# A Double-Sided Issue.... **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 3, 2009, 5:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-double-sided-issue/30361 "2009-07-03T05:35:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![True\_Pagan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/true_pagan/32/473_2.png) [@True\_Pagan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/True_Pagan)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2009, 5:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-double-sided-issue/30361/1 "2009-07-03T05:35:11Z")
😃 I am so excited to finally venture into the world of pheros. I am a very happily married woman looking to open up a new door to my life. I love women as much as I love men, so I am wanting to learn, and _ **experiment** _ 😉, all there is about attracting attention from both sides. Let the lesson begin!! ---
**Author:** ![silentscope](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/silentscope/32/2218_2.png) [@silentscope](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/silentscope)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2009, 5:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-double-sided-issue/30361/2 "2009-07-03T05:56:26Z")
Hi Welcome top the forum, Before your lessons into the world of [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) begin can you tell us more about yourself and your personality and whatever else you would like to add. So we can help you better with suggestions in choosing the right pheromones for you. ---
**Author:** ![Mco-gnv](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mco-gnv/32/229_2.png) [@Mco-gnv](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mco-gnv)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2009, 5:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-double-sided-issue/30361/3 "2009-07-03T05:57:54Z")
Hi True Pagan, welcome to the forum! Let me first suggest you read the link in my signature about how to qualify for the $25 gift certificate. Can you tell us a bit more about yourself and what you hope to achieve with pheromone? Work? Attraction? Social. Helping us out with this information will help us make better recommendations for you. also, take a look at the [womens pheromone](https://phera.com/) guide and see if anything catches your eye. If you have any questions about any particular pheromones, let us know and we will be glad to help. Best of luck, -mco; ---
**Author:** ![True\_Pagan](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/true_pagan/32/473_2.png) [@True\_Pagan](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/True_Pagan)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2009, 6:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-double-sided-issue/30361/4 "2009-07-03T06:29:44Z")
**Wow, where do I begin? Well, I’m about as free-spirited as they come. My husband always jokes that I’m one of the only women he’s ever known to actually _prefer_ to go barefoot.** \*\*When it comes to being around new people or a crowd, I’m pretty chatty by nature. I am first one to admit that I love being the center of attention. But then again, what women doesn’t? _lol_ After 10 years of being with my husband, I find I have to work just a wee bit harder to get him to meet me halfway. He’s still the ever faithful, ever doting darling he has been from the beginning, but lets just say the general spark is starting to fizzle. I have to find a new flint to get it back _wink_ I do go out on dates with women on a regular basis, as he doesn’t give a hoot. He’s all the man I could ever want, or need. I just like to scamper through the playground every now and then. I want a little extra punch when I decide to go out on the town or have a night planned with either my Wolvie or a new cutie. I’m looking for something that is really going to get their attention and get them chatty and flirty. \*\* ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2009, 7:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-double-sided-issue/30361/5 "2009-07-03T07:59:23Z")
Hello pagan, I recommend you try [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). Read about the versions here: [The womens guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/womens-pheromone-guide/4258) Also, I suggest you read about products such as instant honesty and instant openness which can help draw people to you and/or assist you and others to feel more comfortable. Note, there is a dedicated female forum here with some very active members. I suggest you hang out in there for a while and meet the other ladies, many of which have similar backgrounds to you, including the barefoot stuff 😉 ---
**Author:** ![fantisto](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fantisto/32/2102_2.png) [@fantisto](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/fantisto)\ **Post date:** [July 3, 2009, 8:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-double-sided-issue/30361/6 "2009-07-03T08:16:19Z")
Thank for the update Pagan, As Alex mentioned, you should try out [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/), IS/a projects strong sexy dominate female type, while IS/B projects soft sweet sexy female vibe. (choose whichever version you want to be) Social products like IO and IH could help you to make people more chatty. IO increase communication and comfort, people will talk to you more and more. IH deepens communication and feeling of closeness. Ishine make people around you feel good, boost your confidence and project your charimatic charms. Let us know if you need any more information. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [July 15, 2009, 10:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-double-sided-issue/30361/7 "2009-07-15T22:44:15Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk True\_pagan! Man, from that pic right off the bat I could tell that you are just a rough-rider. Can your hubby even handle you? I guess with the personalities being so different he will have to work overtime to keep you on your toes. For you I would say you dive right into experiment with this stuff because you will be a great contributor to this forum once you are well seasoned in the world of pheromones. You should also look at the journals of Tisha23 and Bella they are married women like yourself. Your GC is on it’s way!