# another newb **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 13, 2008, 8:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-newb/8275 "2008-01-13T08:26:04Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 14\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![lovinlife5852](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/a8b319/32.png) [@lovinlife5852](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lovinlife5852)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2008, 8:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-newb/8275/1 "2008-01-13T08:26:04Z")
Hi, Im another newb to this forum. Im a male college student from the midwest US. I found this site while trying to research other pheromones I found and decided this seems to be the most legit site of them all. I have trouble approaching women and am mainly looking for a product that will make them more open and physical towards me. So far I have come up with [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and/or Instant Shine, but I am open to suggestions. Thanks ---
**Author:** ![Kusro](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/f05b48/32.png) [@Kusro](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kusro)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2008, 8:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-newb/8275/2 "2008-01-13T08:34:34Z")
Hi lovinlife, Welcome to the forum! Tell us more about your personality, age and what other pheros have you been using or researching. The pheros are not magic bullets, will only enhance what you have. So you need to do a bit of leg work as well in initiating contact. The choice you made is good, you could aslo add AMMO. ordering the to go sizes is the best way to try out the pheros and see what effects it has on you and your targets. Read the stickies in the men’s forums as well for a good intro. Cheers! ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2008, 8:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-newb/8275/3 "2008-01-13T08:36:16Z")
Hey lovinlife, welcome to our little corner of the net. You have found a great source for information on [pheromones](https://a314.com/) and an incredible group of people to help you discover all that pheros can do. You have slected a couple of great products. I would also suggest Ammo, as it is a great all around product and will help yo to get attention and interest from women. I think you’re really going to like ti here and will soon find that the forum members are becoming like a second family to you. If you have any questions, just ask and we’re haapy to help in any way we can. ---
**Author:** ![chadwick](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/chadwick/32/2129_2.png) [@chadwick](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/chadwick)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2008, 8:41am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-newb/8275/4 "2008-01-13T08:41:25Z")
If you can, look around and see what the popular guys are wearing for clothes, mimic the alpha males around you. If you ever get in an odd situation..tell her you would wear her like a bearskin rug. Just tell women they look good.o.k… just get ammunition and if you can get instant honesty and turn up the heat… but instant shine would mix well with all the phero’s as you start to mix and match. have fun!! buy them all… ---
**Author:** ![lovinlife5852](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/a8b319/32.png) [@lovinlife5852](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lovinlife5852)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2008, 7:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-newb/8275/5 "2008-01-13T19:14:50Z")
thanks for the replies everyone- in response to Kusro, Im 18 years old, and a bit of an introvert. I have trouble talking to people I just met, but once I get to know them, I have no problems- I have no experience with any pheros at this point, I currently wear American Eagle cologne Thanks again ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 13, 2008, 7:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-newb/8275/6 "2008-01-13T19:22:23Z")
Welcome to the forum Kusro. You have already gotten the good product advice from Mark and the others so don’t have much to add to that … except … say consider [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). I have used it and like it. It gives you a cool/suave/slightly older vibe and you don’t have to worry about an OD. Remember that while the products do work, there are a couple caveats. First, the effects are just a little different at a given dose given your personal body chemistry and your personality. So you will need to experiment with them at first. Renny explained to you the best way to do this. Second, the products do give you an edge but that is it. You have to do something positive - conversation, etc. - to take advantage of those effects. Other than that be sure to read the Stickies in the Men’s Forum - there is a lot of good info there. So again - welcome and good luck. ---
**Author:** ![SteveO](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/87869e/32.png) [@SteveO](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/SteveO)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2008, 4:09pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-newb/8275/7 "2008-01-14T16:09:23Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. You sound like an extrovert just waiting to bust out and make us all smile when your around. I know you really are! I would suggest some CTTM and some [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/). Talk about the sexy guy vibe that everybody wants to talk to. WOW… I will be sending your gift certificate out today. Welcome ---
**Author:** ![lovinlife5852](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/a8b319/32.png) [@lovinlife5852](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lovinlife5852)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2008, 6:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-newb/8275/8 "2008-01-14T18:45:57Z")
thanks again for all the advice- I have one more question though- So far I plan on ordering the to-go sizes of Instant Openness, Instant Shine, and Ammunition to experiement with them-my question is should I throw in [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/)?? or CTTM??? thanks in advance ---
**Author:** ![lovinlife5852](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/a8b319/32.png) [@lovinlife5852](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lovinlife5852)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2008, 6:48pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-newb/8275/9 "2008-01-14T18:48:05Z")
thanks for all the advice, everyone Right now i plan on ordering Instant Openness, Instant Shine, and AMMO in the to-go size to experiment with Do you recommend trying the [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) or CTTM as well?? Thanks ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2008, 8:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-newb/8275/10 "2008-01-14T20:55:56Z")
Sure do. They work like a charm once you figure them out. ---
**Author:** ![lovinlife5852](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/a8b319/32.png) [@lovinlife5852](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lovinlife5852)\ **Post date:** [January 14, 2008, 9:25pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-newb/8275/11 "2008-01-14T21:25:31Z")
Do you prefer one over the other?? If it makes a difference i’ll be using these with younger women-most 18-22 or so ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 12:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-newb/8275/12 "2008-01-15T12:30:58Z")
Hello Lovelife Just wanted to stop in and say welcome to the forum. 🙂 As far as choosing between CTTM and IFM. They are both great products. IFM is better for causing a calm comforting feeling and alot of guys love it for when women are in a bitchy mood. If you find that would be useful to you then go with that. CTTM is a 50/50 mix of IH and IO, It will induce conversation and attraction on a social level. I would go with the CTTM If you have any questions or comments please come on down to the other foru sections. We look forward to your participation . 😉 Tisha ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 1:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-newb/8275/13 "2008-01-15T13:23:52Z")
I concur with Tisha. If you have to choose go with the CTTM. It will be more useful up front. Then if you end up in a long term relationship then the [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) will come in handy from time to time and certainly monthy if you catch the collective drift. ---
**Author:** ![lovinlife5852](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/a8b319/32.png) [@lovinlife5852](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lovinlife5852)\ **Post date:** [January 15, 2008, 9:47pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/another-newb/8275/14 "2008-01-15T21:47:39Z")
Just put in my order! To-go bottles of Instant openness, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/), Turn up the Heat, Ammo, along with CTTM, and at the last minute decided to throw in Alpha “A314” (my job deals with sales)…should have my hands full for a while and cant wait to try these out!