else.

I’m going out again tomorrow. Not sure what mix I’ll use but hopefully more girls approach me.

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**Author:** ![007](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/0/a4c791/32.png) [@007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/007)\
**Post date:** [March 11, 2016, 10:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/13 "2016-03-11T10:25:19Z")

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**Thursday March 10th Report**

**Location:**

- CB nightclub exit from 1:30 AM to 3 AM

**The Mix:**

- Applied at 1:10 AM

- 5.5 Sprays of jerk rubbed all over neck and upper chest

**The Results:**

- If my dream night is 100% then tonight was 10%

- No girl approached me directly.

- No blatant or crazy sign of interest from any girl

- Received a few subtle/normal signs of interest from 7-10 girls

- I’ve had much better night without mones and with different mixes.

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**Author:** ![still18](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/34f0e0/32.png) [@still18](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/still18)\
**Post date:** [March 11, 2016, 10:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/14 "2016-03-11T10:57:06Z")

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Liking your journal style, what products do you currently own? BTW 5+ sprays of Jerk is alot!

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**Post date:** [March 11, 2016, 2:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/15 "2016-03-11T14:18:06Z")

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Indeed 5 is probably way too much.

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**Post date:** [March 11, 2016, 3:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/16 "2016-03-11T15:12:28Z")

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If you are going to use a lot of None based products which from reading I am seeing I would try a buffer or something to balance it out if you could like [P74](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p74/), P96, or TAC and there are others to.

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**Post date:** [March 11, 2016, 3:31pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/17 "2016-03-11T15:31:08Z")

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Instead of trying 8 sprays, then 5 sprays, maybe you should try 1 or 2 sprays and increase from there if required?

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**Post date:** [March 12, 2016, 12:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/18 "2016-03-12T00:25:14Z")

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> [@Conjurator](#):
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> Indeed 5 is probably way too much.

what do u mean by this?

I’ve never been ghosted with jerk even at 8 sprays so what exactly do u mean?

My only goal with pheromones is to get blatant signs of interest or get girls actually approaching me at a higher rate.

Are you saying i would be more likely to achieve these goals with less sprays?

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**Post date:** [March 12, 2016, 12:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/19 "2016-03-12T00:26:25Z")

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> [@justintime469](#):
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> If you are going to use a lot of None based products which from reading I am seeing I would try a buffer or something to balance it out if you could like P74, P96, or TAC and there are others to.

I dont know what p74, p96 or TAC is but I have worn jerk with shine and also with honesty before.

It did not really change anything. The results where similar to what i get with jerk on its own.

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**Post date:** [March 12, 2016, 11:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-black-mans-daily-nightclub-adventures/60392/20 "2016-03-12T11:11:56Z")

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**Friday March 11th 2016 Report**

**Summary:**

- After tonight I need to take a long hard look at my approach to life because I really need to change my approach to interacting with other people especially men.

- Basically, I got into a fight with an absolutely gigantic man and I’m extremely lucky to be sitting here typing this post right now instead of spending the night in a hospital.

- I’m now temporarily banned from my absolute favorite nightclub in the world and cannot return there until April and I’m worried even when I return in April they will not let me in. My gut feeling tells me that I’ll never be allowed into that nightclub again.

**The Mix:**

At 1:15 AM I applied 6 sprays of jerk rubbed all over my neck and also on my upper chest.

**The Location:**

- CMW Nightclub, a dark, loud super packed club. I’ve gone clubbing in Las Vegas, Los Angeles and Vancouver but this club remains by far my favorite place in the world. Great music and tons of hot girls.

**The Results:**

I arrived at 1:30 AM and even though the club was closing in 1 hour the place was crazy busy, so busy I could not even find a spot to stand so i went and sat down for 10 min waiting for things to die down.

- At 1:45 AM I went and positioned myself in a high traffic area near the exit. My vibe, body language and attitude was basically like I felt i was the hottest/coolest/best guy in the place.

