# A few questions about using pheromones... **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 4, 2008, 7:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-few-questions-about-using-pheromones/20822 "2008-10-04T19:19:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 15\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![starlitegirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/eb8c5e/32.png) [@starlitegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/starlitegirl)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2008, 7:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-few-questions-about-using-pheromones/20822/1 "2008-10-04T19:19:08Z")
Basically, my day is low key. I go to the gym for a few hours and do errands, maybe go out to a cafe or something, meet a friend or two. I’m wondering if [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/), particularly ISex and TAH would be appropriate for the gym? Guys do notice me already but not really doing much beyond a smile or hello, of course, I’m shy and keep to myself. The ipod might not be too encouraging to them either 😕 My other two questions are: 1. Can I wear essential oil perfume blends with them? I usually just put 2 dabs on my neck. I just don’t know if it would change the pheromone’s effect. 2. It’s getting cool here in RI, so I’m wondering where the best place to spray them would be since I wear layers when I go out. Do pheromones have any effect if they’re on your clothes? I’ve noticed that when I wear my essential oils, they seem to end up a lot on my clothes. Still on me a little, but on my clothes moreso and stay there till I wash them. Does spraying them in hair work well? ---
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2008, 8:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-few-questions-about-using-pheromones/20822/2 "2008-10-04T20:19:14Z")
1. Yes, I guess, as long as you wear a scent that doesn’t clash or make you feel uncomfotable? Basically, you can layer pheromones with anything, as long as you don’t dilute/mix them, which would change their effectiveness. 2. I’ve seen suggestions of spraying on your hair and that’s a good application point for me, specially if you have longer hair that moves around (ie, will help you diffuse more). ---
**Author:** ![starlitegirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/eb8c5e/32.png) [@starlitegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/starlitegirl)\ **Post date:** [October 4, 2008, 8:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-few-questions-about-using-pheromones/20822/3 "2008-10-04T20:53:26Z")
Thanks Takhisis! I’ll give the hair a shot. It’s medium length and I wear it in a ponytail a lot that bounces around while I workout. So lots of diffusion there. Plus, I tend to fidget with it, too. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 5:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-few-questions-about-using-pheromones/20822/4 "2008-10-05T05:53:44Z")
Spraying on the hair works well. Now I know that for guys putting 'none in the hair can be tricky as it will stick around a long time. Not sure if any of the women’s products - in particular something with copulins would do the same. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 9:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-few-questions-about-using-pheromones/20822/5 "2008-10-05T09:00:14Z")
Hello Sure you can wear [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) and TAH anywhere. Cloth is absorbant and dosnt diffuse as well but it can work. Cuts down on distance and strength of hits in my opinion but in the winter months when we bundle we have less options. Hair is a great alternative but hey you can only spray so much product in your hair. Neck is good, Behind ears, A few other draw backs on cloth application. You cant really cover it well. The smell lingers and you need to pre wash before you do the main wash. You can cover with a scented oil or EO but be aware that it may slow diffusion as well. This is not always a bad thing. When I cover with oils I up my dosage just a little and that evens it out. > [@](#): > > Not sure if any of the women’s products - in particular something with copulins would do the same. Nope they are not sticky but I would not put a high copulin mix in my hair just because the smell would make me insane. You would never be able to cover it. The regular mixes with smaller amounts of cops are fine though. Just use a good conditioner because the alcohol carrier can dry your hair out. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 12:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-few-questions-about-using-pheromones/20822/6 "2008-10-05T12:24:54Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Nope they are not sticky but I would _ **not?** _ put a high copulin mix in my hair just because the smell would make me insane. You would never be able to cover it. The regular mixes with smaller amounts of cops are fine though. I take it you meant to put _ **not** _ in that sentence Tisha? But that is what I thought the answer would be given what most women have said about the smell of high cop formulas … as in it may not “stick” like 'none but it would really smell and be difficult to cover. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 2:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-few-questions-about-using-pheromones/20822/7 "2008-10-05T14:26:36Z")
Thank you Bosshank, It was a long night 😉 All fixed Tisha ---
**Author:** ![starlitegirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/eb8c5e/32.png) [@starlitegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/starlitegirl)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 8:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-few-questions-about-using-pheromones/20822/8 "2008-10-05T20:24:13Z")
Do all the sprays work pretty quickly, because in that case, I might benefit by spraying them after I remove the layers (like a scarf). I always wear scarves so even my neck is covered. I guess behind my ears is the best way to go now that the cooler months are here. And I’ll avoid the hair, especially since I’d rather not put anything with alcohol in it trying to keep it soft and smooth and healthy. 😉 Thanks for the advice. I can’t wait for my orders to get here. I got [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Shine. How long do they generally take to arrive? I’m in new england, so I’m guessing maybe 3-5 days. I’m so excited to start using them. I’ll do one a week and work on finding the right amounts since I’ve already been doing the observation stuff for the past several months and have plenty of pre-pheromone ‘data’ 😃 Oh, one more question, since pheromones are strongest when we’re younger, and I’m 40, should I start out with two sprays instead of one? Seems like if I was younger, less would be the place to start, but being that I’m 40, I’m thinking that second spray might be needed to even be noticed. What do you think? ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 9:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-few-questions-about-using-pheromones/20822/9 "2008-10-05T21:08:27Z")
