# Any advice on good pre-dating questions? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [May 22, 2013, 9:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-advice-on-good-pre-dating-questions/59062 "2013-05-22T09:47:00Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 11\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![dsouza](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dsouza/32/840_2.png) [@dsouza](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dsouza)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 9:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-advice-on-good-pre-dating-questions/59062/1 "2013-05-22T09:47:00Z")
I’m pretty much using p75 IO ammo and IS these days and forgetting about it once I have it on: Question.. pre dating… Before asking for a date I like to warm up to a woman first to build a connection. Do any of you have your favorite pre date questions or situations you like to talk about (espcially with women you mean as waitresses in restaurants or women who works in malls)? I have already used the traditional Do you go to school? What do you study? What do you like to do for fun? What kind of foods do you like? Build I’ve used these on different occasions with the same girl and its like starting from scratch each time to build a connection. With this one girl I already suggested a date and she said maybe lets leave it at that. Its up to me to follow up and pursue her but I’m running out of predate questions.. I need some help. She work in a restaurant is a part time waitress and goes to university.. Already talked to her about school, work etc but its been mostly formal. I need to ask her more personal questions that are NOT good for dating (I have not gone on a date with her yet), but for PREdating or scoring the date. Can you guys help me out? I need some subject to discuss.. I know a tons of them for dating but I am not there yet and want to save those questions for dating time. I need to know how to warm up to her after a long time on a personal level and get her to be in the mood to say yes if I ask her out . If you think the mones I’m using are going to screw me up say so.. The combo I use speaks of MAN but it also causes both self effects of lucidnesss (p75) if it backfires, and also causes effects of intimidation on younger women. Tips? Here is my plan: Next time i go into the restaurant. Approach hostess.. “CAN I BE SEATED In KIMBERLY’s SECTION”. (Yes)-- Done, Shes not working today (then I’ll just ask for a seat by the window as it doesn’t matter). When seated I am wondering whether I should wait for her to greet me or to greet her.. After all she is a waitress and I am a customer. So Its natural for her to greet me.. But at the same time I am not showing dominance and confidence and standing out if I don’t take the lead. I’m tired of asking her about school… that’s all we ever talk about. What else can I talk to her about that’s appropriate in a restaurant but shows sexual interest without coming on to strong. I am feeling rather tense about this whole thing and I don’t know if its because of my intense workouts (I walk jog 60 min a day and lift weights 1.5 hrs a week), my mone signature changing, and me not adapting to changing it properly in time for seeing her , or even the fact that I am feeling rather low she said maybe instead of yes to the initial date. All this leaves me with hesistation. Any tips on how I can bring relaxations and bonds of “he is the one” into the picture again.. I sense attraction from her but I can’t afford to be too bold and just ask her out as I’ve done that before.. I need to **build a bond again** before finishing with the **final question** “Do you have any plans for lunch this Sunday? I’d like to take you out to Red Lobster.. We can go before your shift starts. (yes) – get her number , (busy) – Perhaps another time then?” I need humor in there to release tension.. tension from not seeing her in 4 weeks, from my own doubts about her response and attraction to me, and from not knowing what to say to seduce her pre date… there is too much of it.. tension. Tips? Best **pre dating scoring phermone or combo** for portugese girl 23-25 years of age? ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 11:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-advice-on-good-pre-dating-questions/59062/2 "2013-05-22T11:19:38Z")
