Hi Sphoenix,
I suggest you consider Ammo, a great all round product. Many here are fans of it.
Other social products like Instant Shine, Instant Honesty, Instant Openness are great for use at work, and help me to feel better about myself.
I suggest you study these in The Mens Guideand let us know if you have any questions.
Once you start using pheromones be sure to return and let us know about your results 