# a quick MX274 report **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 21, 2008, 1:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962 "2008-07-21T01:03:58Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 19\ **Page:** 3
**Author:** ![toohot95](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/toohot95/32/1043_2.png) [@toohot95](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/toohot95)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2008, 7:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/41 "2008-07-26T19:45:33Z")
**Hey Remmy, sorry for mispelling your name hun šŸ™‚ . Msselva is right about the ā€œIndian Traditionā€ thing. It seems he pick and choose when he wants to follow his culture. There is NO excuse to treat you that way. The audcaity of this little punk, carrying on like that with another girl in front of you šŸ˜  . When a man does things like this, he is showing you by action that he can careless. This is your cue to leave darling.** **Seriously, I would just cut him off completely. Donā€™t even tell him. Just dont answer his calls, emails, text or anything. Donā€™t give him the satisfaction of seeing you upset or showing him that you give a damn. If you see him I would ignore him and act like I you donā€™t even see him. If he says something to you turn the cheek and walk away. Treat him as if he is venim šŸ˜  ! He is deadly and will ONLY hurt you. That will show him not to be an ass hole! I have done this to both my exā€™s and to this day they both want me. They are still the slut buckets they were when I was with them but they know they lost a good woman. Itā€™s hard at first but were women, were strong.** ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2008, 7:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/42 "2008-07-26T19:45:37Z")
Hey remmy, Iā€™m sorry things turned out the way they did with your TG, but as everyone else has said, youā€™re better off without him. You are a beautiful girl, inside and out, and deserve someone that will love and appreciate you! As for the EST, if you want to PM me your shipping information, Iā€™ll send you a to-go size bottle of it, so you can try it before investing your money on it. ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2008, 7:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/43 "2008-07-26T19:51:13Z")
> [@toohot95](#): > > **Seriously, I would just cut him off completely. Donā€™t even tell him. Just dont answer his calls, emails, text or anything. Donā€™t give him the satisfaction of seeing you upset or showing him that you give a damn. If you see him I would ignore him and act like I you donā€™t even see him. If he says something to you turn the cheek and walk away. Treat him as if he is venim šŸ˜  ! He is deadly and will ONLY hurt you. That will show him not to be an ass hole! I have done this to both my exā€™s and to this day they both want me. They are still the slut buckets they were when I was with them but they know they lost a good woman. Itā€™s hard at first but were women, were strong.** Amen Sister! ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2008, 8:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/44 "2008-07-26T20:02:53Z")
Yep! I meant to say pretty much the same thing in my last post, but forgot to. If you go off on him you are showing him that you care, and he gets the satisfaction of knowing that. On the other hand, if you walk away and completely ignore him, then he gets to feel that youā€™re the one whoā€™s not interested and have written him off. Actually the best thing to do, but also the hardest, would be to remain sociable toward him, but anytime he tries to make a move on you to shoot him down, and say something like you just donā€™t see him that way, or that you thought there might have been something there but realized that there really isnā€™t. That makes you the bigger person and makes him see just how badly he fā€™d up. ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2008, 8:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/45 "2008-07-26T20:48:54Z")
hi guys šŸ™‚ thanx for everything, really! i didnt mean to make it into a big discussion but thank you all for being so sweet and with all ur advices šŸ™‚ i think im just gna not talk to him, completely ignore him like you guys said and if he asks why ill just tell him off. at least i see that heā€™s a bad person early enough so i wouldnt chase after him.. and even if it did work out, im sure heā€™s not worth it. \<3 remmy ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2008, 9:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/46 "2008-07-26T21:19:14Z")
> [@remmy](#): > > hi guys šŸ™‚ > > thanx for everything, really! i didnt mean to make it into a big discussion but thank you all for being so sweet and with all ur advices šŸ™‚ > > i think im just gna not talk to him, completely ignore him like you guys said and if he asks why ill just tell him off. at least i see that heā€™s a bad person early enough so i wouldnt chase after him.. and even if it did work out, im sure heā€™s not worth it. > > \<3 remmy (((((( remmy ))))))) take a walk outside and enjoy the nice breeze šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2008, 9:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/47 "2008-07-26T21:22:45Z")
