# Advice on which to choose

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-on-which-to-choose/31437>\
**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [August 9, 2009, 11:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-on-which-to-choose/31437 "2009-08-09T11:18:56Z")\
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**Author:** ![MuskCloud](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/f07891/32.png) [@MuskCloud](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MuskCloud)\
**Post date:** [August 9, 2009, 8:01pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-on-which-to-choose/31437/7 "2009-08-09T20:01:58Z")

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> [@Xiphoid](#):
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> I reckon what you should focus on first is improving you own confidence and try to fight the shyness. Phero’s can really help in that department. 🙂

I’ll back Xiphoid up on this, Smellthat. If you need help believing that you can be attractive to women, try my advice in this thread: [Good Openers...need help!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/good-openers-need-help/31006)

The eye opener is a low-risk option for the shy guy. There’s no rejection, no ridicule, you don’t have to follow up if you don’t want to and I guarantee you’ll get a smile out of her at the very least. You’re up and running.

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> I’m not just saying that to be nice, I’m saying it because I have first hand experience of it, and believe me, I’m not the only one. There are many of the forum members here who can tell you about how phero’s helped them break out of their shell or fight social anxiety.

Yep. With the hits I get, my confidence level has gone through the roof. Hobnobbing with executives, chasing blondes in Glasgow, an encounter in the elevator… jeez, I’m surprised I can fit my ego through the door sometimes.

Musk

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