# Another Hello! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [August 29, 2011, 1:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-hello/52058 "2011-08-29T01:09:48Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 8\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![janedoe88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/5fc32e/32.png) [@janedoe88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/janedoe88)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2011, 1:09am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-hello/52058/1 "2011-08-29T01:09:48Z")
Hi! I’m an east coaster in my early 20’s. I’m pretty open and friendly but sometimes I can come off as aggressive or stand-offish when I’m uncomfortable. People tend to think I’m more confident than I really am in social settings. I just have a problem relaxing at times so I’m looking for a [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) to help with that. I want to be seen as more soft and feminine. Does anyone have any suggestions on which one I should order first? Thanks! ---
**Author:** ![Oasis314](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/oasis314/32/219_2.png) [@Oasis314](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Oasis314)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2011, 1:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-hello/52058/2 "2011-08-29T01:20:27Z")
Hey there! Welcome to [PTalk.com](http://PTalk.com)! Well Jane, it seems that it is just your natural self to be that way, there’s nothing wrong with that 🙂 We all have our own boundaries which we keep and times we tend to close up. There are certain products which might be able to help you in terms of making you relax, this includes; 1. IO - Helps you open up easier 2. IH - Builds bonds and relationships, gives you that trust-feeling vibe 3. IS - Feel happy and awesome, a dopamine regulator Remember that though mones can assist you in helping you open up, change must first start within oneself. I’m sure that you will be able to overcome it considering that you are already conscious of your situation 🙂 Hope this helps! Cheers! ---
**Author:** ![Aghor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aghor/32/1558_2.png) [@Aghor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aghor)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2011, 1:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-hello/52058/3 "2011-08-29T01:24:55Z")
Hello, welcome to pherotalk… looks like you project a bit of confident intimidating vibe ? although you may not feel so much like that … I think the following pheros would help you.. **Instant Sexiness B** Gives off that feminine sexy aura… unapologeticaly feminine.. but not intimidatingly so. let the men open doors for that pretty lady… chivalry is suddenly back 😉 **[Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/)** primarily contains two pheromones alpha [androstenol](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and beta [androstenol](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) in the ratio 70:30 Now alpha [androstenol](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) makes you chatty. shy people talk more (atleast they dont clamp up) while regular people becomes very chatty. Now the main difference is in the nature of conversation: With [IO](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) , the conversation tends to be light and breezy nothing from the heart.. just light superficial yappitty yappity yap yap.. 🙂 I had good results with it in parties though.. makes it easier to blend in.. **Instant Shine** This is primarily a feel good pheromone. both you as well as those people around you would feel upbeat and positive… in a good mood basically. so when you are out on a party if Instant Shine and IO are used together and you initiate a conversation its easier to get people to respond and the conversation is maintained easily as they wont have any discomfort and would continue talking 🙂 there is another phero **Instant Honesty.** which has almost same components as IO but in the reverse ratio. end result the conversations from IH are deeper (beta androstenol does it) and people feel a connection towards you..as a result often you would find them confiding in you things they wont otherwise. not the best bet for parties (I’d rather use IO) but for first dates with that yummy guy… go with 2-3 sprays of IH and you’ll find him to open up deeper than you could ever imagine.. Instant Sexiness for attraction and IH for bonding or for digging up his background 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Centrum\_Virium](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/85f322/32.png) [@Centrum\_Virium](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Centrum_Virium)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2011, 1:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-hello/52058/4 "2011-08-29T01:28:40Z")
Hey Janedoe and welcome to the board, I hope we can help you out and make you feel welcome 🙂 I read your intro, mentally made up a nice reply to help you then seen that Aghor has just put it better than I could 😃 so I’m just going to to give some quick thoughts. [Instant Sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) is what your looking for, its all about the sexy femininity 🙂 Other than that I’d go for IO and IS, this combo will make you more relaxed and should help you with your problems when your uncomfortable. You can qualify for a $25 gift certificate if you provide us with some more information about yourself for example How would you describe your personality? (we know how you come across 😃) What are your hobbies? What locations/ settings do you intend to be wearing mones? [How to qualify for GC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934) I hope you find your answers here 🙂 Virium ---
