# Advice on which to use. **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 24, 2012, 8:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-on-which-to-use/55378 "2012-04-24T20:26:08Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 2\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dino9401](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/d26b3c/32.png) [@dino9401](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dino9401)\ **Post date:** [April 24, 2012, 8:26pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-on-which-to-use/55378/1 "2012-04-24T20:26:08Z")
I am 39 and fairly new to [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/). I recently purchased NPA and Scent of Eros. There is a 33 year old girl whom I have a friends with benefits type of relationship. The NPA seemed to drive her fairly wild. Now here is my dilemma. Last year I dated a 26 year old girl. We had a somewhat emotional relationship that ended at the beginning of the year. We have recently been hanging out again, and I would like to have a fling with her. The problem is we have some emotional history. We met for lunch and I wore some NPA which seemed to intimidate her. Another lunch I wore SOE and she was a lot more friendly semi flirty and definitely much more outgoing. This has happened twice since I have worn the SOE around her. Tomorrow we are going out for drinks and I would like to move things to the next level again. My question: What would be the best combo to use? I think the NPA is a little overwhelming for her. I have NPA, SOE, the Edge, Alter Ego, and Pheromax. What would be the best to use to increase the flirty friendliness to a more sexual tone? ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2012, 2:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advice-on-which-to-use/55378/2 "2012-04-25T02:09:58Z")
NPA and SOE go great together IME. Although yes, the NPA can be a bit intimmidating on mid 20s and below women due to its overtness (high none proportion). What dillution are you using? If its the standard 1:5, try reducing the NPA to 0.85 or 0.75 or just reduce the number of sprays but use the same amount of SOE for stronger social moderation. for the rest, I must say that you are well sorted for overt none products, which would probably go down better with women into their 30s and over. SOE is nol/rone at 80/20, which is a much more social product and more likely to promote the sort of attractive feelings in a younger woman that you are looking for. Edge - Identical to NPA at 1:5 dillution Pheromax - the last formula I saw suggested it had been changed from the bludgeoningly overt none that rendered it near usless for anything other than the steamiest clubs or Grab-a-Granny nights to a slightly more balanced none /nol /A1 mix - so more or less, something quite similar to NPA. Alter Ego - Again, a pretty overt 2:1.5:1 ( none : nol : rone ) mix but it is in oil, which means slower/more subtle diffusion. I like it for its “slowburn” qualities if spending time in close proximity to someone (go for a drive! 😉 ) - This might be the best one to use alongside your SOE. As they are both in oil, the diffusion should be similar and the socials in SOE will moderate AE’s none nicely. Don’t use too many drops though and use it directly on the skin, not clothing - much more reliable. 🙂 Also, as this is your first post, you should have a read of this: [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) Then repost this into a new thread in the Intro Forum with a bit more info - That way we can give better advice and you will earn the GC to offset the costs of trying some AD stuff. There are several products in the Instant Line that go very well alongside NPA or AE and could help you a lot here. Instant Shine and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) are the two that spring to my mind. 🙂 Also search in this forum - There are several good threads on NPA, Alter Ego and SOE, which cover all aspects of dosing and using them effectively and what other guys here find works well for them.