# any ideas for me? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 13, 2009, 1:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-ideas-for-me/30645 "2009-07-13T01:10:11Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 10\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![bootyman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bootyman/32/849_2.png) [@bootyman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bootyman)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2009, 1:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-ideas-for-me/30645/1 "2009-07-13T01:10:11Z")
Hey guys whatsup…so im a little confused. im a new user and im tryin to figure out what to get for a first time, and i want to make it good, cause if [pheromones](https://a314.com/) don’t work for me, i might not re-invest seeing as they are fairly expensive and im usually pretty short on cash haha..so to give a re-rundown: im an 18 year old in highschool. im pretty laid back, play soccer, and love to hang out with my pals..especially the girls! im not always the most confident guy, so some pheromone courage would be pretty sweet! i guess sometimes im too laid back(or shy) and i dont always get the attention i want from my pals. once someone talks to me, it fairly easy to talk, its just getting them to. so those are my problems im wanting to fix with pheromones…and from what i’ve read the solutions are achievable..but i also dont want to give myself too high expectations so that i dont get disappointed-haha. so im really really likin the idea of A314 which gives off the alpha, hott, respect deserving aura. im mean, i’d love that one, but according to **The Snook’s big book o’ pheros for rookies,** stuff like ammo and A314 are not great products for the average highschooler, so he suggests instant shine, come talk to me mix 2, and instant female magic(more of the social stuff), which do sound great, but will i be able to achieve that alpha aura that sounds so great in A314?..will it work on girls who are juniors and seniors in high school? thats my big delima. Any advice would rock!.. im just looking for a little beginners guidance i guess. thanks, -bootyman ---
**Author:** ![HABIB001](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/habib001/32/2159_2.png) [@HABIB001](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HABIB001)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2009, 2:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-ideas-for-me/30645/2 "2009-07-13T02:28:23Z")
confidence first comes from within you, theres no magic wand that will make you confident in 1 minute. You play soccer, you got to practice, confidence comes from practice, lack of confidence comes form fear, fear of failure fear of embarressment, fear of rejection fear leads to hate, hate leads to the dark side.. General Bee at the battle of bull run said “theres jackson standing like a stonewall, let us DERTERMINE TO DIE HERE TODAY AND WE WILL BE VICTORIOUS” so be determined to accept rejectin, failure, embarressment, cos there aint no person in the world who never made a mistake, and the intelligent ones learn fron those mistakes and improve the next time. A314 is considered to improve the idea of respect for the wearer, but only if they are standing close enough to you, confidence must be displayed in body language and in attitude so work on those as well. ---
**Author:** ![pheroman3000](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/eb9ed0/32.png) [@pheroman3000](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheroman3000)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2009, 3:43am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-ideas-for-me/30645/3 "2009-07-13T03:43:21Z")
hey man im pretty much like you laid back and mistaken by shy but since i got some hot female friends i dont consider myself shy…going back to high school too and i want the females to notice me differently…i was thinkin about usin a li bit of Ammo and [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) first day of school ---
**Author:** ![bootyman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bootyman/32/849_2.png) [@bootyman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bootyman)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2009, 5:28am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-ideas-for-me/30645/4 "2009-07-13T05:28:02Z")
> [@pheroman3000](#): > > hey man im pretty much like you laid back and mistaken by shy but since i got some hot female friends i dont consider myself shy…going back to high school too and i want the females to notice me differently…i was thinkin about usin a li bit of Ammo and Instant Honesty first day of school thanks! do you have experience with those, cause if so i’d love to hear about it…just tryin to get as much info as possible ---
