# A Ginger & Her Mones **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Journals\ **Created:** [December 28, 2014, 7:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531 "2014-12-28T07:00:40Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![mascara\_mones](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mascara_mones/32/1510_2.png) [@mascara\_mones](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mascara_mones)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2014, 7:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/1 "2014-12-28T07:00:40Z")
Hi loves, I was on here as shyone however when I tried to switch my email address it wouldn’t authenticate me, so I’m starting over . I’m going to copy and paste my previous post below. … ---
**Author:** ![mascara\_mones](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mascara_mones/32/1510_2.png) [@mascara\_mones](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mascara_mones)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2014, 7:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/2 "2014-12-28T07:09:25Z")
Hi loves! I have been meaning to start a journal since I found the awesomness that is this site but have been tied up with work and school I love science and experimenting so I keep logs as I try out new products. I have 3 [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) that did not come from androtics and I will post my results with them so hopefully it helps others not waste their money. So far I absolutly love my androtics!! I am not good at about me sections but I’ll list some details below so that the results I post can be put in context Oh and please say Hi I love talking to People Im just usually to shy to say hi first Me: Late 20s female, inshape often described as pretty/ cute ( not how I see myself ) I am an INFJ and empath I bartend while going to school the hubby: Mid 30s total alpha male, slightly moody calls himself a narsacist, an elitiest and the love of my life The Dogs: Female alpha dog (if we allowed it) shes a goof ball and a total love bug, Male dog: submissive ( my sweet baby boy ) loves everybody and very chill ---
**Author:** ![mascara\_mones](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mascara_mones/32/1510_2.png) [@mascara\_mones](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mascara_mones)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2014, 7:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/3 "2014-12-28T07:11:23Z")
puremones (not smart mones) So having drinks with my coworkers two of us decided to give phermones a try and see what happened. Being intoxicated the first site we found was Puremones. I ordered Pure Love She Ordered Pure Temptation upon recieving them we split them. First Impression: Dont smell anything … hmmm Day 1: One dab of each split between neck and wrist since this had no smell I sprayed 1 spray of Japanesse Cherry bloosm on my shirt Self Effects: none other than I’m analyzing all interactions to see if anything changes Co Workers : normal interaction to both of us Customers : Normal dos: None Hubby: None DAY 2 scene: Registering for school and home Application: One dab pure temptation on wrist one on neck One dab pure love on other wrist one on opposite side of neck one spray cherry bloosm Self effects: none School: People seem to be difficult Dogs: Female keeps sniffing my neck other then that none hubby: none I completed another 3 days with this method and applied twice daily no results next I tried one day with no cover scent self effects: slightly irritable Coworkers: cold distant Customers: Rude irritated bad tips dogs: difficult Hubby: confontational verdict: won’t be using again ---
**Author:** ![mascara\_mones](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mascara_mones/32/1510_2.png) [@mascara\_mones](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mascara_mones)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2014, 7:13am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/4 "2014-12-28T07:13:36Z")
cleo beta results Cleo Beta results Not willing to give up On phermones I ordered Cleo Beta, Thankfully while waiting for it to arrive I found Androtics! ok Here goes First impressions Me: Oh my lord this smells going to need a good cover scent The Dogs : What the hell is that our poor noses ( if they could talk, anywho that is what their actions implied) Application: One drop back of neck waited for it to dry two sprays of J.C.B. Scene: Heading to work Self affects : I seem to be In a great mood however I am drinking a double shot of espresso … CoWorkers : One male manager seems to be slightly more friendly, one female commented that I smelled nice Customers: none Husband: Crabby Day 2 Application 2 Drops 1 on each side of neck 2 sprays of J.C.B. Scene: work than drinks Self Affects: I am feeling rather anxious CoWorkers: None Customers: none coworkers during drinks: none Husband: affectionate Day 3 Application total 3 Drops one on each side of my neck one split between the inside of my elbows 3 sprays J.C.B Scene: work then home Self affects : lots of