# Any other 40-something women here? **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [December 28, 2006, 6:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-other-40-something-women-here/1300 "2006-12-28T06:50:44Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 5\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![Kashana](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/a6a055/32.png) [@Kashana](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kashana)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2006, 6:50am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-other-40-something-women-here/1300/1 "2006-12-28T06:50:44Z")
I’m 43 and a single mom of a 3-year old boy. After two years of waiting while I’ve become legally unattached to an abusive husband, it will soon be time to surprise my long-distance beau with a visit. Here’s the problem: we tried that once a number of months ago and he totally froze – as in totally panicked and could barely speak to me much less be romantic. I want to use whatever [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) will help him relax and not focus on feeling pressured. Kashana P.S. I realize our instructions are to post an introduction here, but would it be more appropriate for me to go over to the women’s section? ---
**Author:** ![BlazingAzn88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/49beb7/32.png) [@BlazingAzn88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/BlazingAzn88)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2006, 7:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-other-40-something-women-here/1300/2 "2006-12-28T07:33:41Z")
Well i may not be a 40 something woman, but looking at the information you have given me, i would recommend a few products. Kashana, you said he froze on you, like he didnt open up to you and you also want him to be romantic? Ok, well lets see. With the products that I know, i would recommend Instant Shine, [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), and Instant Honesty. The Instant Shine would make you look radiant and make both of you feel good. Feeling good is the first step at having a healthy communication. Instant Openness would allow conversation to spark whereas Instant Honesty will give that conversation some depth. Maybe the women can help with the other Pheromones that would assist in the romantic aspect, as I have no experience with that XD. Well Welcome to the forums. Ask around, look around, were abundant with information and we’re more than happy to help you. ---
**Author:** ![Carrie](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/carrie/32/1537_2.png) [@Carrie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Carrie)\ **Post date:** [December 28, 2006, 2:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-other-40-something-women-here/1300/3 "2006-12-28T14:03:24Z")
Hi Kashana, I’m in my 40s too. I agree with BlazingAzn88’s recommendations - all 3 of them, and [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) especially. I haven’t tried Spaceland, but I wonder if someone who has could comment on whether that might be ultrarelaxing as well. Good luck with your beau! ---
**Author:** ![Jasmin](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/jasmin/32/287_2.png) [@Jasmin](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Jasmin)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2006, 5:19pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-other-40-something-women-here/1300/4 "2006-12-29T17:19:00Z")
Hi there, Kashana, and welcome to the forum! 🙂 I’m happy for you; you sound like such a go-get’em kind of lady. [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) is indeed a great relaxer. I agree with Blazing and Carrie 100%. You might also want to look into Lust After Me or Molecule H (TAH). Your gift certificate has been sent. 🙂 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![Kashana](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/k/a6a055/32.png) [@Kashana](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kashana)\ **Post date:** [December 29, 2006, 8:57pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/any-other-40-something-women-here/1300/5 "2006-12-29T20:57:32Z")
Thank you ladies! I’ve ordered. I’m taking this conversation over to the Ladies Forum, should anyone be interested in following. Kashana