# Advice needed for a silly newbie!

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-needed-for-a-silly-newbie/7050>\
**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [November 30, 2007, 11:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-needed-for-a-silly-newbie/7050 "2007-11-30T23:29:17Z")\
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**Author:** ![KatieH](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/48db29/32.png) [@KatieH](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/KatieH)\
**Post date:** [November 30, 2007, 11:29pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-needed-for-a-silly-newbie/7050/1 "2007-11-30T23:29:17Z")

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Hi folks,  
Hope you’re all well! Okay so, I received my first order of pheromones a little over a week ago. Since then, I have to admit that I have been a very bad tester. Instead of testing them all out individually, which I know is what you’re supposed to do, I’ve just been applying large amounts of them all together when I feel I need them for certain situations. The results have been mixed: sometimes there were positive reactions (but, of course, silly me wasn’t able to discern from which product because I’d put loads on!). Sometimes I just felt strangely giddy. And sometimes, I felt invisible - I know this isn’t supposed to happen with the women’s products but it felt like it was happening to me a little bit! I plan to stop this newbie madness and start to test them out properly from now on.

But first, I’d love a little bit of advice from you guys for a particular situation. I’d like to have an effective combo for tomorrow (so basically not a combo which consists of multiple sprays of all my products! I’m sorry, I know I used them stupidly :o ).

The situation is that I’m working in a Saturday job. My target guy has started working there too so I’d like something to make him take notice and be attracted. Also, there are some lovely lovely people working there that I’d like to get to know better, so something to help with that would be good. Finally, I need to be confident, as it’s a teaching-style job that involves me standing up in front of people and, well, teaching. Any help on combinations and dosages would be appreciated lots and lots!

The products I own are: Instant Sexiness A, Instant Shine, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), Instant Honesty, and a little bottle of Turn Up The Heat.

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**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\
**Post date:** [December 2, 2007, 5:11am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-needed-for-a-silly-newbie/7050/2 "2007-12-02T05:11:00Z")

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Hi Katie

I don’t want to ruin your phero fun, but how are you going to know which product you like if you skip your testing? We all have our different favorites, amounts and mixes. If you don’t get a good feel for which you’re enjoying then you’ll end up using hit and miss combos.

Please do try testing each separately before heading in to combining. I do understand the want, my first Androtics order I used one spray of everything and had noticeable effect on my husband. Stick to testing individually and reward yourself with a combo occasionally. Try to keep simple combos going until you understand what each one does. Simple to me means 1-2 sprays of 2 products, like [instant sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) & one of the others.

Tisha has a post stickied above that will give you a guideline to follow for running tests.

Good luck!

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**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\
**Post date:** [December 2, 2007, 10:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-needed-for-a-silly-newbie/7050/3 "2007-12-02T10:34:35Z")

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Hello Katie

We all did it. Sprayed all our products on and had our mone baptimal so dont feel to bad. 😃

Just a word of advice on the TUTH. Use a dab or two of it when in intimate situations or when alone with target guy. TUTH will heat things up and make you feel very aroused it also makes some men more aggressive during sex. So be choosey when deciding were to wear that one.

I think you should start with your IS/A and work up from there. Some hits or reactions will be subtle and some you only notice when a pattern emerges.

A good example of that is Ishine for me. When I first used it I felt great but didnt see to much of a difference in people around me until I noticed my boss. He is almost always mean and nasty but when I wore shine around him he turned into a happy pleasant guy. Ok first time or two I really didnt consiously notice this, just thought he was having one of his good days, until a pattern emerged and every single time I wore it he would react to it favorably.

Sometimes it takes a little work before you have that "Holy Sheeeet it works " moment.

Tisha