Yes… [Sex, Drugs, and Cocoa Puffs: A Low Culture Manifesto - Chuck Klosterman - Google Books](http://books.google.com/books?id=8bvFIHE0u4kC&pg=PA133&lpg=PA133&dq=Chuck+Klosterman++For+whatever+the+reason,+two+unauthorized+movies+are+made+about+your+life.+The+first+is+an+independently+released+documentary,+primarily+comprised+of+interviews+with+people+who+know+you+and+bootleg+footage+from+your+actual+life.+Critics+are+describing+the+documentary+as+%E2%80%9Cbrutally+honest+and+relentlessly+fair.%E2%80%9D+Meanwhile,+Columbia+Tri-Star+has+produced+a+big-budget+biopic+of+your+life,+casting+major+Hollywood+stars+as+you+and+all+your+acquaintances;+though+the+movie+is+based+on+actual+events,+screenwriters+have+taken+some+liberties+with+the+facts.+Critics+are+split+on+the+artistic+merits+of+this+fictionalized+account,+but+audiences+love+it.&source=bl&ots=KOw3edPlXL&sig=oD00L052RveYCB29da1Oys2m0lA&hl=en&sa=X&ei=VxudUZKJJKfa4AOE54HgCg&ved=0CDIQ6AEwAQ#v=onepage&q=Chuck%20Klosterman%20%20For%20whatever%20the%20reason%2C%20two%20unauthorized%20movies%20are%20made%20about%20your%20life.%20The%20first%20is%20an%20independently%20released%20documentary%2C%20primarily%20comprised%20of%20interviews%20with%20people%20who%20know%20you%20and%20bootleg%20footage%20from%20your%20actual%20life.%20Critics%20are%20describing%20the%20documentary%20as%20%E2%80%9Cbrutally%20honest%20and%20relentlessly%20fair.%E2%80%9D%20Meanwhile%2C%20Columbia%20Tri-Star%20has%20produced%20a%20big-budget%20biopic%20of%20your%20life%2C%20casting%20major%20Hollywood%20stars%20as%20you%20and%20all%20your%20acquaintances%3B%20though%20the%20movie%20is%20based%20on%20actual%20events%2C%20screenwriters%20have%20taken%20some%20liberties%20with%20the%20facts.%20Critics%20are%20split%20on%20the%20artistic%20merits%20of%20this%20fictionalized%20account%2C%20but%20audiences%20love%20it.&f=false) Start at page 126. Pick a dozen or so of those. I’ve used a dozenish of those for a few years, I went through and found ones that I’m strong about one way or the other… it helps me to weed out people I’m probably not going to get along with. ---
**Author:** ![Spiderman007](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/b782af/32.png) [@Spiderman007](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Spiderman007)\ **Post date:** [May 22, 2013, 6:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-advice-on-good-pre-dating-questions/59062/3 "2013-05-22T18:45:53Z")
i just bought the book and i can’t find any questions, total waste of money bro ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [May 23, 2013, 2:52am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-advice-on-good-pre-dating-questions/59062/4 "2013-05-23T02:52:38Z")
> [@Spiderman007](#): > > i just bought the book and i can’t find any questions, total waste of money bro Ummm… why did you buy it. The link I gave you is to a book on google books, it pulls up for free. The page I gave you lists 23 questions… [http://www.ryanmercer.com/picture/questions.png?pictureId=18066859](http://www.ryanmercer.com/picture/questions.png?pictureId=18066859) [http://www.ryanmercer.com/picture/questions.png](http://www.ryanmercer.com/picture/questions.png) ---
**Author:** ![dsouza](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dsouza/32/840_2.png) [@dsouza](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dsouza)\ **Post date:** [May 23, 2013, 5:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-advice-on-good-pre-dating-questions/59062/5 "2013-05-23T05:30:11Z")
Thanks for the link.. Personally I didn’t like the topics of discussion.. Found them too immature and crazy.. I want to come across as a man with his head on his shoulders 🙂 But you have the right idea.. pre dating questions is what I’m after. I save speed dating questions for dates. ---
**Author:** ![ryanmercer](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ryanmercer/32/1569_2.png) [@ryanmercer](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ryanmercer)\ **Post date:** [May 23, 2013, 5:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-advice-on-good-pre-dating-questions/59062/6 "2013-05-23T05:44:30Z")
> [@dsouza](#): > > Thanks for the link.. Personally I didn’t like the topics of discussion.. Found them too immature and crazy.. I want to come across as a man with his head on his shoulders 🙂 > > But you have the right idea.. pre dating questions is what I’m after. I save speed dating questions for dates. To each their own. I’ve been using them for years, nearly every single time “omg that’s the deepest question I’ve ever been asked” “your question made me smile” “I appreciate you didn’t send me a question asking if I was DTF, that was a charming question and was fun to think about” “That’s quite hte loaded question you’ve thrown at me! It definitely made me think, that’s for sure!” “Hrmmm that is a question with many possible answers” “This could take a while so bear with me” “Well you were definitely able to accomplish a unique approach with your question 🙂” “I’m sure you’ve thought about this yourself so you have me at a disadvantage but” etc Those are all copy paste replies from my inbox. Each question always generates multiple replies, they’ll give their answer almost always 2+ sentences at to why then they want to know your answer, that then the vast majority of the time spurs several messages back and forth discussing the answers. But hey, _shrugs_ women don’t want questions like “where do you see yourself in 10 years and what is your step by step plan to get there while factoring in all…” ---