**Author:** ![janedoe88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/5fc32e/32.png) [@janedoe88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/janedoe88)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2011, 2:24am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-hello/52058/5 "2011-08-29T02:24:25Z")
Thanks! I just recently moved to the area so part of my problem is that I’m not around a close network of friends and I’m pretty open and friendly in general but since I recently moved to a new city without any close friends it makes it a little harder.I consider myself to be pretty attractive and I don’t have a problem meeting guys but I’m not attracting the guys I want to attract. I also think that because I’m in such a new surrounding that I have a hard time opening up,which isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but it’s not the best thing either when you’re trying to meet people. Something to make me feel more relaxed and attract people to me would be what I’m looking for. I’m going to look more into the suggestions above and see if I can find a good combination. How many scents can you layer at once? My personality is pretty bubbly. I like to try new things and I’m an andrenaline junkie. I’m also really into current events and I like to read. I’ve been told that I give an impression of being really smart and no-nonsense but not mean. I’m actually really goofy and pretty laid back. I’m usually confident but I think that because I’ve moved to a big city it’s taking me back a little. When it comes to attracting men, I’m usually giving off a sexy aggressive vibe. When I’m relaxed and in my groove which happens less often than I like I’ve been told that I’m very sexy and confident but when I’m more reserved or uncomfortable I think I give off don’t come near me, awkward vibes. Really, I’m just feeling out of place and want people to come talk to me, but because no one is I feel uncomfortable which makes me give off those awkward vibes which makes people not talk to me so it’s a pretty vicious cycle. I like to workout and paint. I’m also a big reader and I like to go outside and go hiking or do anything active. I also like to go to bars and clubs. More than likely, I’d use the mones when i go bar/club hopping and in social situations, but not at work. ---
**Author:** ![Aghor](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/aghor/32/1558_2.png) [@Aghor](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Aghor)\ **Post date:** [August 29, 2011, 6:31am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-hello/52058/6 "2011-08-29T06:31:24Z")
see what I have typed within your quote in red and brown 🙂 > [@janedoe88](#): > > Thanks! > > I consider myself to be pretty attractive and I don’t have a problem meeting guys but I’m not attracting the guys I want to attract. > > **Throw in Instant Sexiness B and some Instant Shine and lets see 🙂** > > I also think that because I’m in such a new surrounding that I have a hard time opening up,which isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but it’s not the best thing either when you’re trying to meet people. Something to make me feel more relaxed and attract people to me would be what I’m looking for. I’m going to look more into the suggestions above and see if I can find a good combination. How many scents can you layer at once? > > regarding layering, You can have them all on you… there are people on theforum here who sometimes go crazy and literally have more than 5-7 different stuff on them at a time and they too get good results > > **One you add instant Openness to the above combo of Instant Sexiness B and some Instant Shine** , it should give you the results you desiere. just be your natural self… and relax just apply them and forget that you are wearing these… they will work in the background > > Really, I’m just feeling out of place and want people to come talk to me, but because no one is I feel uncomfortable which makes me give off those awkward vibes which makes people not talk to me so it’s a pretty vicious cycle. > > **Nothing that instant Shine and Instant Openness cant cure 🙂** > > More than likely, I’d use the mones when i go bar/club hopping and in social situations, **but not at work.** > > **Using shine and IH at work is an easy way to gain trust and popularity quickly** ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [August 30, 2011, 11:04pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-hello/52058/7 "2011-08-30T23:04:38Z")
Welcome to pherotalk Jane! I am super glad that one by one the ladies are joining the forum. I am excited since we are already outnumbered on this forum by the men and because we have so much new experimental mixes out for the ladies and some socials that need your feedback. You have to start somewhere so the products mentioned are what you use to get your feet wet and then dive in later. Have fun! **Your gc was issued! 😉** ---
**Author:** ![janedoe88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/5fc32e/32.png) [@janedoe88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/janedoe88)\ **Post date:** [September 13, 2011, 8:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-hello/52058/8 "2011-09-13T20:48:32Z")
I tried [Instant Sexiness B](https://phera.com/product/kitten/) and the MX397 and OMG it worked like a charm! Instant Sexiness B totally balanced out my aggressiveness that I already had and made me much more approachable. Everyone was talking to me and I was so much more open. The moment i sprayed Instant Sexiness B i felt so much more relaxed and bubbly and confident AND sexy. I went out last night with my roommate and everywhere I went men were all trying to be so helpful. from giving me directions and walking me to my destination. I was given free drinks at the bar from the bartender and extra perks. The promoter walked me and my girlfriend into the club and allowed us to skip paying the cover. When we got inside I felt like everyone was just swarming around me. Turns out a lot of NFL players were there that night and I got a lot of attention. My roommate even noticed it and was like they’re flocking to you. I’m used to attention from guys but the type of attention I got that night was insane! I layed Instant Attraction over the MX397 mix. The MX397 made me feel very sexy and confident and the IA made me feel feminine and alluring and lovely. The only thing I didn’t like is that I ordered 2 bottles of MX397 and the bottles were half empty when I got them. They spilled into the bag. How do I go about getting another bottle of this mix?