# Another new member **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [February 1, 2011, 12:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729 "2011-02-01T00:33:30Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Fade1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fade1/32/1949_2.png) [@Fade1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fade1)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 12:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/1 "2011-02-01T00:33:30Z")
Hello everyone, I’ve heard a lot about [pheromones](https://a314.com/) and already know a fair bit about psychology and body language. I’m a fan of there being a scientific explanation for everything, attraction included. So naturally I’m interested in this site. I’ve not tried anything like this before, but I’m always up for something new. I think strangely enough I was browsing the web for interesting sex enhancement type pills. I guess in a way I sort of found something similar eh? I’m 21 and from England. I’ll talk a little about what I hope to get out of 'mones. I’m a rather shy and quiet person, I’d like to change that a little. I’m fairly confident with how I look, but not with the talking. I’m also interested in being seen in a better light at work in the office, get high up people to notice me a bit more and think of me as a more likely candidate for various roles. I have a long term partner but I would be lying if I said I don’t want any female attraction 'mones.. I love the attention! Doesn’t everyone? No idea what to make my first order though.. Anyway - hi! Any questions do ask. ---
**Author:** ![Fade1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fade1/32/1949_2.png) [@Fade1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fade1)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 12:49am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/2 "2011-02-01T00:49:29Z")
Oh - and my post box is tiny. It’s one of those wall mounted ones in apartment blocks rather than a hole in the door. Will my delivery still make it? ---
**Author:** ![Spinach](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/spinach/32/348_2.png) [@Spinach](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Spinach)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 1:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/3 "2011-02-01T01:47:51Z")
Hi Fade, welcome to the forum. 🙂 I’d recommend some of the socials for your first order. They will be a good start to experimenting, and will hopefully help you achieve what you’re looking for! Instant Shine is a major forum favourite - it’s the mood-booster phero, and will make you seem young and vibrant and fun to be around. Plus, it’s better to advance relationships if you’re both in a good mood, right? [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) will increase the quantity of conversation - ie make people around you chattier, and easier on you to approach new people. Meanwhile Instant Honesty is self-explanatory - but it also increases the quality of the conversation, and will help connect you to people because it opens them up more. IG and Ammo would be your to-gos for attraction. IG would be great for your age, it sports the cool, dependable mature guy vibe, which girls your age will really like. Ammo is the masculine, sexy one, but not over the top. Business wise, when you’ve gotten a good grip on IG and the social products, you could think about investing in A314. It’s THE alpha man phero, but unless your actions match the attitude you’re portraying, it won’t be effective. Purchase the smaller To Go bottles if you can, they’ll give you about 40 sprays whereas the standard size bottles are 200 sprays. And don’t forget to check out the ‘stickied’ threads in the Men’s forum! Good luck, and keep us posted. I hope to see you around! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 7:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/4 "2011-02-01T07:12:15Z")
> [@Fade1](#): > > Hello everyone, > > I’ve heard a lot about pheromones and already know a fair bit about psychology and body language. I’m a fan of there being a scientific explanation for everything, attraction included. So naturally I’m interested in this site. I’ve not tried anything like this before, but I’m always up for something new. I think strangely enough I was browsing the web for interesting sex enhancement type pills. I guess in a way I sort of found something similar eh? > > I’m 21 and from England. I’ll talk a little about what I hope to get out of 'mones. I’m a rather shy and quiet person, I’d like to change that a little. I’m fairly confident with how I look, but not with the talking. I’m also interested in being seen in a better light at work in the office, get high up people to notice me a bit more and think of me as a more likely candidate for various roles. > > I have a long term partner but I would be lying if I said I don’t want any female attraction 'mones.. I love the attention! Doesn’t everyone? > > No idea what to make my first order though.. > > Anyway - hi! Any questions do ask. Hi and welcome Fade1! Yes… I can relate… we guys do love the attention of the gals…😃 For attraction of your LTR and others 😉, give AMMO a go. It’s cologne strength and is a good all around, complete product for sexual attraction of females… You really have a confident to be in your own skin feeling. You feel like struttin’ your stuff when you have it on…🙂 This with some IH for your LTR, to get the intimate conversations flowing, you’ll have that irresistible feel about you. Oh, I’ve read other posters from the UK get there mone packages without a hitch… I believe AD uses DHL for its international shipping. Let us know what you decided and how it went! ---