**Author:** ![dsouza](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dsouza/32/840_2.png) [@dsouza](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dsouza)\ **Post date:** [May 23, 2013, 11:51am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-advice-on-good-pre-dating-questions/59062/7 "2013-05-23T11:51:03Z")
> [@ryanmercer](#): > > To each their own. I’ve been using them for years, nearly every single time “omg that’s the deepest question I’ve ever been asked” > > “your question made me smile” > > “I appreciate you didn’t send me a question asking if I was DTF, that was a charming question and was fun to think about” > > “That’s quite hte loaded question you’ve thrown at me! It definitely made me think, that’s for sure!” > > “Hrmmm that is a question with many possible answers” > > “This could take a while so bear with me” > > “Well you were definitely able to accomplish a unique approach with your question 🙂” > > “I’m sure you’ve thought about this yourself so you have me at a disadvantage but” > > etc > > Those are all copy paste replies from my inbox. > > Each question always generates multiple replies, they’ll give their answer almost always 2+ sentences at to why then they want to know your answer, that then the vast majority of the time spurs several messages back and forth discussing the answers. But hey, _shrugs_ women don’t want questions like “where do you see yourself in 10 years and what is your step by step plan to get there while factoring in all…” Well a man has to be comfortable in their own skin asking questions like what you’ve stated on your link.. And i think I would foul up the questions don’t match my personality at all. Women would see through the bogus because I think questions like that are all bogus. I much prefer a more sensible discussion that can be inviting, interesting and build rapport and use the body, clothes, and my face to make the rest of the initial impression. It’s just like speed seduction.. I think ross jeffries is a fool telling people to carry out such long discussions when youngsters these days live ina busy world and have no time to talk much. Speed dating is the latest craze amongst the youth for time is not what their loaded with.. Its proven that the impressions you make with a good question or statement, your clothese, your hair, your body etc plays a larger role into whether you get the chance at a date than working solely on getting to know people on a personal level. Not saying your results aren’t real, just that they wouldn’t work for me. ---
**Author:** ![Miss\_Dragon](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/miss_dragon/32/866_2.png) [@Miss\_Dragon](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Miss_Dragon)\ **Post date:** [May 23, 2013, 9:37pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-advice-on-good-pre-dating-questions/59062/8 "2013-05-23T21:37:34Z")
I like those questions! They are fun, and they make me think about my perspectives of the world, and my values. It probes the way I think, rather than what I do. But what did questions 8-13 say? ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2013, 12:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-advice-on-good-pre-dating-questions/59062/9 "2013-05-24T00:59:12Z")
What country is she from? What language does she speak? How much do you know about Portugal? What do you have in common? It’s not what you wear, it’s that you haven’t enough diffusion time on your side. Take your sprays and cover the maximum skin area. Don’t put two mones on the same spot. Try to get some air flow across you neck and hands toward the target. FYI, experimentally, my diffuser takes 10 minutes for 5 mcg pure -eNone to diffuse to 125 cubic feet. Once I smell neroli, the mones hit. 75 and TAC both take about 5 minutes. She might not ever feel the AMMO. 75 and IO is better. With a waitress, AMMO is like building a campfire in a blizzard. With 75 and IO the mones cloud at your table will hit her with repeat table visits. She needs to sit with you for the AMMO to hit. ---
**Author:** ![dsouza](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/dsouza/32/840_2.png) [@dsouza](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/dsouza)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2013, 2:14am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-advice-on-good-pre-dating-questions/59062/10 "2013-05-24T02:14:20Z")
> [@monesmadedoit](#): > > What country is she from? What language does she speak? How much do you know about Portugal? What do you have in common? It’s not what you wear, it’s that you haven’t enough diffusion time on your side. Take your sprays and cover the maximum skin area. Don’t put two mones on the same spot. Try to get some air flow across you neck and hands toward the target. > > FYI, experimentally, my diffuser takes 10 minutes for 5 mcg pure -eNone to diffuse to 125 cubic feet. Once I smell neroli, the mones hit. 75 and TAC