# Anyone getting hits from family members? **URL:** \ **Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [November 28, 2008, 3:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341 "2008-11-28T03:21:13Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 20\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2008, 3:21am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/1 "2008-11-28T03:21:13Z")
I have been noticing that I always get interesting hits from family members. Sometimes, it’s respect hits… like today I got a lot of that from two family members who normally aren’t very respectful… and sometimes, it’s surprisingly sexual. I have had responses from a number of women in my family that were like that over the years. (Fortunately, none blood related. lol) I have to laugh when female cousins and aunts start responding to me in ways they can’t figure out, and start resisting their own responses because it freaks them out to think of me like that. “Oh my _gawd_, he’s _family!_ What am I _doing?!_” Quite amusing indeed to watch. Even funnier when the ex girlfriend was present and watching this with amazement, too. 😃 I’m a cruel bastard, I know. Anyone else getting family hits? Let’s hear about it. ---
**Author:** ![Gegogi](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/gegogi/32/1536_2.png) [@Gegogi](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Gegogi)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2008, 5:27am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/2 "2008-11-28T05:27:50Z")
Well, I had a drunk cousin come on to me at wedding, but no immediate family thank God. She sat on my lap and stuck her tongue down my throat in front of family, GF and God. The odd thing, once I managed to pry her off me and disentangle by tonsils, nobody seemed to care other than my GF. The next day old cuzz pretended like nothing happened. I was 4 or 5 years back but I think I was wearing TE and SOE. ---
**Author:** ![mikotorocks714](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mikotorocks714/32/1509_2.png) [@mikotorocks714](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mikotorocks714)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2008, 11:59am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/3 "2008-11-28T11:59:34Z")
WTF? LMAO. Damn, catlord you sure do have your [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/) mixes/combos down to a tee. ---
**Author:** ![mahalo\_silver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8dc957/32.png) [@mahalo\_silver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mahalo_silver)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2008, 1:22pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/4 "2008-11-28T13:22:18Z")
Catlord!!! nice to see u return to the forums buddy! its been ages! lots of old timers arent around much - good to have u back on board! ---
**Author:** ![Siren](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/siren/32/2186_2.png) [@Siren](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Siren)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2008, 3:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/5 "2008-11-28T15:44:25Z")
Yep. I got a hit (fortunately not sexual..LOL) from my sister in law’s mother. We are about the same age but she looks old enough to be my mom. Every time we meet in social situations she gets a bit catty and pushy with me. Yesterday for Thanksgiving dinner I was wearing 5 sprays of [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/), 3 sprays of MX235, and 5 sprays of MX274 and this lady was sooo nice to me. She even said good bye to me before she left (that’s a first). It was fun to watch!😃 On the other hand what I was wearing made my sister in law irritable and a bit aloof with me, but super demonstrative with my brother (being super flirty and making out with my brother in front of me and her children, yuk get a room!). She never does this so that’s a first. You never know how pheromone mixes will hit people…LOL ---
**Author:** ![ps86651](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/ps86651/32/206_2.png) [@ps86651](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ps86651)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2008, 3:58pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/6 "2008-11-28T15:58:51Z")
Yes, I certainly receive them too! It’s quite funny, but the other day it caused a bit of a problem with my cousin, whose wife found herself flirting and touching me. I had a spray of [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/), a drop of A314, 4 sprays of P74 and Chanel Antaeus cologne on. I had just come off duty and was heading home, my family was in town and I was excited to see them. My cousin’s wife is relatively quiet and subdued, but she is so damn pretty and way out of his league (of course, I’m looking at this as objectively as I can!)…anyways I arrived home and there everyone was. I greeted people in turn, my cousin as always was very excited to see me. As I sat down next to his wife, for the first time in all the times I’ve met her before, she had a glint in her eye. I can’t explain it, but I’m sure you guys and girls know what I mean. As we were sitting, I noticed her getting fidgety and she started becoming hot. I could tell that she was being affected and this was starting to make me uncomfortable too, so I excused myself to the kitchen and made both my cousin and myself a drink. As I was doing so, she came in and out of the blue, hugged me and then stroked my arm…saying that she always dreamed of being with a guy like me and how her husband (my cousin) was a waste of time. This was totally unacceptable to me - blood is way thicker than water and family is family…so I told her to knock it off and get back into the living room. Seconds later my cousin comes in and saw me with her on my back. He helps me put the drinks together. He says he doesn’t like it when I ‘get that close’ to his wife - I never instigated any of this! I obviously didn’t want to tell him what just happened, but I felt bad but at the same time… So, a hit for sure, but a particularly sad one for me. ---
**Author:** ![ttjeda](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/c5a1d2/32.png) [@ttjeda](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/ttjeda)\ **Post date:** [November 28, 2008, 6:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/7 "2008-11-28T18:02:39Z")
I have a sister that has been extremely stressful lately and I noticed whenever I have a product on (not from Androtics, but does contain Androstadienone) she calms down ten noches. Also, [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) works wonders on my one year old nephew. I either get bitched at from my sister, or a loud baby session from my nephew. Not any more!! 🙂 ---
