# An Agony Aunt thread

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-agony-aunt-thread/29900>\
**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [June 15, 2009, 1:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-agony-aunt-thread/29900 "2009-06-15T13:23:20Z")\
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**Author:** ![WildFlower](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wildflower/32/1260_2.png) [@WildFlower](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/WildFlower)\
**Post date:** [June 17, 2009, 8:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/an-agony-aunt-thread/29900/6 "2009-06-17T20:52:23Z")

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> How did the eyelash tinting go? Well, I hope!

haha, yep. There very nice 🙂 The story behind me getting my eyelashes tinted is that she’s doing a health and beauty course at college and they always need people to go in and experiment on. It was a fun experience and the end result is OK. I can tell when I look in the mirror, but most people don’t notice any difference. PHEW!!!

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> You’re a brave man to do that at all, much less have it done by someone who may have some jealous feelings!

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> I think this will backfire if it is successful. If you seem like such a “high value catch” she will go after you, not leave you alone.

She isn’t jealous of me. I think she’s jealous of her best friend finding a boyfriend. She wants to have her friend all to herself, and she can be very clingy with her. I think she’s afraid of change.

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> Wildflower… You seem to be very, very, interested in your girlfriends friends opinion and making her happy. What about your girlfriend. why dont you try and reshift your focus away from this other girl for awhile.

I’m maybe being a bit of a control freak, but for good reason. If you look at this thread: [two girls and me. Desperate need of help.](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/two-girls-and-me-desperate-need-of-help/18765) ([two girls and me. Desperate need of help.](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/two-girls-and-me-desperate-need-of-help/18765)) or some posts in my journal from around the same time, you’ll realise that I had a chance to go out with another girl I really liked but her best friend prevented me from doing so. The biggest threat it seems to me being with a girl, is always her best friend. I asked here to see if anyone had any advice on how I should handle a jealous best friend. Maybe my approach was wrong, but that’s why I was asking for advice here.

I’m not focusing on my Girlfriend here because everything between us is great, I have no issues. I want to keep everything great, and can potentially see her best friend spoiling things, which is why I was focusing on her.

The mix was great BTW, I got hits of all the girls in the mock-salon and hits from shop assistants male and female when I went shopping around town after. It was my first time wearing A314 and MX292 together and I really like the effects, especially the self effects. I’ll write more about the mix later when I have more time.

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