# Anything for a\*\*hole ex-s? **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [July 11, 2008, 1:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anything-for-a-hole-ex-s/15306 "2008-07-11T01:44:07Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 16\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![MyDogDaisy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mydogdaisy/32/2174_2.png) [@MyDogDaisy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MyDogDaisy)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 1:44am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anything-for-a-hole-ex-s/15306/1 "2008-07-11T01:44:07Z")
Make them go away, shut their holes, anything like that? šŸ˜  I think my next purchase will be [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) though, so that should help with my mood after a nasty convo like today. This doesnā€™t have to be used during ā€œthat timeā€ does it? Can I just use it on a daily basis or as needed? Also, when you use the customization thingy (adding cops and scents), is the neroli scent used stronger than what it normally is? How about coconut, is that a really strong suntan oil smell? ---
**Author:** ![Kimmie\_D](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/kimmie_d/32/1185_2.png) [@Kimmie\_D](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Kimmie_D)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 5:12am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anything-for-a-hole-ex-s/15306/2 "2008-07-11T05:12:07Z")
I wish! I have [Instant Female Magic](https://a314.com/product/instant-female-magic/) ( for Women ) & it does relax you & you can use it any & every day, it doesnā€™t matter. Not to tell you what to do or anything but, I wouldnā€™t add the cops to the Instant Female Magic only because if you are going to be spraying it a lot to relax yourself and then are at work or a family function you might not want the cops in it, as they garner a very sexual response. But, itā€™s up to you & I am no expert. In the right setting that combo would be a good thing but, if you got it in another product you could just combine them or use them seperately. I wanted the 20X cops so, I ordered them as the customization to Instant Shine because I figured you canā€™t go wrong if you keep adding more and more because it would just make me & whoever feel in a great mood! I donā€™t know about cocanut but, chocotini is stronger than neroli so, would cover cops better. It is not too strong. I like it, I think it smells like choclate covered cherries & almonds. I love it! well, those are my suggestions but, I would ask Tisha or maybe more experienced people will write in. Good Luck!šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 5:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anything-for-a-hole-ex-s/15306/3 "2008-07-11T05:15:15Z")
> [@MyDogDaisy](#): > > Make them go away, shut their holes, anything like that? šŸ˜  I am not sure but A314 with [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) will let them know that No, means No. If not a big guy named Sphen, Bruce, Bubba. to splain it to him. If telling him no doesnā€™t work, a restraining order will help. If he is beating on your door trying to get you to open, call the cops. Say he is threatening your life and you fear for your safety. The trick is to let him know he has no chance in hell of winning you back over, and that his actions trying to win you back are actually driving you further away. yes, I have dealt with my stalkers in my day. My sister attracts looser guys, and we have to help her out, but after 4 I am getting tired of it. Best of luck to you > [@MyDogDaisy](#): > > I think my next purchase will be Instant Female Magic though, so that should help with my mood after a nasty convo like today. > This doesnā€™t have to be used during ā€œthat timeā€ does it? Can I just use it on a daily basis or as needed? I believe IFM is good anytime your spirits need lifted and you need help calming down or relaxing. ---
**Author:** ![MyDogDaisy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mydogdaisy/32/2174_2.png) [@MyDogDaisy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MyDogDaisy)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 6:15am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anything-for-a-hole-ex-s/15306/4 "2008-07-11T06:15:40Z")
Thanks Kimmie and Woofie! I have calmed down a bit but I am still thinking a guy named Bubba might help tremendously! šŸ˜‰ I wasnā€™t planning on adding any cops but thanks for pointing out the inappropriate family situation Kimmie, I actually never thought of that! That would be a tough one to explain to my old grandpa! :o ---
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 9:23am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anything-for-a-hole-ex-s/15306/5 "2008-07-11T09:23:38Z")
The best response to a guy who pursues you relentlessly is to ignore them, cut contact (or cut it down as much as possible) and let them know, in no uncertain terms, that itā€™s O.V.E.R. If heā€™s just pestering you to annoy you, a restraining order and carrying pepper spray will help you feel safer. Of course, Bubba telling him to leave you well alone would work as well! šŸ˜‰ ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 3:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anything-for-a-hole-ex-s/15306/6 "2008-07-11T15:20:48Z")