**Author:** ![catlord17](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/c/f9ae1b/32.png) [@catlord17](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/catlord17)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 3:47am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/8 "2008-11-29T03:47:33Z")
I think family is the best way to see hits, really. You typically know how they act so well that anything out of the ordinary is pretty obvious. ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [November 29, 2008, 9:26am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/9 "2008-11-29T09:26:53Z")
I wouldnt call them hits but I do see behavoir changes in them. Nothing really directed at me though probably because they have pre conceived notions and conditioned responses to me. Mostly more talkativeness and bonding from them, Ishine can perk them all up a bit. I get more attention then normal but its just general attention. But I can defiantly see it. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![mahalo\_silver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8dc957/32.png) [@mahalo\_silver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mahalo_silver)\ **Post date:** [December 1, 2008, 10:39am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/10 "2008-12-01T10:39:12Z")
guys this topic is a bit weird and a bit freaky aint it??? im not gonna even be wearing nothin’ around family members, y would i want to? too risky…and theyll filter it out anyway ---
**Author:** ![tisha23](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/53a042/32.png) [@tisha23](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tisha23)\ **Post date:** [December 1, 2008, 10:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/11 "2008-12-01T10:45:39Z")
> [@](#): > > guys this topic is a bit weird and a bit freaky aint it??? im not gonna even be wearing nothin’ around family members, y would i want to? too risky…and theyll filter it out anyway Why is it weird ? Family members still react to mones, they will filter any sexual response out but mones do more then cause a sexual response. I dont see it as risky at all. I wear copulins around my family (2 brothers) all the time and they dont bat a eye over it. They get protective though. But products like Ishine IH IO ect ect work great on them. Tisha ---
**Author:** ![denec](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/denec/32/1730_2.png) [@denec](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/denec)\ **Post date:** [December 1, 2008, 4:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/12 "2008-12-01T16:20:30Z")
I don’t wear pheros around family members…only when going out and to work so really cannot say plus i only use pheros to get laid, so i think it kind of sick to even think about using them around family members , and they are expensive so why waste them on family members? lol ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [December 1, 2008, 5:39pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/13 "2008-12-01T17:39:35Z")
Okay, here’s a non-sexual hit for you guys. I gave my friend a togo of IH before dropping him off at home. He wore 2 sprays. The next day, when I was picking him up, he immediately mentions the IH and how his mom actually started talking to him as a peer. Somehow the IH helped her feel like my friend and her finally had a connection and she apparently had some stuff she wanted to get off her shoulders. He was shocked, this guy has a pretty bad relationship with his mom. Technically, they aren’t blood relatives because he was adopted, but it’s still family as far as mindsets go. They still raised him. ---
**Author:** ![Junior\_the\_Third](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/91b2a8/32.png) [@Junior\_the\_Third](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Junior_the_Third)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2008, 6:45pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/14 "2008-12-02T18:45:22Z")
> [@catlord17](#): > > like today I got a lot of that from two family members who normally aren’t very respectful… and sometimes, it’s surprisingly sexual. Hi pal. I don’t mean to sound harsh, but it is one thing to talk about RESPECT hits from a family member (which is perfectly fine), but when you and other posters start talking about sexual hits from family member that is just plain disgusting. Like that poster who said his cousin stuck her tongue down his throat at a wedding? ARE U SERIOUS??? OMG!!! That turned my stomach. I seriously question what kind of a human being someone is when they sexually hit on a familiy member. That is just a line that should never be crossed. Respects hits from familiy member? Yeah great!!! But sexual hits from a familiy member? That is just plain sick!!! Peace ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2008, 7:07pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/15 "2008-12-02T19:07:23Z")
> [@Junior\_the\_Third](#): > > Hi pal. > > I don’t mean to sound harsh, but it is one thing to talk about RESPECT hits from a family member (which is perfectly fine), but when you and other posters start talking about sexual hits from family member that is just plain disgusting. Like that poster who said his cousin stuck her tongue down his throat at a wedding? ARE U SERIOUS??? OMG!!! That turned my stomach. I seriously question what kind of a human being someone is when they sexually hit on a familiy member. That is just a line that should never be crossed. > > Respects hits from familiy member? Yeah great!!! But sexual hits from a familiy member? That is just plain sick!!! > > Peace That sexual interest isn’t something that is going to be acted upon, or appreciated in any way. We’re here to test things and any reactions should be reported whether they’re friendly, sexual, aggressive, or whatever. That’s all it’s about. ---
**Author:** ![Junior\_the\_Third](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/91b2a8/32.png) [@Junior\_the\_Third](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Junior_the_Third)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2008, 11:51pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/16 "2008-12-02T23:51:54Z")
> [@Phya](#): > > That sexual interest isn’t something that is going to be acted upon, or appreciated in any way. That is exactly the point!!! Whether the sexual interest is acted upon is besides the point i was trying to make. There MERE FACT that they have expressed a sexual interest in a family member is just plain disgusting and I personally would instantly lose all respect for a family member if I found out they had these kind of feelings for a family member. Some people actually have these thoughts for people in their own family? Incredible!!! Peace ---