**Author:** ![GorMas2020](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gormas2020/32/197_2.png) [@GorMas2020](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GorMas2020)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 7:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/5 "2011-02-01T07:30:56Z")
> [@Fade1](#): > > I’m 21 and from England. I’ll talk a little about what I hope to get out of 'mones. I’m a rather shy and quiet person, I’d like to change that a little. I’m fairly confident with how I look, but not with the talking. I’m also interested in being seen in a better light at work in the office, get high up people to notice me a bit more and think of me as a more likely candidate for various roles. Shy and quiet killer = Instant Shine and Instant Openness The light bulb at work will turn on with either [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) or A314. Niether will be instantaneous, but with A314 you will get noticed if you like it or not 😉. Instant Gentleman is something that could bring DEPENDABILITY in the workplace and also get you noticed. BOTH need help from you of course and I recommend reading the stickies in the men’s forum for further guidance, but as you can see the people around here love to help. Have fun and enjoy yourself here…WELCOME 😃 ---
**Author:** ![GorMas2020](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gormas2020/32/197_2.png) [@GorMas2020](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GorMas2020)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 7:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/6 "2011-02-01T07:34:07Z")
Oh and about your SIZE 😛 if it’s big enough to hold a sheet of paper unfolded you should be ok. I don’t know about how others get theirs sent to them but mine comes in a fed-ex cardboard envelope about the size of a peice of paper maybe a lil bigger…hope that helps 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Fade1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fade1/32/1949_2.png) [@Fade1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fade1)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 9:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/7 "2011-02-01T09:03:30Z")
Thanks very much for the warm welcome! I’ll post a better reply when I get back from work 😉 ---
**Author:** ![Fade1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fade1/32/1949_2.png) [@Fade1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fade1)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 7:13pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/8 "2011-02-01T19:13:12Z")
Right! Where was I. IG - I’m thinking against this one. Being one of the only one of my mates with a well paid, full time job, long term partner and a nice place to live I already give off the mature and dependable vibe. Not sure I want any more of that since most of the girls I talk to don’t really go for it anyway. Ever hear the expression about girls with bad male role models (eg fathers) are better in bed? Totally true. I find they’re more fun to be around if they’re more reckless and less interested in the gentlemanly thing. A lot of people are recommending it though so I might have to think twice? IO & IH - Not sure. Wouldn’t need much use with the significant other, we’re very open already. Might be useful for other social aspects/work but probably not as much as the other ones. [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) - Definitely on my buy list! Sounds great for most situations. Standard or double strength? IS - Probably best to help me feel more cheerful and talkative. I will try mixing it with Ammo. TUTH - Can’t pass this one up. Gotta see if this works 😉 A314 - I will grab one of the little bottles for special occasions at work I reckon. So far my basket looks like this: Ammo IS TUTH A314 The large sprays seem like better value for money so I think I will go for those - need to keep shipping to a minimum since it’s international and costs $20 extra. Just waiting for the gift card now. Hoping it comes in time to order and receive delivery before the weekend 😉 Cheers all ---
**Author:** ![GorMas2020](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gormas2020/32/197_2.png) [@GorMas2020](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GorMas2020)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 8:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/9 "2011-02-01T20:45:01Z")
> [@Fade1](#): > > Right! Where was I. > > IG - I’m thinking against this one. Being one of the only one of my mates with a well paid, full time job, long term partner and a nice place to live I already give off the mature and dependable vibe. Not sure I want any more of that since most of the girls I talk to don’t really go for it anyway. Ever hear the expression about girls with bad male role models (eg fathers) are better in bed? Totally true. I find they’re more fun to be around if they’re more reckless and less interested in the gentlemanly thing. A lot of people are recommending it though so I might have to think twice? > > IO & IH - Not sure. Wouldn’t need much use with the significant other, we’re very open already. Might be useful for other social aspects/work but probably not as much as the other ones. > > Ammo - Definitely on my buy list! Sounds great for most situations. Standard or double strength? > > IS - Probably best to help me feel more cheerful and talkative. I will try mixing it with Ammo. > > TUTH - Can’t pass this one up. Gotta see if this works 😉 > > A314 - I will grab one of the little bottles for special occasions at work I reckon. > > So far my basket looks like this: > Ammo > IS > TUTH > A314 > The large sprays seem like better value for money so I think I will go for those - need to keep shipping to a minimum since it’s international and costs $20 extra. > > Just waiting for the gift card now. Hoping it comes in time to order and receive delivery before the weekend 😉 > > Cheers all I just want to point out to you that what you have in your basket will not give you that “bad boy” vibe either. Tuth gives a pervert vibe if used in inappropriate situations and AMMO is just sexy and an “overall” good vibe. What you may consider for that “bad boy” is [Instant Jerk](https://a314.com/product/instant-jerk/), but there is a reason people are suggesting to you certain products, but in the end it’s up to you, because it is your MONEY. Just make sure you are making the most informed descision you can. In your intro you didn’t talk about the “bad boy” aspect. If your shy and quiet in social situations outside of your relationship with your lady then IO and IS WILL help you. Again it is your choice and your money. Just remember that when using NEW products it’s best to try them out separately as much as you can before you go and do any combos. ---
