# a314 + sports **URL:** \ **Category:** A314 Insider's Club\ **Created:** [November 11, 2009, 9:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-sports/34010 "2009-11-11T21:17:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![falcos](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/falcos/32/1189_2.png) [@falcos](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/falcos)\ **Post date:** [November 11, 2009, 9:17pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-sports/34010/1 "2009-11-11T21:17:44Z")
Well I am a very composed person until I lost it, wich is really really hard to happen… Either my friends are in danger, or I am two drunk … or anyone harming my girl in any way… or playing football (soccer). The thing is, even then I can still control it sometimes meaning either I am a raging barbarian or a caulculist cold blodded bastard, either way when I lost it I am out to hurt… and hurt like flesh and bones. But If I am a cold blooded bastard, I can still manage some control, and dont attack unless the person who make it happens dont back off wich many times happens, because I appear to be a very frightning person when I lost it (maybe I pump a lot of fermones in this state). Well what I want to ask is this, I play soccer now regularly at tuesdays, and there is a lot of rivalary between teams and a lot of competition, we are far superior to them unless we are tired, wich happens a lot since we are starting to play 2 hours instead of 1. So the other team plays very rough to compensate their lack of ability. But they arent normaly out to hurt except one guy that seems that he dosent care of others well being when goes to the ball. Last game, I almost lost it because of this guy, for the first time playing against this team. I am very agily although I am not flexible, I am fairly fast (and I have extra weight right now), and I am pretty intelegent wich let me read the game very well, making me fairly good player. This guy is the best player of this team and usally we go in one on ones very easly, in the beggininh he was clearly winning (because i was out of shape) but now he cant pass anytime by me and I can pass him easly. So last game, I just trashed him passing in the most humiliating way and he just triped me. I almost lost control and he felt treatned by my reaction, becoming more agressive instead of backing off. I wasnt that off so I could control it. But I dont want this to happen again cuz I dont like to lose control. SO after this biggg explanation my question is, wearing a314 during a game, would it have unwanted side effects? would it make me more temperamental? would it make less temperamental? would it make me appear more dangerous and intimidating, thus making them charge me more with rough plays? Should I were it or not? I really dont want this to happen aggain but I dont know if it is a good idea or a bad idea to use it. Anyone? ---
**Author:** ![andrew88777](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/a/f14d63/32.png) [@andrew88777](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/andrew88777)\ **Post date:** [November 12, 2009, 2:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-sports/34010/2 "2009-11-12T02:31:35Z")
A314, will not cause you to become more or less physically agressive in a maniac “I want to hurt you kind of way”. It may have this person to back off from you out of respect. However, you need to learn to control your emotions and actions. Nothing you or anyone else does, is because of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). Its because they made a conscience decision to take an action. People make the the best choice they can at the time. You will have to be the one to open your eyes and thoughts to a new alternate way of handling your agression/anger/desire to hurt someone. Even if its quiting in the middle of a game. You should think about and decide on a valve or trigger that will allow you to instantly get rid of your anger as soon as you feel it rising up inside of youself.