Well Iā€™m late here, remmy, but I want to say Iā€™m sorry it didnā€™t work out the way you wanted it to with TG. I wouldnā€™t blow up at him. It would just show him how much he got to ya. A waste of time and energy best put to use moving on. If he does approach youā€¦this is what Iā€™d doā€¦look at him like the insect he isā€¦and if so compelledā€¦quietly sayā€¦ā€œGo fuck yourselfā€ā€¦turn on your heel and walk away. Donā€™t look back. Youā€™re a smart, interesting, very ({{sweet girl}}) who has a lot to offer and you deserve a whole lot better. Take the time you needā€¦dry your tearsā€¦and get your cute little butt out there and find it! šŸ˜‰ Bella ---
**Author:** ![copycat](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/copycat/32/896_2.png) [@copycat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/copycat)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2008, 9:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/48 "2008-07-26T21:47:36Z")
> [@remmy](#): > > aww thanx u guys for worrying šŸ™‚ > to make a long story short: > yesterday, i went out with a bunch of people and the TG started to dance with this girl who he had flirted with last week, stroking her thighs and things like that. Even after i got mad, he started to dance with her right in front of meā€¦ What a pig! My ex-husband pulled crap like that on me. Move on, you donā€™t need anyone in your life who doesnā€™t respect you. ---
**Author:** ![WildFlower](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wildflower/32/1260_2.png) [@WildFlower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WildFlower)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2008, 10:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/49 "2008-07-26T22:11:31Z")
> [@](#): > > not sure if i should blow up at him before i cut him off or not, i havent decided yet. No, defiantly just ignore him, the not knowing where he stands will leave him with many sleepless nights (hopefully lol). If you just ignore him heā€™ll think heā€™s the one who blew it (he was) where as if you get angry at him he will probably associate bitter feelings with you, which he has no right to. If you need closure try and ā€œaccidentallyā€ end up in the same bar as him or something and make sure you make it really obvious that your having the time of you life even if your not lol. I know if I was him and in that situation Iā€™d be kicking myself big time. I feel really stoo-pid because I have no idea what TG means. I tried this website but none of the defenitions fitted. I just canā€™t imagine a Turbine Generator dancing with girls lol. [thanksgiving - What does TG stand for? Acronyms and abbreviations by the Free Online Dictionary.](http://acronyms.thefreedictionary.com/thanksgiving) ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [July 26, 2008, 10:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/50 "2008-07-26T22:13:29Z")
> [@WildFlower](#): > > I feel really stoo-pid because I have no idea what TG means. I tried this website but none of the defenitions fitted. I just canā€™t imagine a Turbine Generator dancing with girls lol. [thanksgiving - What does TG stand for? Acronyms and abbreviations by the Free Online Dictionary.](http://acronyms.thefreedictionary.com/thanksgiving) lol! youā€™re not stupid, just funny. TG = target guy šŸ˜‰ ---
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [July 29, 2008, 11:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/51 "2008-07-29T23:25:59Z")
Remmy, sorry Iā€™m late in answering this but I agree with the others, kick his sorry ass to the curb! He doesnā€™t deserve a second of your attention and really not if he tried to ā€œshow offā€ the action. WTF, does he think that stroking another girl is going to get you interested in his loser, disrespectful ways (both to you and other chick)? ---
**Author:** ![phernoob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phernoob/32/180_2.png) [@phernoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/phernoob)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2008, 1:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/52 "2008-07-30T01:50:49Z")
Ok I am really late to this party! Remmy, I cannot believe that would happen to you. If that is your pic, then I am jealous! I had that happen to me once too. Yep, better to know now what a shit he is than after you are married with kids and a mortgage. Geez, what a dickhead! He is not worthy. We need a pheromone to ward off the assholes. Save us loads of time! ---
**Author:** ![remmy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/remmy/32/2451_2.png) [@remmy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/remmy)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2008, 4:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/53 "2008-07-30T04:19:35Z")
so u guys probably would want an update: he started to call me like it was his job starting sunday. i kinda just blew him off. he shows up to my room (we live in the same building since its the dorm apt) and the very first thing he says ā€œim not dating her, i dont think sheā€™s even pretty, i think sheā€™s stupidā€ so i said, u can do whatever the fuck u want, i dont give a shit. he basically spent the time talking about how stupid she was and that heā€™d really like it if we are still good friends. but if it would be bad, heā€™d understand since i _obviously_ cannot get over him. i said, iā€™ll do whatever i want. he can call me if he wants to but im not sure if id pick up since thats my prerogative. i