# About to receive my first pheromones **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [January 16, 2013, 8:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-receive-my-first-pheromones/57879 "2013-01-16T20:41:51Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 13\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dainty\_really](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a87d85/32.png) [@dainty\_really](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dainty_really)\ **Post date:** [January 16, 2013, 8:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-receive-my-first-pheromones/57879/1 "2013-01-16T20:41:51Z")
Finally I’m about to receive my first purchase of pheros. I ordered IH, Instant Sexiness/B and [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/). According to DHL it’s already here in our country. I just want to seek some advice since it’s my first time to use it and I’m Asian. I am going to use it for my ex boyfriend since I want to be friend with him again (nothing more nothing less) and to his Mom because she wanted to talk to me about important things happened between me and her son. I do believe that mones alone will not give me hits, I would just like to ask some tips and advice which I can use to make my ex boyfriend would talk more often (since he’s super serious when we are together) and same as with his mom (who is a meanie by nature). I don’t what things should I consider while wearing this and how many hours would it take before I can reapply? ---
**Author:** ![GetTheEdge](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gettheedge/32/1555_2.png) [@GetTheEdge](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GetTheEdge)\ **Post date:** [January 17, 2013, 1:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-receive-my-first-pheromones/57879/2 "2013-01-17T01:25:14Z")
> [@dainty\_really](#): > > Finally I’m about to receive my first purchase of pheros. I ordered IH, Instant Sexiness/B and Instant Shine. According to DHL it’s already here in our country. I just want to seek some advice since it’s my first time to use it and I’m Asian. > > I am going to use it for my ex boyfriend since I want to be friend with him again (nothing more nothing less) and to his Mom because she wanted to talk to me about important things happened between me and her son. I do believe that mones alone will not give me hits, I would just like to ask some tips and advice which I can use to make my ex boyfriend would talk more often (since he’s super serious when we are together) and same as with his mom (who is a meanie by nature). I don’t what things should I consider while wearing this and how many hours would it take before I can reapply? Instant Shine should lighten the load & mood, as its a feel good pheromone, I would expect people are less like to be meanies and/or serious when affected by Instant Shine Instant Shine can be re-applied abit sooner than some of the other -mones, but I’m not sure on exact times [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) would also be a useful tool in your arsenal You look like you have ordered a good mix for your stated goals. I don’t know if you are already able to make your ex boyfriend laugh? But that tends to get people less serious ---
**Author:** ![dainty\_really](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a87d85/32.png) [@dainty\_really](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dainty_really)\ **Post date:** [January 17, 2013, 5:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-receive-my-first-pheromones/57879/3 "2013-01-17T05:52:05Z")
> [@GetTheEdge](#): > > I don’t know if you are already able to make your ex boyfriend laugh? But that tends to get people less serious Well the last time he laughed while I’m around was like few years ago since he’s so serious. I would also like to ask like how many sprays is required for every pheros? ---
**Author:** ![Mysterion](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mysterion/32/986_2.png) [@Mysterion](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mysterion)\ **Post date:** [January 17, 2013, 6:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-receive-my-first-pheromones/57879/4 "2013-01-17T06:07:32Z")
Hello, copy & paste from Steve’s signature. This should answer your questions regarding the use of the products. \*\* IMPORTANT THREADS YOU SHOULD READ\*\* _ **Read Me First!!! Helpful Topics On How To Use The Forum…** _]([https://pheromonetalk.com/t/read-me-first-helpful-topics-on-how-to-get-around/3106](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/read-me-first-helpful-topics-on-how-to-get-around/3106)) _ **An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of** _]([https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43003](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43012)) _ **How To Find Your Sweet Spot** _]([https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-to-find-your-sweet-spot/22146/1](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-introduction-to-mones-names-size-strength-use-effects-length-of/43012/9)) _ **The Superior and Correct Way to Make a New Mix** _\ ([Your Skin is a Pheromone Mixing Canvas](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/your-skin-is-a-pheromone-mixing-canvas/34388)) IShine’s effect fades quickly, after 2-3 hours you can wash the spot where you applied it and reapply if you wish to do so. If not, no need to wash it. Ask away if there’s more questions. 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![dainty\_really](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a87d85/32.png) [@dainty\_really](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dainty_really)\ **Post date:** [January 17, 2013, 4:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-receive-my-first-pheromones/57879/5 "2013-01-17T16:30:34Z")
> [@Mysterion](#): > > Ask away if there’s more questions. 🙂 Thank you! I have another one, for example they reacted to the mones that I used while they are exposed to it will their reaction will be the same even if we are not together anymore? ---