anxiety and omg this smells horrible 2 hours later major head ache ( to the point that I traded to go home rather than close) Coworkers: distant none talkative Customers: either very nice or very rude ( side note women ( straight all with a male seemed to be flirting with me) dogs: avoiding me Husband: avoiding me and cold skipped a day At this point I took a new approach and mixed the cleo into 1.5 oz of J.C.B I started with 12 drops and on spray split between the inside of my elbows and one spray on the back of my neck. I gradually increased the amount of cleo to J.C.B by 2 drops at a time twice a day 8-9 hours apart( Im very proud of my patience with this because after the first day of this my [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) a had been delivered and was calling my name). From 12 to 22 drops in 1.5oz J.C.B there was no noticible affect. At 24 drops it was back to the headache and anxiety for self affects and others either loved me or hated me. ( not good when you work at a bar) verdict: I am returning the cleo I am currently tracking my results with Instant Sexinness A and I absoloutly love it Once I have five days of testing around people in I’ll post a day by day and I am really really looking forward to it because I just can’t get enough of this stuff!! Infact so far that is it’s only downfall: I just want to keep spraying it !! ---
**Author:** ![mascara\_mones](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mascara_mones/32/1510_2.png) [@mascara\_mones](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mascara_mones)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2014, 7:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/5 "2014-12-28T07:17:00Z")
[Instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) a Hi Loves! Time to update with my IS/A adventures I LOVE THIS STUFF!! Day 1 Initial impression: This smells really really good application:s 1 split between the inside of my elbows 1 split on each side of neck around 2 spray11am Scene: At home cleaning etc.. Self Affects: I feel really calm and confident, I have a tendency to stress out or get distracted in my thoughts however with IS/A there was none of . It was a very chill calm " I got this, throw what you want at me I got it" vibe, and I like it. About an hour in I start getting turned on ( Im the only human home at this time). These affects stick around untill about 6 when I start to notice them fading out. Around 7 I added another spray to my hair. Dogs: My female dog who has a habit of being hyper or challenging me for alpha female was calmly laying on the couch or following me around, very obedient. Hubby: He got home shortly after I sprayed the 3rd spray. No immediate abnormal reaction. About 20-30 min later he is going into much more detail about his day then normal. While doing his homework he kept coming up with reasons to come out of the office walking closer to me when passing then he normally does. Around 10 he wants to get in bed and watch tv. He is lingering around until I finish the laundry and join him ( not usual for him) In bed he starts flirting and playing around. Leads to intimate sex and cuddling Day 2 Application: 2 sprays 1 split between elbows on on neck around 1 pm scene: Home then movie Self Affects: The same calm confident sexy vibe as before. I sprayed an additional 2 sprays one to my chest one to my hair before hubby and I headed out to a movie. Hubby: I start getting random calls from him during the day to see “whats up” again today !! ( Thank you Androtics) He gets home hops into the shower and we head to the movies. During the Drive he is talking non stop about his day and school plans, still not verbally including me in those plans though. During the movie he is withdrawn not cuddling not touching as though I am just a friend. On the way home he starts engaging two way conversation again. He starts a weird flirting then not flirting cycle that ends with just sex and a kiss on my neck. Day 3 Application 2 sprays 1 split between elbows one on neck around 2 pm Scene work then home Self affects: same awesome confidence and sexiness have I mentioned I love this stuff ? It takes me from friendly but shy and worried about what everyone thinks and sometimes invisible to confident "why wouldn’t they love me?’ and not invisible Coworkers: One of my male coworkers is chatting with me every chance he gets about his college plans his relationship issues what to get his sister for xmas… My female coworker is not as talkative ( she is normally quite) but seems to want to be near me. Customers: Female customers are about the same , male customers seem to be talking alot more both male and female are acting like they want to make my job as easy as possible ( this is awesome) no rude snaping fingers no talking to me like I’m just a worthless bartender etc. On the way to take a bathroom break a guy on the opposite side of the bar from where I was bartending grabs my hand twirls me as if we were dancing stammers out “sorry I love redheads” then proceedes to stare at me before issuing the same apology. I get comments about my hair