# Ah, question, questions **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [June 5, 2007, 6:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ah-question-questions/3984 "2007-06-05T06:09:09Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 4\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![CellarDoor](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/8e7dd6/32.png) [@CellarDoor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/CellarDoor)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2007, 6:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ah-question-questions/3984/1 "2007-06-05T06:09:09Z")
Hello! Ok, I have a bunch of questions. Is Instant Sexiness just for making _you_ feel sexy and confident, or is it for making _men_ attracted to you? Which is stronger: Lust After Me or Drive Him Crazy mix? It seems like Pink Sugar is preferred as the cover. Is it ok to use other perfumes though? Is the usage of perfumes going to reduce the effectiveness of [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/)? I always take a long time in deciding what to buy…it’s a problem.😛 By the way, I’ve been wondering…if pheromones work by sense of smell, then wouldn’t men be very likely to confuse your scent with that of some other woman standing next to you? Maybe they will be effected overall and won’t bother trying to seek the source of scent. Hmm… (Thank you all for your supportive and helpful advices 🙂 ) ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2007, 8:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ah-question-questions/3984/2 "2007-06-05T08:39:26Z")
> [@CellarDoor](#): > > Hello! Ok, I have a bunch of questions. > > Is Instant Sexiness just for making _you_ feel sexy and confident, or is it for making _men_ attracted to you? > > Which is stronger: Lust After Me or Drive Him Crazy mix? > > It seems like Pink Sugar is preferred as the cover. Is it ok to use other perfumes though? Is the usage of perfumes going to reduce the effectiveness of pheromones? > > I always take a long time in deciding what to buy…it’s a problem.😛 By the way, I’ve been wondering…if pheromones work by sense of smell, then wouldn’t men be very likely to confuse your scent with that of some other woman standing next to you? Maybe they will be effected overall and won’t bother trying to seek the source of scent. Hmm… > > (Thank you all for your supportive and helpful advices 🙂 ) The only way I can describe [Instant Sexiness](https://phera.com/product/instant-sexiness/) is it gives you presence. It makes you feel and give off an aura of sexy and it attracts attention. So yes it could be used to attract men. Lust after Me is stronger. You can use any cover you like. It wont effect the mones but oil based scents and lotions put over the top of mones may slow the diffusion. I mix some mones in my lotion sometimes and then after appling do a few sprays over that. People subconsiously zero in on the source of whats attracting them. I have never had a time when I have worn mones and people reacted to someone near me because of it. But remember they only give you an edge and open up doors. They dont change people or force a reaction they attract and make people feel comfortable giving you the opportunity to charm them 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [June 5, 2007, 12:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ah-question-questions/3984/3 "2007-06-05T12:02:50Z")
I agree with all of tisha’s answers, and would just add that the pheros will be associated with you if you behave congruently with them … in other words, if you are wearing sexy/[social pheromones](https://a314.com/product-category/social-pheromones/) and your behavior fits, you don’t have to worry that someone else will be the beneficiary of your mones … as tisha says, you _do_ still have to charm them - but the mones put a little chemical spotlight on you. ---
**Author:** ![EnchantedApril](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/enchantedapril/32/2385_2.png) [@EnchantedApril](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EnchantedApril)\ **Post date:** [June 7, 2007, 6:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/ah-question-questions/3984/4 "2007-06-07T06:21:13Z")
Ditto and Ditto. What Carrie said about behaving congruently with your mones. Another thing about using perfumes ON TOP of the mones is the perfume helps to diffuse the mones up and out from me, so I can be more like a tractor beam! The other thing about the mones, especially initially smelly [Lust After Me](https://phera.com/product/lust-after-me/), DO let your mones dry and meld with you for about 10-15 minutes before applying a perfume on top. I don’t know all the reasons for WHY about that, but it does seem to help for the layering to let them meld with you first, like letting a good red wine breath first! ENJOY! April