Hello Lee, welcome to the forums.
Turn up the Heat might make people agressive if worn in, say a work situation. It may signal for someone to feel attraction, but then puts them in this confused state because they also know they should not be having these feelings at work!
Ammo does have sexual benefits and in my opinion is your best alround option to start with if this is what you are after.
Socially /around friends - why not try Instant Honest, Instant Openness, Instant Gentleman, Instant Shine. Check out the mens guide here: Mens Pheromone Guide revised 6/15
Remember, tisha will sweep through the forums soon and hand out gift certificates.
Let us know what you purchase and do return and let everyone knwo about your results.
cheers 