# Advise needed PLEASE **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [April 3, 2007, 1:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879 "2007-04-03T01:05:50Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 17\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![SilV](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/46a35a/32.png) [@SilV](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SilV)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2007, 1:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879/1 "2007-04-03T01:05:50Z")
i will be going for a job interview in two weeks. Can anyone give me some advise on what to use to increase my chances of getting the job? thank you!!! ---
**Author:** ![EnchantedApril](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/enchantedapril/32/2385_2.png) [@EnchantedApril](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EnchantedApril)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2007, 1:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879/2 "2007-04-03T01:25:17Z")
What sort of position? Sales Marketing IT/Operations Accounting It depends on for what you are interviewing. Are you aiming to create rapport? Trust? Respect? Authority? I would say Instant Shine for being confident and radiating it. MX134 for authority/respect. Rapport building, [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) to the back of your next to get them to open up to YOU. In interviews, be sure to have questions for them to answer. Instant Honesty will help them feel comfortable opening up to you. That’s just my first take on it. More info from you, and then we can tailor our replies and helps more! Bon chance! April ---
**Author:** ![ReaderGrrl](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/readergrrl/32/2170_2.png) [@ReaderGrrl](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ReaderGrrl)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2007, 2:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879/3 "2007-04-03T02:17:28Z")
I would also add, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/). Great for getting people chatty! ---
**Author:** ![SilV](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/46a35a/32.png) [@SilV](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SilV)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2007, 3:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879/4 "2007-04-03T03:52:26Z")
> [@EnchantedApril](#): > > What sort of position? > > Sales > Marketing > IT/Operations > Accounting > > It depends on for what you are interviewing. > > Are you aiming to create rapport? Trust? Respect? Authority? > > I would say Instant Shine for being confident and radiating it. > MX134 for authority/respect. > Rapport building, Instant Honesty to the back of your next to get them to open up to YOU. In interviews, be sure to have questions for them to answer. Instant Honesty will help them feel comfortable opening up to you. > > That’s just my first take on it. > > More info from you, and then we can tailor our replies and helps more! > > Bon chance! > > April Great recommendation!1st choice- Customer service position at a transportation company(6 years work experience). 2nd choice-Bartender (no experience, i’m looking for a change). i will definitely need the Shine and Honesty!! i’m just not sure about the MX134 as i know this is supposed to be the woman version of A314. I read some post about people seemed to be more friendlier but would that give the signal "i’m easy to get along with " to others because that’s what i’m looking for? about IO would that make me more chattier? My problem is i’m not a talkative person and a lot of times i don’t know how to start a conversation so it would be nice i can have something to make me talk more. Well not too much to annoy people.😃 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [April 3, 2007, 1:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879/5 "2007-04-03T13:58:20Z")
without more information on the type of job it is, the only thought that comes to mind is MX134. with more details, that could possibly do a 180 and go in the MX135 direction… it all really depends on the job. one of my friends (who is a member here so shall remain nameless) wore IH to an interview (he’s in the medical field) and said he talked WAY too much, told the interviewer what he ate for breakfast that morning!😃 on a positive note, he got the job 😉 it all is tailored to the situation at hand as to what works best. i would pay heed to EnchantedApril’s ideas in the situations she mentioned… she’d know along those lines of work 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![SilV](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/46a35a/32.png) [@SilV](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SilV)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2007, 5:17am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879/6 "2007-04-04T05:17:46Z")
> [@EnchantedApril](#): > > I would say Instant Shine for being confident and radiating it. > > April 😮 😮 😮 😮 instant shine is out!!!. do you know anything else that will make me feel vibrant and confident? thanks so much! ---
