# A314+Turn Up The Heat+IShine+Instant Female Magic = An Interesting Night

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-turn-up-the-heat-ishine-instant-female-magic-an-interesting-night/8898>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [February 5, 2008, 1:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-turn-up-the-heat-ishine-instant-female-magic-an-interesting-night/8898 "2008-02-05T13:58:40Z")\
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**Author:** ![GoldenForest](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/g/c57346/32.png) [@GoldenForest](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GoldenForest)\
**Post date:** [February 10, 2008, 7:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-turn-up-the-heat-ishine-instant-female-magic-an-interesting-night/8898/21 "2008-02-10T19:30:58Z")

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> [@comradmax](#):
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> oooh, nice insight 🙂 makes a lot of sense. also for a family of any race, if the males were aggressive in negative ways, then perhaps using none around their women would actually enhance the negative feelings she has toward you?
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> anyway, back to being used to a higher none signature from an early age and not being scared of it as a result. would that also make true a hypothesis that such women REQUIRE higher none to be attracted?

I don’t know that its a requirement, but your theory is interesting!  
We tend to try to replace the dominant male or female role in our lives, so whatever figure was the dominant male figure for the female tends, the characteristics of that male tend to be the things that the female will find attractive in a male

This is kind of a very general description of it, it gets much deeper but I forget most of the theory

But anyways, based on that, the female would find a higher 'none sig more attractive but there are many many characteristics that a female finds attractive, it would take a pretty strange situation to isolate attraction down to a single thing like a high 'none sig

even more so with that example because phero’s tend to dictate the initial reaction people have most and then during the interactions they can cause reactions to lean in your favor but they will not directly control the interaction enough to cause attraction by themselves

and deciding a person’s worth as a mate before interacting with them at all is a very low confidence/low self esteem behavior  
A confident person wants to know about the other person before they draw their conclusions, they may see the other person as physically attractive and may be aroused by them but will want to at least know who they are dealing with before taking any drastic actions

To look into your idea more specifically, with negative aggression that would most likely have to be of a sexual or physically abusive nature to have such an effect, and I really wouldn’t know where to go with that one, it tends to cause psychological damage and creates complex problems within the persons mind and people react differently (although almost always negatively) to it  
and yea, such traumatic experiences could be linked to higher aggression or a higher 'none sig which would make the women fear aggression and probably men in general as that is where most of the strength of a 'none sig would come from but like I said, those situations are very complicated and go outside the norm of human behavior which is why they try to fix the problems with therapy and such

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**Author:** ![codemax](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/codemax/32/5173_2.png) [@codemax](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/codemax)\
**Post date:** [February 11, 2008, 7:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-turn-up-the-heat-ishine-instant-female-magic-an-interesting-night/8898/22 "2008-02-11T19:33:21Z")

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> [@GoldenForest](#):
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> To look into your idea more specifically, with negative aggression that would most likely have to be of a sexual or physically abusive nature to have such an effect, and I really wouldn’t know where to go with that one, it tends to cause psychological damage and creates complex problems within the persons mind and people react differently (although almost always negatively) to it  
> and yea, such traumatic experiences could be linked to higher aggression or a higher 'none sig which would make the women fear aggression and probably men in general as that is where most of the strength of a 'none sig would come from but like I said, those situations are very complicated and go outside the norm of human behavior which is why they try to fix the problems with therapy and such

yes, and i’d just like to add psychological abuse to that as well. a family member that yells a lot will be remembered negatively too.

i cant deduce any sort of general behavior patterns based on the information that i know, but i think maybe it could explain some of the reactions that are inconsistent with the accepted majority of reactions to none?

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