frequently however usually only when I am already speaking with someone and never DIHL with it! I’m calling this a hit thanks IS/A! Home/Hubby: ( I sprayed 1 more spray into my hair before coming home around 11 pm) I walk into the bedroom and he is immediatly talking ( more then the usual how was work was it busy) tells me he moved the bed over but he made sure I still had side to stretch by my side. That type of consideration is not normal for him. He offers to lotion on my back for me while I’m putting it on starts rubbing my neck ( at this point in my head I am thanking god for the IS/A) I offer to give him a back rub trying to extend this affection from him he turns it down and tells me to come cuddle !!! Day 4 Application: 2 sprays 1 split between elbows one on neck around 4:30 scene: heading to work Self effects : (preface it is every girls favorite time of the month and this is an exceptionally rough one emotionally) At first I get the calm confident vibe but as the night goes on and people get on my nerves it turns into this go screw yourself kiss my ass mega confident mega diva vibe. coworkers : Coworkers start off normal but slowly begin asking me if I am ok I am doing my best to keep the diva who gives 0 fs in my head and I am pretty confident that I am acting normally. customers: Men are being extremely polite and respectful, On the other hand women are being the exact opposite hubby: (no additional spray before heading home) alomst immediatly asking me whats wrong. Not accepting that nothing is wrong. He seems to slowly be withdrawing. After my shower I sprayed one spray into my hair and went to bed. Day 5 Hubby in the am the IS/A must have hit him during the night because when his alarm goes off he isnt crabby at all.. infact he leans over and asks for a hug before I could ask him for one Application: 2 sprays 1 split between elbows one on neck @ 4:30 Scene: work Self affects: Turning into the irritable diva again coworkers: again asking if I am ok or why I am so quite today Customers: Men seem to be standoffish and women are outright confrontational hubby: again insisting that something must be wrong and withdrawing. At this point I am pretty sure that my hightened crazy hormones are mixing with the IS/A in an abnormal way and decide not to use it until i am back to “normal”. Day 6 ( after a few days off) Application: 1 spray to the neck sometime around 11 am Scene: Ok normally I wouldn’t use IS/A in this situation however it is what I had… I have a skills class and assessment to get into the program I want to renew my natonal license. It should be no big deal for me I have done this 100s of times and probably could teach it better than the instructor. However I am an empath… and in a class with 1 confident male and 13 other females who def. are not alphas and many of them seem extremely unprepared and nervous. 30 min in I am absorbing their anxiety ( gotta love being an empath) my heart is pounding and while I am still confident in my skills I feel an anxiety attack coming on. Given that there is only one male in the room I feel I am pretty safe betting I wont be paired with him, and these females could use a confidence boost. I step out to the ladies room spray my IS/A and return, within minutes my heart rate is slowing to normal the unfounded anxiety is fading and I am slipping into a lovely “I got this, follow my lead” Alpha mode. At that point I determine that I will not ever be running out of IS/A. The Instructor pairs us off for skills testing and against the odds … you guessed it I am with the one guy. testing starts and he is still staring at me dihl , oops I actually feel kinda bad but luckily I could run this code by myself and have before and I am feeling alpha so I play it off like I am running it and start telling him what to do, he snaps in follows along and we bothpass with flying colors ! Afterwards he apologizes saying he doesnt know why he froze and that particular scenario is one he has always had issues with… dude is spilling his entire career history to me .. ---
**Author:** ![mascara\_mones](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mascara_mones/32/1510_2.png) [@mascara\_mones](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mascara_mones)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2014, 7:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/6 "2014-12-28T07:19:17Z")
Reader discretion advised. : emotional drama, tmi, and sexy time below I got mx 135 to go three days ago and have been playing with it. Initial impression: smells ok kinda like cocoa butter, the smell is good just not as good as IS/A Application: 2 sprays one on neck one on elbows around noon Scene home alone getting stuff done Self affect: almost immediately my lips start to curl into a smile and I gradually start becoming happy. Within an hour I’ve got my head phones on and I’m dancing around while straightening up. My mind isnt analyzing every single thing hubby has said recently and Im in a tranquil bliss. The best comparison I have is that perfect buzz state where you just want to chill and dance where most things