**Author:** ![Fade1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fade1/32/1949_2.png) [@Fade1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fade1)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 8:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/10 "2011-02-01T20:52:53Z")
That’s a good point, Gormas, thank you. I think what concerns me about badboy is I’m not so hot in fights 😛 don’t particularly want to anger too many guys. Bah I want to try some of everything! ---
**Author:** ![P51Mustang](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/p51mustang/32/1266_2.png) [@P51Mustang](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/P51Mustang)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 9:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/11 "2011-02-01T21:00:32Z")
> [@Fade1](#): > > That’s a good point, Gormas, thank you. > I think what concerns me about badboy is I’m not so hot in fights 😛 don’t particularly want to anger too many guys. > > Bah I want to try some of everything! I’m well established, have an awesome career, and the ladies love me. I still use A314, and IG at times because it helps complete the picture. Remember that both appearance and pheromones work hand in hand with each other and can essentially help you further your vibe and status. Everyone else answered your question and just wanted to chime in on the IG part. ---
**Author:** ![GorMas2020](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gormas2020/32/197_2.png) [@GorMas2020](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GorMas2020)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 9:05pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/12 "2011-02-01T21:05:09Z")
> [@Fade1](#): > > That’s a good point, Gormas, thank you. > I think what concerns me about badboy is I’m not so hot in fights 😛 don’t particularly want to anger too many guys. > > Bah I want to try some of everything! Thats why IJ gets sort of a bad name. If your super nice this could be a good product to use. I have yet to get any angry dudes chasing me with pitchforks, but have had a couple girls get very nasty with me. If your not looking for a fight you prolly wont get in one. I have left bars though when people start getting a whole lot of drunk, because things seemed to start to escalate with both male and females in a negative fashion. Just food for thought man. IJ is very polarizing I suggest you research both the good and the bad from it by doing a search for it. GOOD LUCK to YOU 😃 ---
**Author:** ![Fade1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fade1/32/1949_2.png) [@Fade1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fade1)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 9:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/13 "2011-02-01T21:07:51Z")
Off to read all the threads I can find on IG! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Fade1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fade1/32/1949_2.png) [@Fade1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fade1)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 10:49pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/14 "2011-02-01T22:49:05Z")
> [@Spinach](#): > > Business wise, when you’ve gotten a good grip on IG and the social products, you could think about investing in A314. It’s THE alpha man phero, but unless your actions match the attitude you’re portraying, it won’t be effective. > > Purchase the smaller To Go bottles if you can, they’ll give you about 40 sprays whereas the standard size bottles are 200 sprays. And don’t forget to check out the ‘stickied’ threads in the Men’s forum! Good luck, and keep us posted. I hope to see you around! 🙂 I think I’ll give the A314 a miss for now then, maybe in a few months once IG has helped me a bit at work. I’ll admit it won’t match the attitude much, but I hope to change that over the next few months then maybe order some A314. Interested about your commend on the To-Go bottles. Which provide better value for money? I notice to To-Go bottles are 0.02 lbs whereas the regulars are 0.16 lbs for roughly 4x as much money. Thanks 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![GorMas2020](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gormas2020/32/197_2.png) [@GorMas2020](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GorMas2020)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 11:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/15 "2011-02-01T23:14:23Z")
> [@Fade1](#): > > I think I’ll give the A314 a miss for now then, maybe in a few months once IG has helped me a bit at work. I’ll admit it won’t match the attitude much, but I hope to change that over the next few months then maybe order some A314. > > Interested about your commend on the To-Go bottles. Which provide better value for money? > I notice to To-Go bottles are 0.02 lbs whereas the regulars are 0.16 lbs for roughly 4x as much money. > > Thanks 🙂 They do have to-gos of A314 in a cheaper yet still totally awesome spray form. I bought the 109$ oil version right off the bat and am glad I did, BUT I looked around on here and had the money to burn at the time. I DEFINITELY don’t wanna turn you off to the idea of getting it. To me It’s the BEST product ANYWHERE. Maybe try a to-go of the spray version 1.23b just to see if it works for you. I mean you will come to find that IG and A314 are two DIFFERENT products and have similar yet different effects. The to-gos are probably the way to go if you intend on finding a “sweet spot” that way when you re-order there are different strengths 1x 2x 3x 4x. So instead of using lets say 4 sprays of IS which from your testing is your “sweet spot” go ahead and buy the 4x version in a 30ml to cut down on sprays which empty the bottle faster. IN the long run that will save you money and so will “sweet spot” testing in general. So after your “sweet spot” testing you could end up with something like this… the 1x version of IO, the 2x version of IH, and the 4x version of IS. AMMO and TUTH come in 1x and 2x fyi. [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) and Jerk come only in 1x ---