**Author:** ![bootyman](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bootyman/32/849_2.png) [@bootyman](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bootyman)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2009, 5:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-ideas-for-me/30645/5 "2009-07-13T05:30:21Z")
> [@HABIB001](#): > > confidence first comes from within you, theres no magic wand that will make you confident in 1 minute. > > You play soccer, you got to practice, confidence comes from practice, lack of confidence comes form fear, > > fear of failure > fear of embarressment, > fear of rejection > > fear leads to hate, hate leads to the dark side.. > > General Bee at the battle of bull run said > > “theres jackson standing like a stonewall, let us DERTERMINE TO DIE HERE TODAY AND WE WILL BE VICTORIOUS” > > so be determined to accept rejectin, failure, embarressment, cos there aint no person in the world who never made a mistake, and the intelligent ones learn fron those mistakes and improve the next time. > > A314 is considered to improve the idea of respect for the wearer, but only if they are standing close enough to you, confidence must be displayed in body language and in attitude so work on those as well. okay, thanks man..its not a big deal.. i just thought a314 would help a little…im really tryin to get an idea of the products. ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2009, 10:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-ideas-for-me/30645/6 "2009-07-13T10:08:36Z")
A314 is helpful for confidence for some people, and not for others. So is a nice dollop of androstenone. If you want to see some serious masculine confidence infuence from pheromones alone, try wearing 4 drops A314 and 4 sprays of TUTH 1x. That is a major masculine magnifier! If you can handle that much androstenone. But A314 buffers it well. As for the people around you… that much power might scare them off. lol I notice a lot of proactive respect, compliance and submission when I wear that mix. If you’re in high school, it will almost definitely be too much for you. Social confidence comes from IO at 2-4 sprays, and it’s very good for high school age girls. I think you’ll find that something like 1 spray of ammunition and 2 sprays each of Instant Shine and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) serve you much better for that setting. That said… genuine confidence does not come from pheromones. You must change your beliefs for that. ---
**Author:** ![pheroman3000](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/eb9ed0/32.png) [@pheroman3000](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/pheroman3000)\ **Post date:** [July 13, 2009, 6:54pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-ideas-for-me/30645/7 "2009-07-13T18:54:00Z")
Ive had experience with 2-3 sprays Ammo mixed with 1 spray [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/). I dont wear them every day because i dont really need them I only wear them at the mall or places with allot of girls. But in school i have plan on using 2 sprays or less of ammo and Honesty because since we sit there for a long time i dont want to overwhelm girls with the smell. ---
**Author:** ![DaveB78](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/d/bb73d2/32.png) [@DaveB78](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/DaveB78)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2009, 3:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-ideas-for-me/30645/8 "2009-07-14T03:18:19Z")
I think changing your screen name might be a good idea…I almost didn’t read this thread because of it. YMMV ---
**Author:** ![sigma](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/s/dec6dc/32.png) [@sigma](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sigma)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2009, 4:03am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-ideas-for-me/30645/9 "2009-07-14T04:03:51Z")
Whether or not A314 is perceived as ‘attractive’ depends highly on what your targets deem as attractive characteristics…you should align the pheromones you wear to match the qualities your targets would find attractive. What a high school female deems as attractive is very different from what an adult woman would find attractive. Younger females are drawn to more upbeat, dare I say ‘immature’ characteristics. I wouldn’t recommend A314 for anyone in high school. A314 does give you a greater sense of respect and authority, but it also projects a very serious vibe as well. A314 has been called James Bond in a bottle because of the sort of socially in control, suave, characteristics it projects. It projects confidence, but in a sort laid back sort of way that I suspect few high school females would find attractive. High school women would be drawn to something that is more along the lines of ‘steve stifler in a bottle’ (Ammo + Shine) ---
**Author:** ![evolver](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/evolver/32/1896_2.png) [@evolver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/evolver)\ **Post date:** [July 14, 2009, 4:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-ideas-for-me/30645/10 "2009-07-14T04:05:59Z")
The man likes booty! Can you blame him? It wiggles and jiggles and causing giggles. I recommend starting with Ammo, Openness, Honesty, [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/) (instead of A314) and keepin it REAL. These will all keep the booty where it belongs: in your lap. oh yeah, and FOR SURE shine, because of the smiles and good vibes