don’t bother you and you’re relaxed. I start to notice it dieing off around 6 and I really need an emotion break today so I spray another 2 sprays. Shortly after hubby decides to come out from studying to go shopping and states that. He is going with out me. Some how this morphs into another not so great conversation about where our marriage is. Headed . As soon as. He walks out the tears start falling. Luckily this want another round of crying all. I think the mx 135 had alot. To do with that because within 10 min Im back up getting my. Paper work ready for registration. Day 2 this was not the best circumstances to test a mone I want hadn’t mastered yet… I register for my resert program this morning and the combination of that and last nights emotions had me sleeping like crap. Giving up on sleep I got up when my husband headed to work at 430 and tried to keep myself busy. Clean out my purse and find the spray bottle I had mixed the cherry blossom and cleo in, given the bad reactions I had with it I dump it down the bathroom sink . Immediately I realized I should have just thrown it away. … the whole place stinks of cleo the exhaust fan is on and Im running water down the drain. By the time I get out of the shower and am heading out the door my head is pounding and I’m in a horrible mood. Half way to school and its not any better … wth my mood can’t get much worse and I’m allergic to asprin I give the mx 135 a shot … 3 sprays thank god the head ache starts dieing diwn by the time I park my mood has normalized and the headache has died enough that I can stand talking to people. Everyone I come in contact with is being exceptionally nice and I get everything done complication free which with this school is a miracle! By the time I get back home I’m ready to put the headphones on and rock (ok so its more like dancing horribly) . Unfortunately my bathroom still reaks of cleo and the headache starts coming back … 2 more sprays.. and I run the faucet for an hour thankfully the mx 135 keeps my mood up but ahhh this headache … desperate i add 2 sprays of IS/A around 7. Hubby gets in around 9 and is talkative he starts flirting then pulls me to his side to cuddle (yay!) He falls asleep cuddling. I wake up in the middle of the night and he starts kissing on me it turns into b9th of us barley awake sex… then more cuddling! Im loving the affects of IS/A on hubbby! * * * ---
**Author:** ![mascara\_mones](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mascara_mones/32/1510_2.png) [@mascara\_mones](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mascara_mones)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2014, 7:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/7 "2014-12-28T07:26:37Z")
Note to self must order these I’m going to put together a little shopping/wish list of mones I really want to try out that way when I place the next order I’m not searching my brain for the o es I wanted lol. If anyone reads this and has input please share! P96 TAK MX138 [P130](https://a314.com/product/p130/) tac P78 Tal Tah P83 ---
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2014, 8:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/8 "2014-12-28T20:28:10Z")
> [@mascara\_mones](#): > > Unfortunately my bathroom still reaks of cleo and the headache starts coming back … 2 more sprays.. and I run the faucet for an hour thankfully the mx 135 keeps my mood up but ahhh this headache … It would probably be a good idea for you to dump some sort of cleaning product down that drain. The chemicals should break up the Cleo and wipe out any lingering residue. I’m sorry to hear about your bad experiences with other companies, but I’m delighted to hear about your successes with IS/A and MX135! I’m just like you, IS/A suits me absolutely perfectly. ---
**Author:** ![mascara\_mones](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mascara_mones/32/1510_2.png) [@mascara\_mones](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mascara_mones)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2014, 8:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/9 "2014-12-28T20:55:27Z")
Thanks Miss Dragon! This was s post from my journal as shy one… I changed my email because I had to much spam from random companies in my old one and it wouldn’t re authenticate my shyone profile… oh well wit my secret weapon (is\a) im not shy so …lol… Im crossing my fingers that I don’t grow immune to the self affects of it though … And yes I did end up dumping a lot of cleaner down the drain. I would say that the cleo beta just didn’t work with me… although it did obviously have mones and an affect it just apparently clashed with me … Obviously not every mone works with everyone nor should they. The only ones I can honestly say are just terrible are the pure temptation and pure love that my friend and I first tried and thats is for several reasons. The more I read on here and experience/learn pheromones the more that particular company bugs me. 1st neither her nor I received any guidance or info with the mones. While I know they are different for everyone both androtics and love scent do a great job of making sure that there are forums and support for users. With androtics consumer line they even take the support up a notch. 2nd I highly suspect that the pheromones in those 2 were either very poorly researched or were animal pheromones I say this not to make blind accusations but because after still being bugged about them I tried testing them when alone and obverved obvious affects on my dogs . Now yes with formulas like IS/a I do notice my alpha dog being more submissive however it is obvious that it is in response to my actions being more alpha. With the pure line products it was the opposite. ---
