# A question about mixing and one about A314. **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 13, 2007, 5:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-question-about-mixing-and-one-about-a314/4625 "2007-07-13T17:58:39Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Frank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Frank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Frank)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2007, 5:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-question-about-mixing-and-one-about-a314/4625/1 "2007-07-13T17:58:39Z")
First question: (and I’ve searched for this but to no avail) Does it make any difference at all if, when using a mix, you spray one phero over the other? Let’s say Instant Openess over [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) on wrists as opposed to one on wrists and the other in crooks of elbows? Second, I’ve been using A314 and have not noticed any effect on others at all but I did have an experience the other day that made me wonder: Is A314 making me more intimidating or imposing to some folks? I’ve been told my looks plus my personality can be intimidating to some. The other day I was in a pub and wound up sitting alone in a booth with a late-20s, very-pretty, recently-married bartender with whom I’ve always been friendly, but not necessarily chatty. (There had been three of us and we found ourselves alone when the third–a male–got up rather abruptly. I was wearing a mix of Shine, Instant Female Magic and A314. When he left, I asked her how married life was going and she said he was being a slob and not straightening up the house even though he was home all day. I laughed and started to share my experience on that subject when she made an excuse to get up and move to the bar. She obviously did not want to be in that booth with me although she knew others would soon be joining us. Later she and I playing cards with four other folks. I noticed her cutting me quick, discreet glances from across the table (she was not trying to make eye contact.) It seemed like curiosity to me. The guy who got up is quiet and reserved but friendly to me. She has a good sense of humor and has a little edge to her. There are obvious answers that would have nothing to do with pheros. I just wanted to see if anyone else has found that A314 can be intimidating. Finally, an observation that perhaps some folks may want comment on: With or without A314, I’ve experienced men staring at me in close quarters when wearing Shine, Instant Female Magic, Instant Honesty and Ammunition. For example, the first time I wore this mix (and had had it on for only about 15 minutes) my best friend could not stop staring at my face and he seemed to be on the verge of saying something to me for several minutes. He had a look on his face of curiosity. I had the exact experience yesterday with an casual acquaintance while wearing a mix of Shine, Instant Female Magic and A314. There were three of us talking and he was closest. He had the same look of curiosity–like he was searching for something. These are intense looks. Really unique experiences. Heh. Thanks for reading all of this. ---
**Author:** ![Pheraoh](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pheraoh/32/857_2.png) [@Pheraoh](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pheraoh)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2007, 6:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-question-about-mixing-and-one-about-a314/4625/2 "2007-07-13T18:12:04Z")
A314 can be perceived as really intimidating to some people. You said it yourself. Your look and personality. It probably amplifies your demeanor. People also take you alot more seriously when you wear A314. It can be fun but if you’re one of those people that likes to joke alot people can take you really serious. ---
**Author:** ![Frank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Frank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Frank)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2007, 6:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-question-about-mixing-and-one-about-a314/4625/3 "2007-07-13T18:18:14Z")
Oh boy, that makes sense and I do joke a lot. Man, I’m gonna have to be careful with this stuff. People often take me too seriously in the first place. ---
**Author:** ![Pheraoh](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/pheraoh/32/857_2.png) [@Pheraoh](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Pheraoh)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2007, 6:38pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-question-about-mixing-and-one-about-a314/4625/4 "2007-07-13T18:38:09Z")
Yeah if I worked for a repo company or collections this stuff would be gold 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Frank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/f/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Frank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Frank)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2007, 5:42pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-question-about-mixing-and-one-about-a314/4625/5 "2007-07-14T17:42:21Z")
Wow, talk about a difference! Last night I went to the same pub and the same female bartender was there outside in a courtyard sitting at a picnic table with some other folks. Well, I ended up on the same bench she was and I sat as far away as I could to give her lots of space. She was very chatty and cutting up with me, and when she got up and returned, she sat down much closer to me and would lean over and touch my arm while joking around. She wasn’t flirting, she was just real comfortable talking with me. The only phero I had on was five shots of Shine–one on each side of my head, the back, the face and the upper chest and neck. I’ll do the same thing again on Sunday and see if I get a similar reaction. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2007, 6:12pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-question-about-mixing-and-one-about-a314/4625/6 "2007-07-14T18:12:27Z")
Hi Frank In regards to your first question Yes you can spray one product on top of the other if you want. Have Fun Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2007, 7:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-question-about-mixing-and-one-about-a314/4625/7 "2007-07-14T19:04:34Z")
Like the other poster hinted at, reactions to A314 are tied to your persona, appearance and body chemistry, so we all get different results. I can’t get any negative reactions–intimidation–unless I try really hard to act like a mean badass. Normal reactions for me are good communication and respectful responses. No sexual overtones and a bit too much of a “fatherly vibe” if used solo. I really need to add androstenone to spice it up and get the reactions I prefer.