# Advice from the women: Gifts **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [August 30, 2009, 11:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-from-the-women-gifts/32043 "2009-08-30T23:05:20Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Triumphant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8491ac/32.png) [@Triumphant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Triumphant)\ **Post date:** [August 30, 2009, 11:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-from-the-women-gifts/32043/1 "2009-08-30T23:05:20Z")
Hi Ladies! I just started using [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) and I’m delighted with the results as regards their effect on my girlfriend. I’m going to put in an order for some additional stuff for myself, and I figured I’d see if there was anything interesting I could get for her. Obviously, she’s not looking to attract men, but something that might make our time together more fun would be good, and also, possibly stuff that might be good for her in a work/school type setting. So what would you recommend for a woman in a relationship. If it helps at all, I’m 43, and she’s 29. She reacts very strongly when I wear Turn Up The Heat. Thanks in advance T. ---
**Author:** ![happykitsune](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/happykitsune/32/2415_2.png) [@happykitsune](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/happykitsune)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2009, 12:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-from-the-women-gifts/32043/2 "2009-08-31T00:34:27Z")
Well…go with the ever popular and powerful Instant Shine. It’s the wear to all [pheromone product](https://a314.com/shop/). Seriously, you could probably get away with wearing it anywhere! ---
**Author:** ![moonwhisper](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/moonwhisper/32/1735_2.png) [@moonwhisper](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/moonwhisper)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2009, 2:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-from-the-women-gifts/32043/3 "2009-08-31T02:36:02Z")
You’ve just gotta get her some [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/). It will be more of a present to yourself than to her. I realize that she’s not trying to attract attention from other men. But you’re going to be pleasantly surprised by how you react to her when she’s wearing it. It will ramp up your attraction and desire and just make everything more intense. There are two varieties. IS/A is more strong, confident, seductress type of sexy, and IS/B is more playful, demure, delicate girly type of sexy. Pick whichever one is more congruent with her own personality. You really can’t go wrong with this. I wear it almost every day, it’s just that good. Spaceland is also fun, but it is not an attractant phero. It is a laid-back, good times with friends type of social phero. ---
**Author:** ![Triumphant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8491ac/32.png) [@Triumphant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Triumphant)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2009, 11:37am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-from-the-women-gifts/32043/4 "2009-08-31T11:37:15Z")
> [@moonwhisper](#): > > I realize that she’s not trying to attract attention from other men. But you’re going to be pleasantly surprised by how you react to her when she’s wearing it. It will ramp up your attraction and desire and just make everything more intense. That’s what I’m talking about. Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![Triumphant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8491ac/32.png) [@Triumphant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Triumphant)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2009, 11:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-from-the-women-gifts/32043/5 "2009-08-31T11:36:34Z")
> [@moonwhisper](#): > > I realize that she’s not trying to attract attention from other men. But you’re going to be pleasantly surprised by how you react to her when she’s wearing it. It will ramp up your attraction and desire and just make everything more intense. That’s what I’m talking about. Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2009, 11:48am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-from-the-women-gifts/32043/6 "2009-08-31T11:48:04Z")
> [@Triumphant](#): > > Obviously, she’s not looking to attract men, but something that might make our time together more fun would be good, and also, possibly stuff that might be good for her in a work/school type setting. What kind of work does she do? And what would help her (phero-wise) in her job? There are 2 phero’s that are my favourites for work. I love Mx300 for the confident alpha woman vibe that gives me respect from the boys I work with. It makes you come across as confident, competent and attractive (but not in a sexual way). Basically Mx300 is the womens version of A314 I also absolutely adore Mx274! It’s a brilliant phero not only for work but I also use it for stressful situations like exams. It’s calming and relaxing (for nerves but not sedating) but also makes people very sympathetic and harmonious. If you work with people that are moody, unhelpful or you just want to brighten the general mood in the place and make people get along and work together, then Mx274 is fabulous! ---
**Author:** ![Triumphant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8491ac/32.png) [@Triumphant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Triumphant)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2009, 1:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-from-the-women-gifts/32043/7 "2009-08-31T13:50:32Z")
She’s a graduate student, and she also has a campus job. I’m sure she’s generally respected (she works hard and does a good job with everything), but she has a very difficult time saying ‘no’ to people, and so she tends to become overwhelmed and is frequently on the edge of burnout. MX300 sounds like it could help in that department. Do you think so? ---
**Author:** ![Xiphoid](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/xiphoid/32/1852_2.png) [@Xiphoid](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Xiphoid)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2009, 2:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-from-the-women-gifts/32043/8 "2009-08-31T14:00:03Z")
> [@Triumphant](#): > > She’s a graduate student, and she also has a campus job. I’m sure she’s generally respected (she works hard and does a good job with everything), but she has a very difficult time saying ‘no’ to people, and so she tends to become overwhelmed and is frequently on the edge of burnout. MX300 sounds like it could help in that department. Do you think so? Well, I think she might be better of with Mx274 as it’s really harmonizing, both for her and those around her, and people do become really nice…and then maybe less likely to try and take advantge of her not being able to say no? If she’s overwhelmed with work it’s also great for stress. Mx300 is a really good one, but if you use to much or if she’s sensitive to it (like I am) she might get a little bitchy with it. It is great for boosting the work related confidence though, and she might do well with that one as well if she just needs to be able to say no abit more. Mx300 wont help her with stress and feeling overwhelmed though. ---
**Author:** ![Triumphant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8491ac/32.png) [@Triumphant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Triumphant)\ **Post date:** [August 31, 2009, 2:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-from-the-women-gifts/32043/9 "2009-08-31T14:18:37Z")
Well, the stress and burnout would presumably be helped if she were better able to say no to things. ---
**Author:** ![tezza23](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/tezza23/32/1375_2.png) [@tezza23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tezza23)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2009, 12:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-from-the-women-gifts/32043/10 "2009-09-01T00:19:16Z")
Triumphant, I find that androsterone containing products tend to make me feel more centred and less under the influence of circumstances. I feel like I have stronger boundaries and am more able to enforce them. I don’t know if this has the same effect on women. However, if you have any [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) or A314, let her try a little of it and see if it helps. ---
**Author:** ![Triumphant](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/8491ac/32.png) [@Triumphant](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Triumphant)\ **Post date:** [September 1, 2009, 2:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-from-the-women-gifts/32043/11 "2009-09-01T02:21:34Z")
> [@tezza23](#): > > Triumphant, I find that androsterone containing products tend to make me feel more centred and less under the influence of circumstances. I feel like I have stronger boundaries and am more able to enforce them. I don’t know if this has the same effect on women. However, if you have any Instant Gentleman or A314, let her try a little of it and see if it helps. Interesting. That’s not what I would have thought, but okay. I have some A314 coming in my next order, so maybe I’ll give her a little to try. I ordered some IS/b and MX274 for her.