**Author:** ![mascara\_mones](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mascara_mones/32/1510_2.png) [@mascara\_mones](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mascara_mones)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2014, 9:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/10 "2014-12-28T21:14:03Z")
Over the last week (ish) I have gotten several new mones! From androtics I got IS/B, TAA, Instant shine& openness and [P75](https://a314.com/product/p75/). Through the trading/sale thread I got some Est. And as an awesome bonus a little bit of meo-est and primal instinct for women. It has been an emotionally rough week so I am taking the testing slow. I have a few test days logged and will start posting them . ---
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2014, 9:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/11 "2014-12-28T21:27:33Z")
> [@mascara\_mones](#): > > oh well wit my secret weapon (is\a) im not shy so …lol… Im crossing my fingers that I don’t grow immune to the self affects of it though … Unfortunately, building up a resistance to pheromones is natural and inevitable with regular use. But don’t worry, it can be fixed. First off, to prevent building a tolerance, it’s a good idea to get into a routine of taking a few days a week off from pheromones in a row. Then when you do use them, you should be able to feel the full effect. Other people you’re in regular contact with can build up a resistance, so it’s good to give their noses a rest, too. If you find that you have already become a bit desensitized, then you should take a full week off to allow your brain and senses to reset. > [@](#): > > Now yes with formulas like IS/a I do notice my alpha dog being more submissive however it is obvious that it is in response to my actions being more alpha. With the pure line products it was the opposite. Actually, I’d say your dog probably is responding mostly to your pheromones, not mainly your actions. Actions are probably secondary. Dogs are WAY more sensitive to pheromones than humans are. They are used to pheromones being a major way for them to communicate with each other. Even though AD uses [synthetic pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/), some of these pheromones still send messages to a dog’s nose that the dog can understand. Looking forward to your new posts! ---
**Author:** ![mascara\_mones](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mascara_mones/32/1510_2.png) [@mascara\_mones](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mascara_mones)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2014, 12:53am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/12 "2014-12-29T00:53:47Z")
> [@Miss\_Dragon](#): > > Unfortunately, building up a resistance to pheromones is natural and inevitable with regular use. But don’t worry, it can be fixed. First off, to prevent building a tolerance, it’s a good idea to get into a routine of taking a few days a week off from pheromones in a row. Then when you do use them, you should be able to feel the full effect. Other people you’re in regular contact with can build up a resistance, so it’s good to give their noses a rest, too. If you find that you have already become a bit desensitized, then you should take a full week off to allow your brain and senses to reset. > > Thanks Miss Dragon! I will def. Have to work that into my mone routine! I have been trying to make sure I dont do more then two dayd in a row with one mone as a way to prevent it but I love the advice !! > > Actually, I’d say your dog probably is responding mostly to your pheromones, not mainly your actions. Actions are probably secondary. Dogs are WAY more sensitive to pheromones than humans are. They are used to pheromones being a major way for them to communicate with each other. Even though AD uses synthetic pheromones, some of these pheromones still send messages to a dog’s nose that the dog can understand. > > That makes a lot of sense… I was mostly trying to convey that there was a dramatic difference in the way they responded ( not necessarily in a social vs non social mone way) it was more like they were receiving it differently then they have androtics or the cleo. When I apply an androtics mone depending on which one they will respond butalways end up sniffing at my forearm where it is applied and the changes in behavior are in relation to their behavior towards me. With the 2 mones from pure line they have only sniffed the very 1st time and behavior changes are general not in relation towards me (i.e. submissive, dominant, calm destructive). > This is what makes me suspicious of the type/quality of mones in the pure temptation/love. > > Looking forward to your new posts! Thank you I have been reading yours and am look fwd to your post! ---