also said that i will never ever call him first. monday he called me once and asked if i could unblock him from aim. i said, im out with friends right now. i didnt unblock him. i ā€œforgotā€ to. today he, bunch of our friends, and i went to see to les mis (bought tix long long time ago so i couldnt get out of it) he sat next to me and tried really hard to flirt with me (btw i wore eow and MX274 for a revenge. hmph.) he kept leaning over to ask what the plot was, he kept trying to make jokes etc etc. i basically didnt even pay attention most of the times. and said that maybe he should read the synopsis when he gets home. then he got really jealous when i said i was gna go out afterwards with my friends. what a jackass. hmph. anyways, thanx guys for all your support. i really didnt mean to be selfish and make it into a forumwide discussion but it made me realize once more how loving and friendly this forum is and iā€™m really glad to have u guys šŸ™‚ im still healing and im sure ill pull through soon with all your kind words šŸ™‚ \<3 remmy ---
**Author:** ![Tealeaves](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tealeaves/32/1293_2.png) [@Tealeaves](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Tealeaves)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2008, 12:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/54 "2008-07-30T12:36:55Z")
Iā€™m a little late to the thread, but Iā€™ve been watching the development of this relationshipā€¦ and let me just say, all you did was drop some extra baggage. > [@remmy](#): > > ā€œim not dating her, **i dont think sheā€™s even pretty, i think sheā€™s stupid** ā€ > > he basically spent the time talking about **how stupid she was** Yes, because bashing some other girl that wasnā€™t at fault (even if she did know about you two) will make you forgive him. Heā€™s trying to redirect your attention toward the girl so that youā€™ll be mad at her insteadā€¦ either that, or it doesnā€™t even occur to him that it is _his_ fault. ā€œNo, itā€™s okay; the girl is stupid; donā€™t worry about her.ā€ He is really immature. > [@](#): > > and that heā€™d really like it if we are still good friends. but if it would be bad, heā€™d understand since **i _obviously_ cannot get over him**. What a dicknose. Heā€™s trying to turn it around on you! > [@](#): > > then he got really jealous when i said i was gna go out afterwards with my friends. Jealous because, _against all odds_, you can have fun without him. Jeez. Well, he knows what a good thing heā€™s losing. Heā€™s taken you for granted all this time, and now he feels the sting of loss. Donā€™t waste another thought on that guy šŸ˜‰ ---
**Author:** ![phernoob](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phernoob/32/180_2.png) [@phernoob](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/phernoob)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2008, 2:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/55 "2008-07-30T14:30:09Z")
Remmy - you go girl! Score one for the strong women team! ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2008, 2:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/56 "2008-07-30T14:57:46Z")
I really am sorry it turned out, and I know it hurts after all this time, but you are better off without the slug. ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2008, 4:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/57 "2008-07-30T16:27:50Z")
((((( Remmy ))))) OMG! you go girl! like I always say, you will find your true prince charming šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [July 30, 2008, 6:08pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/58 "2008-07-30T18:08:02Z")
> [@remmy](#): > > i kinda just blew him off. > > i didnt unblock him. i ā€œforgotā€ to. Good going, girlie! He doesnā€™t deserve any of your time, if all he found was to throw his responsability on the other girl. ---
**Author:** ![lifeissweet](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/97f17d/32.png) [@lifeissweet](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lifeissweet)\ **Post date:** [August 1, 2008, 3:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962/59 "2008-08-01T15:49:31Z")
> [@Tealeaves](#): > > Iā€™m a little late to the thread, but Iā€™ve been watching the development of this relationshipā€¦ and let me just say, all you did was drop some extra baggage. > > Yes, because bashing some other girl that wasnā€™t at fault (even if she did know about you two) will make you forgive him. Heā€™s trying to redirect your attention toward the girl so that youā€™ll be mad at her insteadā€¦ either that, or it doesnā€™t even occur to him that it is _his_ fault. ā€œNo, itā€™s okay; the girl is stupid; donā€™t worry about her.ā€ He is really immature. > What a dicknose. Heā€™s trying to turn it around on you! > > Jealous because, _against all odds_, you can have fun without him. Jeez. > > Well, he knows what a good thing heā€™s losing. Heā€™s taken you for granted all this time, and now he feels the sting of loss. Donā€™t waste another thought on that guy šŸ˜‰ I totally agree with others. He totally disrespected you it appears he is not taking responsibility for dancing with the other girl when he now knows you didnā€™t appreciate that. Move on girl, you definitely deserve better than that. [Previous page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a-quick-mx274-report/15962.md?page=2)