# Advice needed: 20, UK, 7 months on pheromones, shy with girls, met one I really like

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**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [May 31, 2013, 3:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-needed-20-uk-7-months-on-pheromones-shy-with-girls-met-one-i-really-like/59161 "2013-05-31T03:26:10Z")\
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**Author:** ![binaural](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ce7236/32.png) [@binaural](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/binaural)\
**Post date:** [May 31, 2013, 3:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-needed-20-uk-7-months-on-pheromones-shy-with-girls-met-one-i-really-like/59161/1 "2013-05-31T03:26:10Z")

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Hi all,

So i’ve been a [pheromone](https://a314.com/) user for around 7 months now, and my general opinion is that they work pretty damn well.

About me. 20, UK Male. Never been in a proper relationship before, went to an all guys school and lived a pretty sheltered life until I was around 16.

Met new friends, learnt a lot about life, drugs and friends, got a job, got a car, proper sorted myself out, but was always very shy around girls.

Spent the last 3 years generally learning about myself, and met this really nice girl over the last couple months who I have grown to really like.  
Generally i’ve found that most of the women i meet were either too shallow, or i didnt know how to act around due to lack of experience.

We’ve started spending a lot more time together over the recent month since she moved semi-permanently to my area and through this I’m pretty sure she likes me back, but I think i’ve taken too long to pull my head outta my arse and realise this.

about 3 weeks ago she broke it off with her 7 months “on again” “off again” “not going out fuck buddy/friend” and I feel looking back on it that i should’ve made a move but i was a bit preoccupied with being a complete idiot at the time.

I recently found out (i was there when she told her friend) that shes “back” with him now, and i feel like I may have missed my chance. For now at least

Couple of questions to you all:

What do?

Any Phero recommendations for situations such as these?

Should I lay off the pheros?

Sweeet cheers

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**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\
**Post date:** [May 31, 2013, 4:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-needed-20-uk-7-months-on-pheromones-shy-with-girls-met-one-i-really-like/59161/2 "2013-05-31T04:03:27Z")

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The first thing I’ll suggest is that you copy this into a new thread in the Intro forum - That way, you will earn the $25 GC to help get started. 🙂

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**Author:** ![binaural](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/ce7236/32.png) [@binaural](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/binaural)\
**Post date:** [May 31, 2013, 4:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-needed-20-uk-7-months-on-pheromones-shy-with-girls-met-one-i-really-like/59161/3 "2013-05-31T04:43:17Z")

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I’ve had an account and been here before, just lost access to my email and cant remember my password.

Probably a bit cheeky to get multiple GC’s 😉

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**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\
**Post date:** [May 31, 2013, 4:57am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-needed-20-uk-7-months-on-pheromones-shy-with-girls-met-one-i-really-like/59161/4 "2013-05-31T04:57:00Z")

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Ahh ok. 🙂