**Author:** ![jpballerina](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jpballerina/32/1004_2.png) [@jpballerina](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jpballerina)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2007, 8:40am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879/7 "2007-04-04T08:40:03Z")
I have to agree with the general consensus: MX134 has been fabulous for me at work—I get a lot more respect than I have in the past. For any kind of work enviroment, or anywhere you want to have higher status and plain old respect, I personally think this a must. 🙂 good luck! xoxo jp ---
**Author:** ![dolly](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dolly/32/1591_2.png) [@dolly](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dolly)\ **Post date:** [April 4, 2007, 12:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879/8 "2007-04-04T12:20:43Z")
> [@SilV](#): > > 😮 😮 😮 😮 instant shine is out!!!. do you know anything else that will make me feel vibrant and confident? > > thanks so much! Why is [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) out? It is a very good product…😕 Is it because you see it in the men’s section of the store? It is a uni-sex product, and does wonderful things for both males and females alike… ---
**Author:** ![EnchantedApril](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/enchantedapril/32/2385_2.png) [@EnchantedApril](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EnchantedApril)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2007, 6:42am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879/9 "2007-04-05T06:42:38Z")
If for some reason you can’t do Instant Shine, maybe 1 or 2 spritzes of Instant Sexiness A. YOU will FEEL fabulous, and it’s sexy without being WAY COPPed out. They wont’ want to f\*ck you. Well, maybe they will… but not from the pheros! lol! All of them: MX134 sounds VERY good for your positions. Customer Svc: I’d say also [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) to the back of YOUR neck so THEY open up. Bartending, does Miss Maven LOR do/did that? I think you want to convey your professionalism in either instance which I think MX134 helps with. As for your concern, have questions to ask THEM to get THEM to open up. "How long have your worked here? What was your background moving into this company/bar? Why did you choose to work here? Could you elaborate on that? What are the most important attributes/qualifications you are looking for in a Customer Svc Representative/Bar Tender/Lover (oops, that last one slipped out! lol!) It’s perfectly OK and GOOD to be a tad reserved in your own manner and to smile warmly asking THEM questions getting THEM to open up. HOPE IT HELPS! All the best, April ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2007, 1:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879/10 "2007-04-05T13:33:38Z")
since i havent seen what kind of job she is going for, i cannot reply. bartending would be a whole different ballgame ☹ ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2007, 2:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879/11 "2007-04-05T14:05:56Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > since i havent seen what kind of job she is going for, i cannot reply. > bartending would be a whole different ballgame ☹ see post #4 - I missed it the first time around too and I wonder if it was delayed in one of those “moderator approval needed” glitches that we’ve been having lately. SilV, Lor can tell you all about bartending with [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/)! ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2007, 2:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879/12 "2007-04-05T14:25:09Z")
> [@Carrie](#): > > see post #4 - I missed it the first time around too and I wonder if it was delayed in one of those “moderator approval needed” glitches that we’ve been having lately. > > SilV, Lor can tell you all about bartending with pheromones! wow i really missed it bigtime!!! ahhhh… first of all, wear instant shine for the interview. no IO, no IH. all they need to know about you is that you have a head on your shoulders, YOUR NOT DITZY, and that you can count their money. all barowners are paranoid like little misers. i have the authority to say this; not only did my parents own a few bars, but i worked in the community they were a part of so i worked with alot of bars in that area. misers. 😃 instant shine will tell them you will provide a good-feeling fun environment. instant shine is the “good hostess” spray. this applies whether its a sportsbar or a club. after you get the job, you will need a whole slew of [pheromone sprays](https://a314.com/product-category/spray-pheromones/), mua hahahaa, i have used the bars i have worked at as my laboratory… this will be the most fun job ever, and the perfect testing environment for the putatives if you are interested in science 😉 ---