**Author:** ![mascara\_mones](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mascara_mones/32/1510_2.png) [@mascara\_mones](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mascara_mones)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2014, 3:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/13 "2014-12-29T03:10:30Z")
I have been testing various pheromones pretty much every day for about a month now, and I’m noticing that even with mones I have not used before I am not getting the strong self affects I usually do . So taking the awesome Miss Dragon’s advice I’m going to take a mini mone break. This will also give me a chance to finally catch up on posting the test I have noted. ---
**Author:** ![mascara\_mones](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mascara_mones/32/1510_2.png) [@mascara\_mones](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mascara_mones)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2014, 3:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/14 "2014-12-29T03:36:19Z")
IS/B First run with IS/B! Initial Impression : oh how I love this smell! It is very similar to IS/A Application: one spray between forearms one split between neck pluse points Self affects: over than my obsessive sniffing of the is/b none Scene : last minute shopping and home Affects on dogs: normal (occasional sniff at my forearm) Others: I notice a few people being nicer than normal however they are strangers. Hubby: A few more sweet little touches and comments then normal. Day 2 Application: 4 sprays total one on each side of my neck one on my chest one split between my forearms. Scene: home, the vets and Walgreens … Self Affects: really not feeling any The dogs: do their normal sniff at forearms then turn into to cuddling machines. Rubbing their heads against my hands legs any contact they can get … when I left to take my older dog for his shot I could hear my younger dog crying given that my husband was home this is unusual. People: People seem to be going out of their way to talk to me and standing much closer then normal . At the vets: the ladies at the front desk are always nice but today they are doing anything they can to help me. The one male didnt seem any different, and honestly I am glad he is a bit of an odd character. This vet absolutely loves my boy dog and always goves him a little more love then the other dogs and my dog absolutely loves her, she always makes sure shes the one to give c his shot. However this time she spends an extra 10ish min loving on c and chatting with me. Not entirely unsual ( she really is an awesome vet.) However definitely longer than normal and she was busy this day. Hubby: hubs woke up crabby this morning and was being kinda distant. About 30 min after I applied the is/b O brought him in some expresso this sets off a chain of him finding random things to come tell me about. And random little acts of teasing. This continues a large portion of the day( between my errands) and eventually ends with sex I say eventually because there was an extensive period of him flirting/teasing me then going back to what he was doing … but hey I kinda like the random drawn out attention 😉 ---
**Author:** ![mascara\_mones](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mascara_mones/32/1510_2.png) [@mascara\_mones](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mascara_mones)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2014, 6:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/15 "2014-12-29T06:36:51Z")
New Years resolution/ changing the way I post I’ve never done the new years resolution thing but Im going to this year. Resolution 1: Write a post at least every time I wear a mone. Ive got a whole lot going on right now both emotionally and in life and I really don’t have an outlet. So I am departing from my strictly research style post and I am going to be pouring my life into my post. I hope that this time next year I can look back and honestly say that not only have I learned a lot but that I am in a better place. There may be better places for this type of thing but Im really bad at keeping everything in and I honestly love reporting on the pheromones I try out so hopefully that will help me stick with it. I know that anyone who may be reading probably doesn’t want to read all my crap so In the subject line I’ll post the mones I used that day and I’ll do my best to put a short research style recap at the top or bottom of the post. Resolution 2: Get the body I’ve always wanted. I’m in decent shape and workout often however I have always had a few areas I am self conscious about this year if something I’m self conscious about can be improved it will be. Resolution 3: To be ok with me with life etc. In the spirit of getting everything out a short