Hi Cool gal from India! 
You’re absolutely right, there is a lot of info here.
I would suggest you have a good read of The Womens Guide. Also, I’d like you to spend some time in the official womens forum here. There are some top ladies in there that will be able to give you all kinds of advice.
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Once you start using pheros, be sure to return and let us know about your results! 