# A Friend Says "you Keep changing" **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [October 3, 2010, 11:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-friend-says-you-keep-changing/42284 "2010-10-03T11:48:02Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Ally](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/8edcca/32.png) [@Ally](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Ally)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2010, 11:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-friend-says-you-keep-changing/42284/1 "2010-10-03T11:48:02Z")
I see my friends once or twice a week, I’m always wearing mones, a started wearing a314 with shine which is an excellent mix, then i got openess which i added to it. I see my friends and 1 of them says you keep changing, then two weeks later i had on ammo, shine and openness and again the same guy said you keep changing. i’m thinking am i confusing him as to who i really am, because he might expect to see me as the A314 guy but then gets confused to see someone else (the [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) Guy). could the experts here please explain, i’m sure you have had something like this happen to you ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2010, 4:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-friend-says-you-keep-changing/42284/2 "2010-10-03T16:25:18Z")
Differences in pheromone sig can affect people and have them notice different things about you. That may be why, or subliminally it could be your actions being indirectly affected knowing you’re wearing [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). ---
**Author:** ![RADMAN513](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/radman513/32/364_2.png) [@RADMAN513](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/RADMAN513)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2010, 4:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-friend-says-you-keep-changing/42284/3 "2010-10-03T16:44:15Z")
This is pretty much something I’ve been concerned about for a while. That if you pick a product or mix and never change it, people become accustomed to it. Now that’s not exactly bad. So long as you remain congruent with the signal people will accept it as part of who you are. But you lose the “WOW” factor when people first get exposed to it. On the other hand, if you change your signal randomly and haphazardly with no real rhyme or reason…people get a sense..of not being able to get a sense of you. This can make it difficult for people to trust you even when you’re wearing respect and trust products like A314 and IH. That’s why I recommend taking one day off per week, and possibly even one week off per month when using and for each mix to be a progressive variation of the last one. IE one spray of IG for a while working up to two, and eventually three, and then gradually replacing each spray of IG with a drop of A314. This way the nature of your respect mix shifts slowly and gradually gets stronger. You can do likewise with attraction products by starting with Ammo and shifting to something more overtly sexual. And with socials, shifting from a very fun and easily approachable IO to a deeper bonded IH type of signal. The changes and breaks help keep the impact of the hits strong with people that see you at least fairly regularly. But no single mix is so drastically different from the rest that people respond like “wow You’re like a totally different person, I feel like I don’t even know you” ---
**Author:** ![CoolKat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/coolkat/32/501_2.png) [@CoolKat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CoolKat)\ **Post date:** [October 3, 2010, 4:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-friend-says-you-keep-changing/42284/4 "2010-10-03T16:58:58Z")
> [@Ally](#): > > I see my friends once or twice a week, I’m always wearing mones, a started wearing a314 with shine which is an excellent mix, then i got openess which i added to it. I see my friends and 1 of them says you keep changing, then two weeks later i had on ammo, shine and openness and again the same guy said you keep changing. > > i’m thinking am i confusing him as to who i really am, because he might expect to see me as the A314 guy but then gets confused to see someone else (the Ammo Guy). > > could the experts here please explain, i’m sure you have had something like this happen to you Who cares what he thinks, right? Use ammo when you guys go to bars or clubs, and if he asks, tell him you are trying to look a little better today to pick up ladies. There. Problem solved 😃