# About to purchase and... **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 20, 2008, 10:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-purchase-and/11581 "2008-04-20T22:34:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 12\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![BigIrish](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bigirish/32/790_2.png) [@BigIrish](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BigIrish)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 10:34pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-purchase-and/11581/1 "2008-04-20T22:34:08Z")
Wanted to get some answers to a few things. The big one that is gnawing at me is - If I use pheromones to meet someone and get to know them, and maybe even begin dating the person, if I stop using the pheromone, will there be some horrific change in the style of they suddenly don’t feel attracted to you anymore? Or maybe even just around a group of people that I get to know pretty well and use pheros around often, and then stop. Are there adverse side effects basically to the effect of a “habbit forming drug” or a “mandatory use” feeling? On a lighter note, about to make my first purchase, and this is what I was thinking: 1X - Instant Shine, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), Ammunition, and maybe Instant Honesty All in To Go bottles Think thats a good start, and how valuable is Honesty, some reason I just find myself doubting it. Thanks! _“On the other side of every right one makes..there is always a left.”_ ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 10:40pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-purchase-and/11581/2 "2008-04-20T22:40:36Z")
For your question, no that won’t really happen in most of the cases. Phero are great for initial attraction, but as you already know, people will only start loving you more once they really know you and feel connected to you in some way. So you still need to be interesting in the long run 🙂 Good first combo, honesty is pretty similar to openness, and you probably wont say anything you dont want to say when using this ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 10:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-purchase-and/11581/3 "2008-04-20T22:43:35Z")
Nope mones dont work that way. Read this… > [@What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/what-pheromones-can-do-and-what-they-cant-updated/9558): > > A lot of people come in to the forum and read all the wonderful stories about peoples experiences with [pheromone products](https://a314.com/shop/). New people end up trying them out with high expectations and usually as they get to know the product those expectations are met to some extent and sometimes not because there expectations were to high But I think its best for people to have a realistic view on what exactly they can and can not do. I get a lot of PM’s from people asking me why "they couldn’t get there cheati… Tisha ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 10:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-purchase-and/11581/4 "2008-04-20T22:45:05Z")
You have no worries about somebody losing interest after getting to know you if you stop using pheromones. Pheromones can help encourage initial reactions, but beyond that it’s you that keeps the interest. They may notice something different about you, but they’re not going to stop liking you, or like you less. Great choice in product purchases. [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) is a great product and can open the door to deeper and more meaningful conversations. Unlike the name could possibly imply, It will not force people to tell the truth and won’t make anybody say anything they don’t want to. ---
**Author:** ![BigIrish](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bigirish/32/790_2.png) [@BigIrish](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BigIrish)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 10:46pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-purchase-and/11581/5 "2008-04-20T22:46:05Z")
Thank you all. I had read that I was pretty sure, but, I’m a “need your opinion” type of person sometimes to make me sure. Thanks a lot, now, off to find my wallet…which vanished 😠 ---
**Author:** ![idle](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/idle/32/344_2.png) [@idle](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/idle)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 10:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-purchase-and/11581/6 "2008-04-20T22:49:23Z")
well… no… pheromones doesn’t change the person free will. She will be with you because of you. Not the Pheromones. You can’t make your self look like someone your not. With pheromones you can get a person to talk to you and be nice with you.(if you are nice with them) But if you are an a\*\*hole it doesn’t matter what pheromones you are using.. in their eyes you will still be the … For a date you should use Ammunition and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) to boost your self. And remember if she likes you she likes who you are not the pheromones. ---
**Author:** ![BigIrish](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bigirish/32/790_2.png) [@BigIrish](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BigIrish)\ **Post date:** [April 20, 2008, 11:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-purchase-and/11581/7 "2008-04-20T23:13:27Z")
Ordered! I’m already tired of waiting tho ☹… somebody desperately needs to invent teleportation, or something. ---
**Author:** ![zeph](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/z/85e7bf/32.png) [@zeph](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/zeph)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2008, 1:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-purchase-and/11581/8 "2008-04-21T01:31:43Z")
> [@BigIrish](#): > > Ordered! > > I’m already tired of waiting tho ☹… somebody desperately needs to invent teleportation, or something. Thats pretty much what I say ANY time I order ANYTHING! haha. ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2008, 2:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-purchase-and/11581/9 "2008-04-21T02:11:11Z")
> [@BigIrish](#): > > Ordered! > > I’m already tired of waiting tho ☹… somebody desperately needs to invent teleportation, or something. Well, we know who to blame now if April’s in the shipping room one day and sees all the pheros suddenly disappear into thin air. 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![BigIrish](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bigirish/32/790_2.png) [@BigIrish](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BigIrish)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2008, 6:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-purchase-and/11581/10 "2008-04-21T06:44:21Z")
Is it Bush?..😕 (no offense to bush lovers) ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2008, 7:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-purchase-and/11581/11 "2008-04-21T07:14:31Z")
OK as much as I hate Bush and blaming him would appeal to me, I’m blaming you and your teleportation device. Now beam yourself into a holding cell in the Beverly Hills Police Department. I got a feeling that it wouldn’t be that bad a place to be, until they transfered you to the L.A. County Jail, then you’re in for a hell of a ride. 😉 🙄 ---
**Author:** ![BigIrish](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bigirish/32/790_2.png) [@BigIrish](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BigIrish)\ **Post date:** [April 21, 2008, 7:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-purchase-and/11581/12 "2008-04-21T07:46:02Z")
Unless by ride you mean on either some sort of transport device, or the PROPER riding area of transport animal, then…I…would rather not imagine the meaning…and that does not mean elaborate. Blaming Bush makes everything easier tho. Come on, try it. Like this. I blame Bush because I forgot my taxes were due and now I am flat broke and in debt to my loan shark style dad. or this one Its all Bushes fault I waited 2 months to start my term paper 3 days before its due, and now its 2 AM day of and I am still working on the outline.