# Aloha **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [April 25, 2010, 9:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/aloha/38026 "2010-04-25T21:58:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 6\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![3dshag](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/3/54ee81/32.png) [@3dshag](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/3dshag)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2010, 9:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/aloha/38026/1 "2010-04-25T21:58:30Z")
I am a middle aged man living in the upper midwest. I am divorced but currently in a 1.5 year relationship with a woman of my age. I am looking for that little something to perk up my relationship rather than to go clubbing with. We talk and share and are very much in love with each other but it seems like there is always something more important to do than to make love to her man. I am close to calling it quits and I am rather tired of being constantly frustrated. The first 6 months were great. I am rather fit, have good test levels, and work out regularly. She has a few extra pounds, rarely exercises and is in menopause. She claims to want to be with me on a daily basis, but just can’t seem to find the time? - 3dshag ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2010, 10:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/aloha/38026/2 "2010-04-25T22:09:03Z")
> [@3dshag](#): > > I am a middle aged man living in the upper midwest. I am divorced but currently in a 1.5 year relationship with a woman of my age. > > I am looking for that little something to perk up my relationship rather than to go clubbing with. We talk and share and are very much in love with each other but it seems like there is always something more important to do than to make love to her man. I am close to calling it quits and I am rather tired of being constantly frustrated. The first 6 months were great. > > I am rather fit, have good test levels, and work out regularly. She has a few extra pounds, rarely exercises and is in menopause. She claims to want to be with me on a daily basis, but just can’t seem to find the time? > > - 3dshag Hey, welcome sounds like you need some IH. IH will help her be more honest with you, it will also add a sense of comfort, and trust. Some IO will help feed conversation, make you seem more approachable, and lighten moods. If sex is lacking I suggest you try some TUTH paired with these, not alone though. TUTH should help rev up her motor but keep in mind that if there’s trouble in the relationship you have to put in your work to help fix it as [pheromones](https://a314.com/shop/) can’t save a relationship that is doomed to fail. If there’s no interest and that person has already made up their mind, chances are it’ll stay that way so help your marriage as much as you can. ---
**Author:** ![jamesbonded](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jamesbonded/32/2090_2.png) [@jamesbonded](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/jamesbonded)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2010, 11:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/aloha/38026/3 "2010-04-25T23:41:50Z")
HI there, Welcome to the forum. MR is right. You can try IH and TUTH. IH will make her closer to you. She will talk more personal and more details with you. It c an help to enhance relationship. TUTH is useful to sexually arouse her. It can help to spice up the sex life. Good luck ---
**Author:** ![reddog](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/reddog/32/2091_2.png) [@reddog](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/reddog)\ **Post date:** [April 25, 2010, 11:43pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/aloha/38026/4 "2010-04-25T23:43:27Z")
TUTH and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/), and maybe Instant Shine. TUTH to spike Lust, Instant Honesty for bonding and deeper conversations, and Instant Shine to get you both in a happy youthful place. Good luck and welcome to the forum. ---
**Author:** ![stevios](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/ecd19e/32.png) [@stevios](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/stevios)\ **Post date:** [April 26, 2010, 7:07am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/aloha/38026/5 "2010-04-26T07:07:52Z")
Hey and welcome! As others have said you might like to give IH and TUTH a try. Pheromones won’t make anyone do anything they don’t want to but you might find they boost already existing feelings which is what it sounds like you need here. Remember that 99% of the work is still you so make sure you have everything else in place too. You might also like to try IG. It’s popular with some of the younger guys here but I’m mid-30’s and I really like it too. Good luck, and make sure you let us know how you get on so others can learn from your experiences too! ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [April 27, 2010, 12:46am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/aloha/38026/6 "2010-04-27T00:46:30Z")
Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too 🙂. I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too 🙂. Its cool! Of course I am available to answer any question you might have regarding mones selection by calling me personally on the hotline. Please select extension one and I will be able to consult you one on one. Welcome to the forum.