# A brief me :) **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 9, 2010, 10:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-brief-me/39207 "2010-06-09T10:00:41Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![toji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ce73a5/32.png) [@toji](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toji)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2010, 10:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-brief-me/39207/1 "2010-06-09T10:00:41Z")
Hi everyone, Just to quickly introduce myself. I’m from Sydney, Australia. I’ll be 38 this year and is looking forward to it 😛 I’ve been seeing and hearing about the [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) “thing” ever since I was a teenager. Though I never really paid attention to it because I wasn’t a believer. I must admit, though, that what I’ve been seeing/reading about pheromones were nothing like this website. It was some dodgy “one spray can that will cater for all your needs” kind of ads. I really forgot how did I stumble upon this forum. I was quite surprised on how large the community is and the wealth of information it provides. After wading through a lot of threads and reading about experiences that many people have with pheromones, I felt like I might have stumble upon something innovative here. Sure I have heard about pheromones before, but never in this kind of light. So I am at a point now where I want to put this thing to the test and see if it can really enhance many different parts of my life. I’m really interested in using the pheromones to improve relationship and business aspects. In regard to my personality, I’m not the type that talks a lot, unless to close friends. I can be quite shy to strangers at the beginning but once I get to know them, then it’s easy after that. I’m the type that if I go out with a group of friends and if we were introduced to someone new, I’d probably be the last in the group to be able to bond with this new person. It is just the initial phase that I find difficult and it always take a while until I can chat with someone comfortably. Now let’s talk about with the relationship aspect of my life 🙂 To cut the long story short, I was in a semi bf-gf relationship with this girl. We didn’t officially go out and were not @ bf-gf phase yet, but it was 90% there. If it was to continue, then there is no doubt that we would have became bf-gf. However, I called it off due to a personal reason. I chose to disappear into a thin air. I was hurt and I know she was also hurt by my decision. One year has passed without contacting one another and it wasn’t easy at all as she still remains somewhere in my heart always. Anyway, one day I got an sms from her to check if I was still alive. We started talking. She has already moved on and is in a “checking out” phase with another guy. I still haven’t moved on and still have a lot of feeling for her. I asked her if we could give it another go. She said she think it wouldn’t work out. But she said she can’t stop me. She said she really wants to say no but she also can’t. I asked her why she can’t say no, and she said she doesn’t know. Anyhow, she said that she’s not officially going out with anyone at the moment but she is in contact with this other guy but he doesn’t really want to take things to the next level. She gave him many chances but he never took it. She said she knows she’s gonna get hurt in the end. Anyway, to cut the long story short again, we have been talking, texting, and emailing a lot. In my opinion, we are at a point where we are no longer stranger like in the beginning. I can see that she no longer feels uncomfortable with me coming back into her life. But I know I’m just a “special” friend to her at the moment. The reason why I wrote so much about this is because I hope it will give enough background to many experts on this forum. And hoping you can recommend which type of pheromones would be suitable for me in this case. We have been talking for over 2 months now but I haven’t gone to see her physically as yet. I’m hoping to test out some pheromones first before going to see her. Hopefully, you all can recommend which products would suit my scenarios. She is 26 by the way. God forbid, I have already lost her once and I don’t want to loose her again. If we ever get back together again, I would do everything in my power to make sure that we will share our lives together until the very end. That was quite long, I hope you don’t mind reading on 🙂 Let’s now shift the focus into the business aspect of my life 🙂 I’m currently in a process of negotiating a pay rise as well as a promotion. I’ve had a 30 mins discussion with my line manager last week and things were looking good. Payrise was offered as well as promotion. But not to the point that I’m satisfied. I’m currently a manager in the company, in about 4th line from the top. I was offered 3rd line promotion with 3rd line payrise. However, there is another chat coming, to discuss about this a little further into detail. I will be talking with the Branch manager, which is the highest position before the company director. He is around 40 years old and was just promoted to the branch manager about 6 months ago. The last chat that we had was really great. He was willing to listen and was willing to work with me to achieve my goals, which is what the upcoming talk will be about. But I know I can push for more, I know that I can justify it, and I know that there is a fair chance of success in negotiating for a higher promotion. So I’m hoping for any recommendation that you all might have on which pheromones would suit my situation. Hope you all weren’t bored with my long-winded introduction 😛 I’m hoping to debunk the many pheromones myths that I have heard about. And hopefully it can contribute, to a certain extent, a greater joy in all aspects of my life 🙂 And if I have managed to keep you all reading from the beginning to this very last line, then wow! A big thank you for taking your time to read my intro 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2010, 10:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-brief-me/39207/2 "2010-06-09T10:12:57Z")
Hi toji, welcome to the forum! And thanks for the great info! I know just what will help your situation. For the girl, use Ammo and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). Ammo is a great attraction product that will give both your confidence and sex appeal a boost, and can be worn in any environment. Instant Honesty will add depth and intimacy to conversation, as well as create and strengthen emotional bonds, and enhance trust and comfort levels. For work, use A314, which is a serious trust/confidence/respect mix intended for work situations. Instant Honesty also goes well with it, buffering the seriousness a little, adding a comfort factor while still maintaining the confidence/trust/respect. I hope this helps, and if you have any questions, just ask! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Mco-gnv](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mco-gnv/32/229_2.png) [@Mco-gnv](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mco-gnv)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2010, 10:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-brief-me/39207/3 "2010-06-09T10:36:48Z")
Hey there, welcome to the forum! What a great intro! IH will help take it to the next level conversational-wise, and maybe get you out of the “special” friend zone. Ammo will be another key [pheromone](https://a314.com/) for getting her back and into the full fledged bf-gf status. I wish you luck with getting the big promotion, and think A314 will help you get it. Best of luck with your phero adventures, and look forward to hearing from you soon! ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2010, 10:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-brief-me/39207/4 "2010-06-09T10:45:05Z")
Hi there, Welcome. Thank you for the long intorduction. For the girl, I suggest you try IH and AMMO. IH can make her close to you again. She will talk more details and more personal with you. This can help to enhance relationship. AMMO will help to get her attracted to you again. As for your work, A314 is the best. It can make your superior respect and think you are capable. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [June 9, 2010, 7:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-brief-me/39207/5 "2010-06-09T19:25:43Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding mones and you can speak to him personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and he will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![toji](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/ce73a5/32.png) [@toji](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toji)\ **Post date:** [June 24, 2010, 12:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-brief-me/39207/6 "2010-06-24T00:26:48Z")
Thank you everyone for all the advices. A314 & AMMO are finally back in stock. So I’ve just managed to place my first order a few minutes ago. Can’t wait to get my hand on it 🙂