# A314 vs Instant Gentleman: a married man in his mid-40s compares the two **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 13, 2008, 3:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-vs-instant-gentleman-a-married-man-in-his-mid-40s-compares-the-two/11070 "2008-04-13T03:17:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 6
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [April 14, 2008, 2:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-vs-instant-gentleman-a-married-man-in-his-mid-40s-compares-the-two/11070/6 "2008-04-14T14:20:58Z")
Visionary - Thanks for the input. I really appreciate it. I think that [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) is not one of the “hot” products right now but I really feel that is because it is not clearly understood vis-a-vis other products here like A314. Everyone wants that Alpha/VIP vibe but often do not understand that it can work against you as well as for you in some situations like you mentioned in your post. I also feel that a lot of younger users would do very well using this instead of gravitating towards A314. Instant Gentleman will still bring them respect - but it is a much warmer respect which I think would serve most of the late teen through mid-20s crowd very well as well as working better with most peoples’ lifestyles at that age. And another question for Visionary: When wearing it around children do you notice them getting a little more cuddly? Wanting to hug you or sit on your lap? I noticed this happening to me but again a lot of this stuff gets very personalized with you own pherosignature, personality, etc.. Thanks again to all for any feedback. --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-vs-instant-gentleman-a-married-man-in-his-mid-40s-compares-the-two/11070)._