> [@MyDogDaisy](#): > > Make them go away, shut their holes, anything like that? There is one [pheromone](https://pheromonelabs.com/) that works - called pepperspray - but they donā€™t sell it here - lol. Of course if the IS/a attracts a bigger and better model boyfriend - a little 'none (his) may well do the trick too. ---
**Author:** ![Takhisis](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/3d9bf3/32.png) [@Takhisis](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Takhisis)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 3:21pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anything-for-a-hole-ex-s/15306/7 "2008-07-11T15:21:32Z")
Pepper spray him and heā€™ll definitely moan šŸ˜ƒ ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 3:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anything-for-a-hole-ex-s/15306/8 "2008-07-11T15:55:15Z")
LOL! omg pepperspray will actually make him cry down his knees LOL! (my friend used it once to defend herself from a thief, and he was literally screaming for help, banging the walls! I really tried hard to not laugh!) But yea, after peppersprayingā€¦heā€™ll _never_ come back again! ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 4:20pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anything-for-a-hole-ex-s/15306/9 "2008-07-11T16:20:15Z")
> [@bosshank](#): > > There is one pheromone that works - called pepperspray - but they donā€™t sell it here - lol. šŸ˜® nice, I forgot about that oneā€¦ ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 4:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anything-for-a-hole-ex-s/15306/10 "2008-07-11T16:24:53Z")
> [@bosshank](#): > > There is one pheromone that works - called pepperspray - but they donā€™t sell it here - lol. > [@woofie2](#): > > šŸ˜® > > nice, I forgot about that oneā€¦ LOL - thatā€™s me - Mr. Nice Guy.šŸ˜® šŸ˜ƒ Seriously - I got my wife a _can_ of the stuff when I was away a lot working. ---
**Author:** ![Wolfy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/wolfy/32/965_2.png) [@Wolfy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Wolfy)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 4:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anything-for-a-hole-ex-s/15306/11 "2008-07-11T16:52:41Z")
> [@bosshank](#): > > Seriously - I got my wife a _can_ of the stuff when I was away a lot working. I use it for pizza topping, I love it. (Yes, I am talking about the mace spray.) ---
**Author:** ![mockingbird](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mockingbird/32/1790_2.png) [@mockingbird](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mockingbird)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 5:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anything-for-a-hole-ex-s/15306/12 "2008-07-11T17:44:47Z")
[quote=ā€œbosshank, post:6, topic:15306ā€] There is one pheromone that works - called pepperspray - but they donā€™t sell it here - lol. quote] Haha, lol! I think ifm would depression them pretty badly if you wear alot, then they will associate u with depression and wont come back again šŸ™‚ ---
**Author:** ![msselva](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/msselva/32/943_2.png) [@msselva](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/msselva)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 5:50pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anything-for-a-hole-ex-s/15306/13 "2008-07-11T17:50:14Z")
> [@woofie2](#): > > I use it for pizza topping, I love it. (Yes, I am talking about the mace spray.) šŸ˜® Are you serious?! LOL ---
**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 7:33pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anything-for-a-hole-ex-s/15306/14 "2008-07-11T19:33:13Z")
Or you can just get a Stun Gun and put the guy through hell, like what happened to the guy in TiggerBearā€™s thread here: [Gaawwddd.... the visual I got from this almost made me pee my pants... PRICELESS!!](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/gaawwddd-the-visual-i-got-from-this-almost-made-me-pee-my-pants-priceless/14943) ---
**Author:** ![inkling](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/inkling/32/2326_2.png) [@inkling](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/inkling)\ **Post date:** [July 11, 2008, 8:24pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anything-for-a-hole-ex-s/15306/15 "2008-07-11T20:24:02Z")
I wish I could get a stun gun, theyā€™re illegal here. If your ex is refusing your requests to be left alone, ignore, ignore, and ignore. Donā€™t respond at all after youā€™ve made it clear you donā€™t wish to have any more contact. Document any time he does make contact just in case you do have to take further action. And lastly, donā€™t waste any [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/) on a jerk. šŸ˜‰ ---
**Author:** ![MyDogDaisy](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mydogdaisy/32/2174_2.png) [@MyDogDaisy](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MyDogDaisy)\ **Post date:** [July 12, 2008, 2:02am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/anything-for-a-hole-ex-s/15306/16 "2008-07-12T02:02:36Z")
> [@inkling](#): > > I wish I could get a stun gun, theyā€™re illegal here. > > If your ex is refusing your requests to be left alone, ignore, ignore, and ignore. Donā€™t respond at all after youā€™ve made it clear you donā€™t wish to have any more contact. Document any time he does make contact just in case you do have to take further action. **And lastly, donā€™t waste any pheromones on a jerk.** šŸ˜‰ There we go! šŸ˜ƒ Thanks for all the advice everyone! Iā€™m just not going to answer his calls anymore, I donā€™t have to take that shit from him!