**Author:** ![Junior\_the\_Third](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/91b2a8/32.png) [@Junior\_the\_Third](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Junior_the_Third)\ **Post date:** [December 2, 2008, 11:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/17 "2008-12-02T23:55:38Z")
> [@mahalo\_silver](#): > > guys this topic is a bit weird and a bit freaky aint it??? im not gonna even be wearing nothin’ around family members, y would i want to? too risky…and theyll filter it out anyway Is this the only man on these boards who shares the same opinion as me? I really can’t believe some people actually sexually hit on family members!!! THIS IS SICK!!! ---
**Author:** ![Phya](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/94ad74/32.png) [@Phya](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Phya)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2008, 12:33am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/18 "2008-12-03T00:33:09Z")
> [@Junior\_the\_Third](#): > > That is exactly the point!!! Whether the sexual interest is acted upon is besides the point i was trying to make. There MERE FACT that they have expressed a sexual interest in a family member is just plain disgusting and I personally would instantly lose all respect for a family member if I found out they had these kind of feelings for a family member. Some people actually have these thoughts for people in their own family? Incredible!!! > > Peace Social restrictions do not trump biological functions. It’s often said (mostly among PUAs) that attraction is not a choice. There are many things that are not choice, but what we do have control of is our actions. I do not fault someone for being attracted to a relative. I do fault someone for acting on that attraction. We see attractive people everyday, and most guys, if it weren’t for social restrictions would probably try and have sex right then and there. But society is a factor, and thus guys will go through the necessary courtship rituals instead. It’s the same thing, except here, there is no socially acceptable process by which those feelings of attraction can be shared. It’s our rational mind, and therefore, our social upbringing that dictates that family members expressing sexual interest is repulsive to you. If left to natural devices, or if they family members were somehow separated at birth, or it is otherwise unknown to them that they are family and the proper behavioral sets that accompanies that knowledge, it is entirely possible that those two people might find each other attractive and pursue sexual relations. Somewhere out there is a relative of Pamela Anderson, and if they did not have knowledge of her being their relative, would most likely drool over her videos and pictures like every other male youth has at one point. Hell, they probably saw a hot woman before they realized it was their auntie or niece. Either way, as stated before, whether the results are favorable or not, we want to see reports. I think it is clear to everyone that sexual responses from family members are not favorable, and that reports of such behavior does not imply appreciation of said behavior. > [@mahalo\_silver](#): > > guys this topic is a bit weird and a bit freaky aint it??? im not gonna even be wearing nothin’ around family members, y would i want to? too risky… As a bit of an aside, I think people who are immediately repulsed by the idea of using [pheromones](https://a314.com/) around family have limited perceptions of what pheromones can be used for, and to a degree, is reflective of their intent regarding pheromone usage. This is to say that some of the users on the forum clearly have sexual expectations regarding pheromones, and thus, would be repulsed at the thought of bringing the pheromone world and the family world together. Of course, it goes without saying, there is nothing wrong with such perceptions, but it is limited. Personally, I use pheromones around my mom when the chance permits. I used pheromones at a cousin’s wedding. Contrary to what you might believe, my reasons for wearing pheromones had no basis in sexual desire. I use pheromones to improve my relationship with my mom, IFM and IS goes a long way towards improving her mood. When she is happier, it makes it less stressful for me, and thus, our relationship does not suffer unnecessary stress. At the wedding, I wore IG, p74, IS with the strict intention of making the best impression I could make, to make sure that I represented my direct family as best as I could, despite having been raised in America. It was probably the last time my extended family would be meeting in a long time, perhaps ever. It was definitely one of the last times that I would be able to fly to Korea for such an occasion. Those are just two examples of how pheromones can be useful around family. ---
**Author:** ![Junior\_the\_Third](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/j/91b2a8/32.png) [@Junior\_the\_Third](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Junior_the_Third)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2008, 6:00am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/19 "2008-12-03T06:00:08Z")
> [@Phya](#): > > and most guys, if it weren’t for social restrictions would probably try and have sex right then and there. But society is a factor, and thus guys will go through the necessary courtship rituals instead. It’s the same thing, except here, there is no socially acceptable process by which those feelings of attraction can be shared. Really? MOST guys are like that? REALLY??? That is interesting to me because i must fall into the category of not being like MOST guys. That other intelligent dude who posted in here and shares my opinion on this topic must not be like MOST guys either. I am absolutely falling out of my chair reading that some people have sexual attractions to family members. This sort of thing is just plain wrong and disgusting, no matter what you or anyone else says on the matter. Peace ---
**Author:** ![Robbie](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/2acd7d/32.png) [@Robbie](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Robbie)\ **Post date:** [December 3, 2008, 6:25am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341/20 "2008-12-03T06:25:05Z")
> [@Junior\_the\_Third](#): > > I am absolutely falling out of my chair reading that some people have sexual attractions to family members. This sort of thing is just plain wrong and disgusting, no matter what you or anyone else says on the matter. Jebus! Then I better not talk about that time I was wearing 4 blasts of 2x TUTH and Grandma took me out to the woodshed. Made a _fantastic_ letter to Penthouse, though… [Next page](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anyone-getting-hits-from-family-members/23341.md?page=2)