recap of my life now (hey if I’m lucky in a year Ill look back and this will all be better and seem like years ago!) Hubs and I are having major issues, he loves me but isnt in love with me . I’ve heard everything to as soon as your done with school I’m filing to this year (a little over a year) is a trial period. He took hos ring off and it’s like I’m walking on egg shells. I have anxiety issues I always have I’ve only recently been put on meds for it and started working on it. I’ve also recently been told by several people that I am an empath and I honestly recognize a lot of my traits in the research I’ve done. I don’t hate my job, I’m just so sick of service industry, I was never supposed to be Bartending this long … but in typical me style I followed school/career plans that other people wanted . I’m finally going back to what I want and I’m crossing my fingers that it works out. ---
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2014, 2:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/16 "2014-12-30T02:29:54Z")
I’m sorry to hear about the things you are going through. That is really rough. I think your new journaling style is great, it can be a nice outlet to write about your life as you are reporting. We’re using these mones to enhance our lives, so it makes sense that we would talk about our lives as we use them. I’m very sorry to hear about the decisions your husband is making. It really sounds very unfair. No wonder you’re dealing with anxiety. If you’d be interested in an occasional quick fix for the anxiety (if you have a particularly difficult moment), I think you could benefit from trying p130. For many people, it provides quick relief of anxiety symptoms. It’s not a long-term solution, and it can’t take the place of your meds, but it can be helpful during a rough moment. I’m not going to speculate on your marriage or the situations involved, but if you’re interested in trying something, you might experiment with p96. It’s been known to give cuddly, lovey-dovey effects in high doses, like around 50 mcg. This is absolutely not a substitute for counseling, nor will it fix any problems. But it can give a momentary boost, a change from the usual. ---
**Author:** ![mascara\_mones](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mascara_mones/32/1510_2.png) [@mascara\_mones](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mascara_mones)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2014, 6:38am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/17 "2014-12-30T06:38:31Z")
Thanks Miss Dragon I was actually considering those two after reading your journal and I believe it was Girl Fridays. I know the mones can’t fix my marriage but if they can make things a little easier then I’m all for it 🙂 Besides they appeal to my science loving side and honestly provide a nice little distraction for me. I find myself focusing more on recording them than worrying about him ---
**Author:** ![somechick03862](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/278dde/32.png) [@somechick03862](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/somechick03862)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2014, 12:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/18 "2014-12-30T12:33:53Z")
I strongly second the suggestion of [P130](https://pheromonelabs.com/product/p130/) for the anxiety. It is my go-to for that. It always helps me to calm myself when things get overwhelming. I wear it alone for that, and with mixes for other things. It is one that I don’t like to be without. I try to keep some on hand at all times 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![mascara\_mones](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mascara_mones/32/1510_2.png) [@mascara\_mones](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mascara_mones)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2014, 4:53pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/19 "2014-12-30T16:53:18Z")
Thank you Miss Dragon and Somechick I appreciate the advice and the support means alot 🙂 Reading both of your jounals I realized that people here dont don’t seem to be bothered by posting personal stuff that isnt strictly [pheromone](https://a314.com/shop/) research and I love it. I haven’t made many close friends since we moved here so having a place to get some stuff out is awesome Thank you both again! ---
**Author:** ![mascara\_mones](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mascara_mones/32/1510_2.png) [@mascara\_mones](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mascara_mones)\ **Post date:** [December 30, 2014, 5:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531/20 "2014-12-30T17:32:43Z")
Instant shine/openness I have one day each with instant shine and openness. These were self test days and I think I had built up a bit of a mone tolerance because I didn’t notice any self affects. I will say that when hubby got home he was in a better mode and more talkative then normal. I plan to test these solo again soon. [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ginger-her-mones/63531.md?page=2)