np girl … I was pretty sure I knew what you meant … as for the long night … it musta been the moon 'cause it was here too … lol. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 5, 2008, 11:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-few-questions-about-using-pheromones/20822/10 "2008-10-05T23:58:04Z")
> [@](#): > > Do all the sprays work pretty quickly, because in that case, Yes they start working as soon as you put them on but most people need to be exposed to them for a minute or two before they react. > [@](#): > > How long do they generally take to arrive? I’m in new england, so I’m guessing maybe 3-5 days. That sounds about right for overseas, sometimes it will get through quicker. > [@](#): > > since pheromones are strongest when we’re younger, and I’m 40, > should I start out with two sprays instead of one? Yes you can use two to start, I use 3 to 5 myself. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![starlitegirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/eb8c5e/32.png) [@starlitegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/starlitegirl)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2008, 12:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-few-questions-about-using-pheromones/20822/11 "2008-10-06T00:20:07Z")
Oops, I meant new england as in northeast states. So I guess then less than three days. Nice. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2008, 12:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-few-questions-about-using-pheromones/20822/12 "2008-10-06T00:57:27Z")
> [@starlitegirl](#): > > 1. It’s getting cool here in RI … > [@starlitegirl](#): > > How long do they generally take to arrive? I’m in new england … > [@tisha23](#): > > That sounds about right for overseas, sometimes it will get through quicker. > [@starlitegirl](#): > > Oops, I meant new england as in northeast states. So I guess then less than three days. Nice. ROTFLMAO. It musta been a real late night for Tish … 😮 😛 … especially when you consider she lives in Connecticut … lol. 🙄 I could be in trouble now … lol. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2008, 2:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-few-questions-about-using-pheromones/20822/13 "2008-10-06T02:18:20Z")
> [@](#): > > ROTFLMAO. It musta been a real late night for Tish Yes its been a long night and a long day, Mother in law fell down the stairs and broke her hip and had to have surgery. I am sorry for the mix up LOL It gave me a much needed laugh to though so BH your off the hook. I am sure you will do something else when I feel better so I can use the beef jerky of discipline on you 😉 I live in CT and my orders get here the day after they ship except on weekends. They dont ship or deliver on weekends. So it should be there pretty quick Tisha ---
**Author:** ![starlitegirl](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/eb8c5e/32.png) [@starlitegirl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/starlitegirl)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2008, 2:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-few-questions-about-using-pheromones/20822/14 "2008-10-06T02:27:46Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Yes its been a long night and a long day, Mother in law fell down the stairs and broke her hip and had to have surgery. > > I am sorry for the mix up LOL It gave me a much needed laugh to though so BH your off the hook. I am sure you will do something else when I feel better so I can use the beef jerky of discipline on you 😉 > > I live in CT and my orders get here the day after they ship except on weekends. They dont ship or deliver on weekends. So it should be there pretty quick > > Tisha Oh Tisha, I’m so sorry to hear about your mom-in-law. My mom had a total knee replacement this fall, so I know how stressful and upsetting it can be. I’m glad you at least got a laugh over the mix up. I hope you’re doing okay. I know how something like this can be exhausting, both emotionally and physically. Get as much rest as you can because if you need to help her (emotionally and/or physically) there’s no way you can do it if you’re not taking time for your own health and mental health needs. That was one I learned the hard way. On the bright side, I learned that hip replacement is actually an easier healing process and quicker than knee replacement. But are they doing a replacement or just aiming for the bone to heal? I’m not clear on what they do for a fracture. Decades ago they would put a giant foam triangle between patient’s legs and let it heal. But with recent advances, I’m not sure if they just go for a replacement or if that’s even possible with a fracture. Anyway, you and your mom-in-law are in my thoughts. ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [October 6, 2008, 2:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-few-questions-about-using-pheromones/20822/15 "2008-10-06T14:28:26Z")
Yeah Tish - sorry to hear about the MIL. Hope all goes well. We put my mom in a one story house just to avoid that but she still manages to fall from time to time anyways. One time she fell right after one hip replacement operation and had to have it popped back into place. She was stuck on the ground for a couple hours as she had left her medcial alert pager laying just out of reach. Along with her cell phone. But now that I think of it, down where Mark, SteveO and Renny come from folks from above the Mason-Dixon line are often considered foreigners so maybe Tisha was right after all … lol. Let me know when you feel well enough to break out the jerky …