both take about 5 minutes. She might not ever feel the AMMO. 75 and IO is better. With a waitress, AMMO is like building a campfire in a blizzard. With 75 and IO the mones cloud at your table will hit her with repeat table visits. She needs to sit with you for the AMMO to hit. Done I have nothing to lose.. I’m going in with p75 and IO and nothing else.. I will use 6-8 sprays IO to 2.5 mcg p75. Let’s see what happens.. Last time I scored a date with a provincial model with just that combo. She will NOT sit at my table.. She is too busy.. I need repeat visits more often and to be in the moment to do some talking… I will try this out on Sunday.. And report back. It worked for me once.. Let’s see how she responds to it.. have nothing to lose but another opportunity to ask her out. ---
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [May 24, 2013, 11:19am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-advice-on-good-pre-dating-questions/59062/11 "2013-05-24T11:19:46Z")
> [@dsouza](#): > > Done I have nothing to lose.. I’m going in with p75 and IO and nothing else.. I will use 6-8 sprays IO to 2.5 mcg p75. Let’s see what happens.. Last time I scored a date with a provincial model with just that combo. She will NOT sit at my table.. She is too busy.. I need repeat visits more often and to be in the moment to do some talking… > > I will try this out on Sunday.. And report back. > > It worked for me once.. Let’s see how she responds to it.. have nothing to lose but another opportunity to ask her out. I would even cross the date concept out of your lexicon. Come up with any pretext to get her somewhere, even in public, with an hour of your time. Try bribery. People have a natural willingness to be helpful, especially women…sometimes to their detriment. You have decided you are now obsessed with the idea of of travel to Brazil or SW Europe or whatever the f\*ck. > **[The Invention of Lying](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Invention_of_Lying)** > > The Invention of Lying is a 2009 romantic fantasy comedy film written and directed by comedian Ricky Gervais and writer Matthew Robinson in their directorial debuts. The film stars Gervais as the first human with the ability to lie in a world where people can only tell the truth. The cast also includes Jennifer Garner, Jonah Hill, Louis C.K., Jeffrey Tambor, Fionnula Flanagan, Rob Lowe, Philip Seymour Hoffman and Tina Fey. The film premiered at the Toronto International Film Festival on Septembe... Make sh\*t up. Make it _seem_ innocent, platonic and that you **really** need only the help **she** can provide. “Portugese is so much harder than Spanish; can you teach me how to pronounce it?” Find out where she likes and what she likes and then pay for her to go there. It’s there that mones will have some real use. You’ll need to conduct recon. Does she drive? What’s her schedule? It helps to know in advance. You could even pay a guy employee at her job for some intel. Give him $20 for info with a promise “there’ll be more later if you keep your mouth shut.” Detectives pay for info all the time from sources. They also lie when it’s legal and suits the client’s case. [Chinatown (1974 film) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia](http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chinatown_%281974_film%29) Take a one-hour crash course in NLP and read everything by Robert Greene. You must already know in advance what she’ll say yes to. “Let’s go to \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ on \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_.” “I’m paying.” If she says know, change the time or place. Ask her again in a month. Then again. Does an alpha male really ever take “no” for an answer? The non-sociopath ones read language cues and back off when the goal is unattainable. Then, here’s some facts about **real** Alphas that will move you and shake you: Some of them are both wicked and highly effective. Their fearless, **pathological** lack of concern for consequences means they will often say or do anything to get what they want. They get **sex** often (but usually don’t get true happiness), because they will push the line as far as they can without jail to break down the target’s resistance. Most people have no real defense to this. However, this scheme can only last so long, and such a person will make a poor husband/father. And so you see on your syndicated trash TV the never-ending “Who’s your daddy DNA test” and the cuckoldry. The manipulative bad boy who dupes the innocent girl and the innocent girl who dupes the cuckold to pay the kid bills that **Alpha** could care less about. That’s the real, ugly world. Miserable is the **elderly** , financially failed Alpha, because, without $, what he has to sell the young women no longer want. These erstwhile Alphas self destruct. On the other hand, Hugh Hefner’s got a bit of game left in him. Without money, he’d be a nobody in a retirement home.