**Author:** ![GetTheEdge](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gettheedge/32/1555_2.png) [@GetTheEdge](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GetTheEdge)\ **Post date:** [January 17, 2013, 9:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-receive-my-first-pheromones/57879/6 "2013-01-17T21:25:28Z")
I would rather my advice be confirmed by a more experience phero master but: What about a spaceland kind of affect? Difficult to be serious in spaceland Or even spaceland with a small dose of P83 to increase the disinhibition Or a spaceland with: heavy heavy IS of course, 1-2x instant sexyness, 1-3 times IH. 10-20mcg P83. Can any experienced phero masters comment on that? This may be an advanced mix to try for a new user, I havent tried it out myself > [@dainty\_really](#): > > Well the last time he laughed while I’m around was like few years ago since he’s so serious. I would also like to ask like how many sprays is required for every pheros? I’m not really an expert on the use of womens [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) but I would imagine you would use 1-3 sprays of IH, and 1-4 sprays of IS. I havent used Instant Sexiness myself, but maybe at the next gay bar lol jk ---
**Author:** ![Mysterion](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mysterion/32/986_2.png) [@Mysterion](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mysterion)\ **Post date:** [January 18, 2013, 7:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-receive-my-first-pheromones/57879/7 "2013-01-18T07:28:03Z")
Hey hey, > [@dainty\_really](#): > > Thank you! I have another one, for example they reacted to the mones that I used while they are exposed to it will their reaction will be the same even if we are not together anymore? On the one hand, they may remember how they felt around you before and placebo might interfere in that game and cause them to feel it again (unlikely). More likely is that the reactions won’t be the same. Just like yours towards others differ every day, even if you don’t notice it. All other influences like mood etc are ignored here btw. Those play a role also, but it’s unpredictable. Also, if you suddenly change your mone signature to sort of the opposite of what it was before, they may even be confused 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![dainty\_really](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a87d85/32.png) [@dainty\_really](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dainty_really)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2013, 2:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-receive-my-first-pheromones/57879/8 "2013-01-19T02:11:56Z")
> [@GetTheEdge](#): > > I’m not really an expert on the use of womens pheromones but I would imagine you would use 1-3 sprays of IH, and 1-4 sprays of IS. I havent used Instant Sexiness myself, but maybe at the next gay bar lol jk Thanks for the advice but as of the moment I haven’t got my order I don’t know why but based on the tracking it’s already here. Btw, like how many sprays is that heavy heavy IS? I would love to see him laugh again infront of me or just being cuddly maybe =) ---
**Author:** ![Mysterion](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mysterion/32/986_2.png) [@Mysterion](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mysterion)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2013, 2:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-receive-my-first-pheromones/57879/9 "2013-01-19T02:14:38Z")
Hello odds are that if we tell you a number of sprays it may completely miss your sweet spot and has subtle to no effects. You should try each as standalone, check out my post above 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![dainty\_really](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a87d85/32.png) [@dainty\_really](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dainty_really)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2013, 2:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-receive-my-first-pheromones/57879/10 "2013-01-19T02:14:48Z")
> [@Mysterion](#): > > Hey hey, > > On the one hand, they may remember how they felt around you before and placebo might interfere in that game and cause them to feel it again (unlikely). More likely is that the reactions won’t be the same. Just like yours towards others differ every day, even if you don’t notice it. > All other influences like mood etc are ignored here btw. Those play a role also, but it’s unpredictable. Also, if you suddenly change your mone signature to sort of the opposite of what it was before, they may even be confused 🙂 So that means it’s just a temporary effect and they will just feel that whenever I’m around and being exposed to the mones? Is there a chances that for example the feeling will last long without using pheros? And where can I apply this pheros? i’m also planning to cover it with my favorite perfume, will it have an adverse effect if I do that? ---
**Author:** ![Mysterion](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mysterion/32/986_2.png) [@Mysterion](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mysterion)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2013, 3:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-receive-my-first-pheromones/57879/11 "2013-01-19T03:05:20Z")
> [@dainty\_really](#): > > So that means it’s just a temporary effect and they will just feel that whenever I’m around and being exposed to the mones? Likely. > [@dainty\_really](#): > > Is there a chances that for example the feeling will last long without using pheros? Unlikely unless it’s how people around you naturally feel. > [@dainty\_really](#): > > And where can I apply this pheros? i’m also planning to cover it with my favorite perfume, will it have an adverse effect if I do that? Both covered in Steve’s info threads. Did you have a read of them yet? ---
**Author:** ![dainty\_really](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/a87d85/32.png) [@dainty\_really](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dainty_really)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2013, 5:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-receive-my-first-pheromones/57879/12 "2013-01-19T05:07:12Z")
> [@Mysterion](#): > > Likely. > > Both covered in Steve’s info threads. Did you have a read of them yet? I just finished reading it. My last question is (I guess this will be the last) is there a possibility that when he got exposed to mones that I used is there a chance that his feelings towards me will change? Like will he miss me after we part ways? ---
**Author:** ![Mysterion](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mysterion/32/986_2.png) [@Mysterion](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Mysterion)\ **Post date:** [January 19, 2013, 5:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/about-to-receive-my-first-pheromones/57879/13 "2013-01-19T05:09:40Z")
It’s possible. If he still has feelings for you then mones will emphasize them, even after you’re gone (he notices your mones leaving with you and misses the feeling of exposure to them (and you)). If he has got no feelings for you, then there’s nothing to enhance.