# Advice for my blind date?? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [September 28, 2007, 3:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-for-my-blind-date/5748 "2007-09-28T03:51:34Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![malia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/258eb7/32.png) [@malia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/malia)\ **Post date:** [September 28, 2007, 3:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-for-my-blind-date/5748/1 "2007-09-28T03:51:34Z")
Hey, I’m a lurker here and read quite a few posts. I have [Instant sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) and MX135…I do think they make people approach me more and talk to me more. I was at a wedding a few weeks ago and a few guys approached me that I rarely talk to (and actually I didn’t want to talk to the one but he kept making conversation!). Here’s where I’m looking for some advice: My friend is setting me up with this guy and we’re going out (the 4 of us, her, her husband, me and the guy) and so of course I’ll be wearing my mones… but I’m interested in knowing what any of you think about me getting instant openness and throwing it in the mix?? I was reading that it’ll make it more easy to break the ice and conversation will flow easier maybe? I hate blind dates because I don’t know what to say, so I’m nervous I’ll be too shy. Instant honesty scares me when someone wrote that it makes some blurt out things they didn’t mean to. I want the night to go smooth. I’m usually an easy going person and I don’t want any akwardness since I’m usually pretty shy at first. I want to have fun and really get to know this guy and him to know me…not necessarily looking for sex with him(right away), but a little action would be fun 😉 …but more so like I said, a fun night that he’ll say…wow, she’s a blast and I’d like to date her again. Am I asking for too much? 😛 So I have the IS, and mx135 and thinking of instant openess…can all these go together?? If so, how do I wear them…also I’m open to advice of anything else that people recommend. I’m so new at this mone stuff. ANY words of wisdom would be great! Thanks in advance! Malia ---
**Author:** ![snook\_assassin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/snook_assassin/32/1107_2.png) [@snook\_assassin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/snook_assassin)\ **Post date:** [September 28, 2007, 3:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-for-my-blind-date/5748/2 "2007-09-28T03:55:35Z")
Yeah, I think openness would be a good additive to that mix… Should keep the conversation coming smoothly and easily… Leave those awkward first date moments behind you! Good luck, and let us know what happens! ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [September 28, 2007, 5:55am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-for-my-blind-date/5748/3 "2007-09-28T05:55:03Z")
Glad to see you posting Malia, I was wondering how the wedding went after your last post. Yes you can wear all 3, openness is a great product for fun light hearted conversation. ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [September 28, 2007, 12:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-for-my-blind-date/5748/4 "2007-09-28T12:00:13Z")
I have my doubts, similar to the ones expressed by tacitus re using alpha androstenol such as contained in instant openness on a blind date… first encounters… Better keep it for later after the first kiss, based on my experience too. Better to use instant honesty or other products not containing alpha androstenol for the time being. Cause he may change his mind after the first meeting and not want another meeting. Then again everyone is different and perhaps this won’t happen.. Well let us know what you decide to use and how it goes… ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [September 28, 2007, 11:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-for-my-blind-date/5748/5 "2007-09-28T23:06:34Z")
You should be fine wearing all 3 products in small amounts. Go with something like 2 or 3 sprays IS/B as your base mone and 1 shot of both MX135 and IO. Phoenix I do believe your and Tat’s is correct, but for the guys not the girls. You see IH is better for you guys because it causes deep, meaningful, serious conversations. Girls tend to like that in a guy. You would make her feel comfortable enough to open up about deep things. Move to fast with a guy by causing him to open up to fast with IH and he is gonna resist. Not because he isnt interested but because most men dont want to give the impression of getting to deep to fast. In case they dont want another meeting. Keeping it light and fun works better on men then keeping it deep and serious this is why IO works better for us on first encounters. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![malia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/258eb7/32.png) [@malia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/malia)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2007, 12:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-for-my-blind-date/5748/6 "2007-09-29T00:51:05Z")
Thanks everyone for the advice…I think I WILL get the instant openness and wear it like Tish suggests. I know some say don’t wear too much or like pheonix said, no openness, but I’m not looking for him to “open up” to me with using Instant honesty…I could care less about super deep feeling emotions with the first meeting. I want him to feel open enough to feel comfortable and want to have fun, get to know each other without feeling pressured and awkward. I figure, I’m not going to see him the first time and wear mones and then if I see him a next time, not wear them…Chances are, what I wear is what I’ll probably wear on a fairly regular basis…it’ll establish my “signature” smell. If all that makes sense. Right now I wear the IS and the mx135 together, so I’ll add a spray of openness. Is openness one I don’t want to spray near my face? or is that just honesty? Once again, thanks! Malia ---
**Author:** ![Phoenix](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/phoenix/32/673_2.png) [@Phoenix](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phoenix)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2007, 5:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-for-my-blind-date/5748/7 "2007-09-29T05:37:55Z")
> [@tisha23](#): > > Phoenix I do believe your and Tat’s is correct, but for the guys not the girls. > > You see Instant Honesty is better for you guys because it causes deep, meaningful, serious conversations. Girls tend to like that in a guy. You would make her feel comfortable enough to open up about deep things. Thanks tisha… some very good points. also the male and female brains are different, so that may account for the difference. ---
**Author:** ![chadwick](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/chadwick/32/2129_2.png) [@chadwick](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chadwick)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2007, 6:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-for-my-blind-date/5748/8 "2007-09-29T06:33:02Z")
If you have no inner game, and you want to fake it till you make it- stay away from instant honesty- Your brain will turn into the cream of some young guy! ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [September 29, 2007, 9:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-for-my-blind-date/5748/9 "2007-09-29T09:14:18Z")
I wouldnt spray it near my face because it makes me talk even more then I do now which is alot LOL. Also gives me some weird ass dreams probably cause I am still yapping away in my brain when I fall asleep 😃 . If your normally quiet go for your chest neck area. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![malia](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/258eb7/32.png) [@malia](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/malia)\ **Post date:** [September 30, 2007, 1:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-for-my-blind-date/5748/10 "2007-09-30T01:06:40Z")
Thanks tish! I’m sorta inbetween talkative and shy. When I know someone, I can’t shut up, but at first sometimes I’m a little shy.