**Author:** ![Fade1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fade1/32/1949_2.png) [@Fade1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fade1)\ **Post date:** [February 1, 2011, 11:36pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/16 "2011-02-01T23:36:26Z")
Thanks Gormas! After much reading the IG looks pretty good, if named a little odd. I just made my order… 1 x IG/m 1 x IS/m 1 x A314 1 x TUTH to-go 1 x IO to-go 1 x IH to-go I just couldn’t resist a little of everything! I’m imagining IG + IS most work days with A314 thrown in for big meetings/directors meetings. Evenings with the partner a bit of IS, IH, TUTH? Possibly some A314. Evenings out probably IO for the social anxiety, plenty of IS, some A314 or TUTH if I want female attention. I’ll have some fun mix and matching to find what works 🙂 Unfortunately I didn’t get my $25 gift voucher in time for the order, because I’m hoping it will be delivered by the weekend so I didn’t want to hang around and wait. Maybe I can use it next time instead. Thanks again all who helped, I’ll post a little journal thing and let you know how it goes! ---
**Author:** ![GorMas2020](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gormas2020/32/197_2.png) [@GorMas2020](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/GorMas2020)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2011, 12:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/17 "2011-02-02T00:12:13Z")
> [@Fade1](#): > > Thanks Gormas! After much reading the IG looks pretty good, if named a little odd. > > I just made my order… > > 1 x IG/m > 1 x IS/m > 1 x A314 > 1 x TUTH to-go > 1 x IO to-go > 1 x IH to-go > > I just couldn’t resist a little of everything! > > I’m imagining IG + IS most work days with A314 thrown in for big meetings/directors meetings. > Evenings with the partner a bit of IS, IH, TUTH? Possibly some A314. > Evenings out probably IO for the social anxiety, plenty of IS, some A314 or TUTH if I want female attention. > I’ll have some fun mix and matching to find what works 🙂 > > Unfortunately I didn’t get my $25 gift voucher in time for the order, because I’m hoping it will be delivered by the weekend so I didn’t want to hang around and wait. Maybe I can use it next time instead. > > Thanks again all who helped, I’ll post a little journal thing and let you know how it goes! Great order!!! I will be checking out your journal… As for the gift card you can use it on your next order! I’m guessing you may just get IJ or AMMO as a gift so that will give you ALL but one of the instant line to play with. ENJOY 😃 The funny thing is that this was EXACTLY what I ordered except I got all 30ml on my first order and IS and IO were in 2x I think 😕 I’m glad your already thinking of all the possibilities and hope for the best in your testing and use of these products. ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2011, 7:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/18 "2011-02-02T19:22:35Z")
> [@Fade1](#): > > I think I’ll give the A314 a miss for now then, maybe in a few months once IG has helped me a bit at work. I’ll admit it won’t match the attitude much, but I hope to change that over the next few months then maybe order some A314. > > Interested about your commend on the To-Go bottles. Which provide better value for money? > I notice to To-Go bottles are 0.02 lbs whereas the regulars are 0.16 lbs for roughly 4x as much money. > > Thanks 🙂 Hey there, I wanted to chime in with this thread on [Research Oriented Pheromones Description + Product Value / Ingredient Guide](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/research-oriented-pheromones-description-product-value-ingredient-guide/42557) Is a very nice workup of the AD products, with a pricing breakdown. Hope that helps you out! Check your spam box, maybe AD has already sent you the GC, but the big bad spam box gobbled it up… you can send a PM Mickaelia at the top of the Intro forum and ask if she has already sent your GC. Looking forward to reading up on your journal as well! ---
**Author:** ![Fade1](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/fade1/32/1949_2.png) [@Fade1](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Fade1)\ **Post date:** [February 2, 2011, 11:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/19 "2011-02-02T23:23:16Z")
How exciting! The order says shipped, guess it’s on the way! However I am rather worried it won’t fit in my apartment’s wall mounted post box while I am at work. I tried calling DHL to see if they could give me some heads up time when my delivery was on the way so I could walk home from work (I live very close, 5 mins) and be ready to answer the door but they said nothing could be done.. and the nearest collection depot is 2 hours away! Argh! I hope delivery doesn’t fail but it probably will.. ---
**Author:** ![Kelsey](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kelsey/32/8468_2.png) [@Kelsey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kelsey)\ **Post date:** [February 3, 2011, 1:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729/20 "2011-02-03T01:19:03Z")
Welcome to Pherotalk Fade1! Well instant openness is my first recommendation for the shy you and instant gentleman for more respect at work and in other areas of your life. Since you are shy you will have to work up to A314. You will not get the desired results using this product if you are shy. Ammunition for making you feel confident and for attracting the opp sex. I know every so often men want attention from other females besides their gf but be careful it does not go to far , get to your head or affect your relationship. Have fun with these. **Your gc was issued! 😃** [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-new-member/45729.md?page=2)