**Author:** ![SilV](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/46a35a/32.png) [@SilV](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SilV)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2007, 3:15pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879/13 "2007-04-05T15:15:11Z")
> [@EnchantedApril](#): > > If for some reason you can’t do Instant Shine, maybe 1 or 2 spritzes of Instant Sexiness A. YOU will FEEL fabulous, and it’s sexy without being WAY COPPed out. They wont’ want to f\*ck you. Well, maybe they will… but not from the pheros! lol! > > All of them: MX134 sounds VERY good for your positions. > > Customer Svc: > I’d say also Instant Honesty to the back of YOUR neck so THEY open up. > > Bartending, does Miss Maven LOR do/did that? > > I think you want to convey your professionalism in either instance which I think MX134 helps with. > > As for your concern, have questions to ask THEM to get THEM to open up. "How long have your worked here? What was your background moving into this company/bar? Why did you choose to work here? Could you elaborate on that? What are the most important attributes/qualifications you are looking for in a Customer Svc Representative/Bar Tender/Lover (oops, that last one slipped out! lol!) > > It’s perfectly OK and GOOD to be a tad reserved in your own manner and to smile warmly asking THEM questions getting THEM to open up. > > HOPE IT HELPS! > > All the best, > > April it could be a good thing that they (i hope is a guy) want to f\*ck me as i might have a better chance to get the job…lol these tips are more than helpful! these are really good questions to open them up and me up at the same time. usually i will just sit there and wait for them to ask me questions first and then i start asking questions about salary(actually it’s very hard for me to open my mouth to ask that), benefits, etc..☹ i know this is bad!! Lack of self confidence so i think instant shine should be able to give a boost on that. Lucky me Instant shine is back in the store.😛 Jasmin recommended the mx134 too but i have liquid trust so i might think it could work the same way? i also got the honesty…i tend to trust people easily and always believe what others tell so at least what they tell me “could” be the truth. thanks again for all your help! really appreciated!😛 ---
**Author:** ![Lor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/lor/32/759_2.png) [@Lor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Lor)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2007, 3:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879/14 "2007-04-05T15:25:36Z")
liquid trust is not like MX134. im not sure _anything_ is like MX134. it says “your lucky to have me, and by the way, i may just allow you to hire me” but it does nicely, not b\*tchy 😉 actually, Jasmin has been wearing these products longer than anyone 🙄 so i would tend to take her advice…they didnt have MX134 when i was bartending. wish they did ☹ \*\*\*\* you are almost guarenteed to lose your job within the month you were hired if its a man that wants in your pants. atleast in the bar-arena. i wont go for a job in that situation- your getting hired on the assumption you will put-out,atleast in his mind, and when you dont, there are many more that can replace you. be careful. ---
**Author:** ![SilV](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/46a35a/32.png) [@SilV](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SilV)\ **Post date:** [April 5, 2007, 4:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879/15 "2007-04-05T16:18:44Z")
> [@Lor](#): > > liquid trust is not like MX134. > > im not sure _anything_ is like MX134. > > it says “your lucky to have me, and by the way, i may just allow you to hire me” > > but it does nicely, not b\*tchy 😉 > > actually, Jasmin has been wearing these products longer than anyone 🙄 so i would tend to take her advice…they didnt have MX134 when i was bartending. wish they did ☹ > > 😮 i hope they didn’t ship the my stuff out yet so i can add MX134 in it. i probably need it if i want to be in the bartending business. > > \*\*\*\* you are almost guarenteed to lose your job within the month you were hired if its a man that wants in your pants. > atleast in the bar-arena. > > i wont go for a job in that situation- > your getting hired on the assumption you will put-out,atleast in his mind, and when you dont, there are many more that can replace you. > be careful. thanks for the warning Lor, i know what you mean. i wouldn’t feel comfortable to work in that enviornment either. i am so admire you. …you just wont let anybody to take advantage of you (in every situation). my weakness is i don’t know how to say no!!!sorry i’m off the topic here. well hopefully with the help of mones i can have a change of personality a bit. i will need a lot of advise from you very soon. the reason i prefer a man is because i tend to get along with men better (most of my friends are male-friends including my best friend). to me they’re easier to talk to for what ever reason. 😕 ---
**Author:** ![pumpkin\_cat](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ecb155/32.png) [@pumpkin\_cat](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pumpkin_cat)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2008, 12:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879/16 "2008-08-17T00:18:38Z")
I have some instant shine double strength (almost gone though ☹!~), instant honest normal strength and some chocolatini MX 135. I’m applying for a job in the next few days at a restaurant setting possibly for a a hostess and I am a bit on the shy side. Should I go with MX 135 or instant shine for an interview? I don’t really want the scents to clash lol ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [August 17, 2008, 7:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/advise-needed-please/2879/17 "2008-08-17T07:20:02Z")
Either one would be brilliant for a hostess position. They’re both uplifting, cheerful and outgoing. With MX135 the focus would be more on you. I would wear both I think - in fact I just did tonight! I don’t find that the scents clash because chocolatini obliterates neroli 😃