# A ladies advice **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [March 17, 2010, 4:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ladies-advice/37078 "2010-03-17T04:35:31Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bestintel](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bestintel/32/1883_2.png) [@bestintel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bestintel)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 4:35am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ladies-advice/37078/1 "2010-03-17T04:35:31Z")
Hi ladies, I have a question for you all if you don’t mind. I have a coworker who told me, a girl asked if I was hot for her. I would usually take this as an IOI but I’m worried on how to respond. I would like some advice if possible Thanks ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 7:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ladies-advice/37078/2 "2010-03-17T07:02:46Z")
> [@smellymen2002](#): > > Hi ladies, I have a question for you all if you don’t mind. I have a coworker who told me, a girl asked if I was hot for her. I would usually take this as an IOI but I’m worried on how to respond. > > I would like some advice if possible > > Thanks That really depends on whether you actually are interested in her or not. And how did you reply when she said that? The moment is past now, so you may not have to worry about coming up with a response. But if you do get put on the spot again, you might want to reply in a lightly joking manner, so that you don’t embarrass yourself or inadvertently hurt her feelings, in case she does have an interest in you. If she really is interested in you, you will know, because she will very likely drop other hints and such, now that she’s “broken the ice” by asking you that question. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 9:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ladies-advice/37078/3 "2010-03-17T09:07:04Z")
Well if she **asked this** coworker to find out if your were hot for her its the same as asking does he like me which is a IOI. If she just made a statement in front of this coworker like " I think smellymen is hot for me" then no thats not a indication of interest. Its just a observation. How you respond is up to you but I would go with SK advice and keep it light and either fun or teasing. Answer in such a way that it holds her interest but dosent give a clear indication of how you feel. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![bestintel](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bestintel/32/1883_2.png) [@bestintel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bestintel)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 12:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ladies-advice/37078/4 "2010-03-17T12:37:38Z")
> [@Sillykitty](#): > > That really depends on whether you actually are interested in her or not. And how did you reply when she said that? The moment is past now, so you may not have to worry about coming up with a response. > > But if you do get put on the spot again, you might want to reply in a lightly joking manner, so that you don’t embarrass yourself or inadvertently hurt her feelings, in case she does have an interest in you. > > If she really is interested in you, you will know, because she will very likely drop other hints and such, now that she’s “broken the ice” by asking you that question. I’m interested in her, I did not want to take an IOI for something that it was not. How will she drop other hint’s and stuff could you give me an example from a woman’s perspective? I’m kind of new at this stuff you see. ---
**Author:** ![Cindy11](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/439d5e/32.png) [@Cindy11](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Cindy11)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 1:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ladies-advice/37078/5 "2010-03-17T13:07:51Z")
> [@smellymen2002](#): > > I’m interested in her, I did not want to take an IOI for something that it was not. > > How will she drop other hint’s and stuff could you give me an example from a woman’s perspective? I’m kind of new at this stuff you see. If she’s interested in you she will drop other hints. The hints depend on the social setting and on her personality. I would just make more eye contact and I would hold the eye contact a little longer, sometimes smiling and sometimes without smiling. If you’re interested in her, she will know it. I can almost always tell when a guy finds me attractive by the way he looks at me. There have been very few guys whose eyes I looked into without seein attraction there and it turned out that they liked me anyway, most guys are very easy to read. 😃 ---
**Author:** ![bestintel](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bestintel/32/1883_2.png) [@bestintel](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bestintel)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 2:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ladies-advice/37078/6 "2010-03-17T14:09:06Z")
I thought it was kind of weird she asked because now she is trying to hook me up with her sister. I don’t understand that part either.😕 One could say I’m kind of clueless when it come to women. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Pagodeiro](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pagodeiro/32/1226_2.png) [@Pagodeiro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pagodeiro)\ **Post date:** [March 17, 2010, 7:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-ladies-advice/37078/7 "2010-03-17T19:47:46Z")
Hi Smellyman look on top of the men´s section .. you will find there a master list of IOI’S … this won´t help you in this special case now .. but maybe it will help you to figure out if there´s some interst from her site in a nonverbal way .. Pago