# A little help from my friends. **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [July 26, 2009, 6:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-little-help-from-my-friends/31020 "2009-07-26T18:06:19Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![zoo599](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/cdc98d/32.png) [@zoo599](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/zoo599)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2009, 6:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-little-help-from-my-friends/31020/1 "2009-07-26T18:06:19Z")
Hi everyone, Total newbie here. Been reading alot, and I get more and more confused. So much to learn, so a little bit about me. Been with hubby 25 years,3 kids, libido has never been strong for me except when pregnant. Hubby, not as affectionate anymore, unfortunately life gets in the way when we let it. Deep conversation… not there anymore. Major trauma in our life 2 years ago, is still with us and that gets in the way also. We love each other dearly, but need something to spice things up, to want to cuddle again, talk. I don’t know if important, but I am full blown menopause, and he in andropause. Will be both tested for Testosterone deficiency. Any suggestions will be greatly appreciated.☹ ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2009, 7:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-little-help-from-my-friends/31020/2 "2009-07-26T19:39:33Z")
Hi Zoo, Welcome to the forum! I don’t blame you for being overwhelmed by all the info on the forum…there is a lot of it! 🙂 If you haven’t already read the stickies in the women section I highly recommend you do that. They contain a lot of great basic phero info. Also, keep in mind when reading other members reports or posts that age does matter in terms of dosage with some phero’s…so I’d look at some of the forum members who are of the same age as yourself first. Some of the really experienced ladies here on the forum that are 40 or above include Tisha, Diane, Lor and SillyKitty. If you want to improve communication in your relationship then I suggest you have a look at either IH or IO. They are both great for boosting communication, but in different ways. IH will boost the quality of conversation whereas IO increases the quantity. For boosting your sexiness with to both yourself and your hubby I’d recommend you try either IS/a or IS/b depending on your personality. They are both great, but you may want to add some copulins to the mix given your age and being menopausal. You can’t buy cops here but you can get them from LoveScent. Hope that helps, if you have any questions just ask 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![renny](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/renny/32/2104_2.png) [@renny](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/renny)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2009, 9:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-little-help-from-my-friends/31020/3 "2009-07-26T21:12:06Z")
If Hubs is onboard with the [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) get him some AMMO and maybe a little TUTH so he can return the good vibes you are sending him. Like Xiphoid said though start with the IH and IO. Welcome to the boards and add Bella to the list of ladies to look for. She and her hubby use pheromones together and she reports from that standpoint. ---
**Author:** ![AlexanderG](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/alexanderg/32/891_2.png) [@AlexanderG](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/AlexanderG)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2009, 9:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-little-help-from-my-friends/31020/4 "2009-07-26T21:36:46Z")
Welcome Zoo, Thanks for providing the info. I think you should try [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) and the social products (instant range) to help spice things up. Have a good read of [The Mens Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168)and let us know if you have any more questions. Be sure to return and let us know your results! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [July 27, 2009, 11:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-little-help-from-my-friends/31020/5 "2009-07-27T23:19:27Z")
> [@AlexanderG](#): > > Welcome Zoo, > > Thanks for providing the info. I think you should try Ammo and the social products (instant range) to help spice things up. > > Have a good read of [The Mens Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/mens-pheromone-guide-revised-6-15/12168)and let us know if you have any more questions. > > Be sure to return and let us know your results! 🙂 Umm wow! You do realize this is a woman you’re telling to read the mens guide???😕 ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [July 27, 2009, 11:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-little-help-from-my-friends/31020/6 "2009-07-27T23:24:31Z")
Hi zoo and welcome to PheroTalk. I can understand your position since I answer the hotline and I get tons of calls from people just like you. It’s not really your fault and has nothing to do with you personally. As men and woman age woman get more inclined to have sex, while men slow down. It’s just one of those things that nature likes to play on us. The good news is that pheromones can work pretty well to help increase a mans desire for you. I’d recommend some IH and Ishine, just to lighten the load of the mind and to uplift the mood. The IH will create deep rapport and both these are great to help with those basic things that will lead to that road you desire. Good luck 🙂. I am issuing your GC to your email