- The results with girls where the same as they’ve been with jerk heavy mixes. No girls approached me directly. I received at least 10 clear sings of interest but nothing I have not seen without pheromones.

**The Fight:**

- At 2:25 AM, literally 5 min before the club was closing I’m walking to go use the washroom before i leave. This massive half black guy (I’m 6 foot 1, 190 pounds , the other guy was easily the biggest guy i saw all night and i would estimate he was at least 6 foot 4, 230 pounds of all muscle).

- So this huge guy is basically in my way as I’m trying to walk by so i lightly try to push him to the side but he resists and says “what are you doing” and starts pushing me forward. I resist and say “dont touch me” as i grab him to stop him from pushing me.

- We then basically start grappling. If you’re an MMA or UFC fan you will know what that means. It’s almost like wrestling while standing. Like trying to throw someone to the ground or off you.

- Surprisingly I’m holding my own even though the other guy is way bigger then me; even as it was happening I remember thinking it was odd the guy was not throwing me around like a ragdoll given how much bigger he was. Maybe I’m stronger then i thought but I think I just got extremely lucky and/or the jerk heavy mix i was wearing somehow helped me.

- Eventually this black guy and girls come over and try to separate us and then bouncers rush in and separate us and kick both of us out of the club. After we got kicked out the other guy apperantly went completelly crazy because eventually tons of cops where called.

- I dont know exactly what happened with him once we where outside since the bouncers purposely kicked us out on opposite sides so we would not keep fighting outside but i remember you could hear someone yelling like an animal going crazy and im pretty sure it was the guy I had just fought.

- Looking back I know i got extremely lucky tonight. Neither of us ever threw a punch and I have to thank god for that. Given his massive size if 1 punch from that guy lands on me i would have been seriously injured.

- I need to take a serious look at myself. I’m getting into so many fights or near fights lately that it’s getting ridiculous. And its not the mones since most of my fights have been without mones.

- Looking back also, what the fuck was i doing even thinking of pushing a guy that big to the side to walk by him. I should have just walked around him. I dont know what the fuck i was thinking.

- I’ve now also been in 4-5 fights/near fights in this club and it seems the bouncers have had enough of my shiet. I’m always very polite and submissive towards them so in the past they’ve allowed me to come back even though usually teh rules in the city is that if u fight u are banned for at least 6 months. Tonight though 1 bouncer straight up told me “you are always causing so many problems and the only thing that saves u is how nice you are too us but it’s becoming too much”.

- This year alone I’ve now been in a fist fight at the gym which resulted in me almost getting banned from the biggest gym in my city that I’ve been going to for 9 years, I got in another near fight while playing basketball and then of course the incident tonight.

- I’ve also been banned from my university gym because the staff complained that I’m rude, aloof and behave like I’m better then everyone. I had so many problems with my family doctor that I had to switch doctor. Even my mom told me earlier this year that she has sleepless nights worrying about me and that if i dont change my attitude I’m going to get myself killed.

- I think there’s a way I’ve always carried myself that rubs people the wrong way especially men and i have some serious soul searching to do. I cannot keep finding myself in situations like tonight. That’s now twice in a row I’ve fought someone significantly bigger then me (the fist fight at the gym was with this 6 foot 4 Serbian guy) ; eventually my luck will run out. I use to always complain that all the guys I had fights or near fights with where insecure guys with napoleon complex since they where all short guys but now that’s 2 fights in a row with super tall guys so it seems the common denominator is not short guys like I used to complain; I’m the common denominator and there is no more excuse and I’m the one who needs to change.

- It’s also weird because when i first turned 21 and started going clubbing in October 2013 I never got in in any fights but then about a year later in September 2014 I got in my first fight in a nightclub and since then there have been so many fights and near fights that its crazy. Before that fight in September 2014 I had not been in a fight since high school, that was literally my first fight as an adult and It’s almost like getting in that fight changed me in a way that makes it more likely for me to attract even more problems.

- I dont know what I should do but I need to do something. Maybe i should start going out with other guys instead of alone. Any help/suggestions is greatly appreciated.

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