I am seeing a male Asian attorney on Monday, and am hoping he will help me. From things his secretary said, he sounds like he might be a bit snooty.
Any ideas on how to appeal to this guy would be welcomed!
I’ve dated a number of asian men and grew up around them, and I get the feeling they would prefer IS/A over IS/B.
Asian men overall tend to value smart, strong women.
I’ve also dated lawyers, and am law school myself. Male lawyers are often aggressive, confident alpha-types to prefer the same.
My boyfriend is a lawyer who has a bit of a beta exterior, but is truly an alpha underneath, and he responded horribly to IS/B.
He basically lost his temper with me over and over while I wore IS/B, but he is gentle, caring and respectful when I wear IS/A.
My boyfriend who is Caucasian (but he grew up around Asians, and acts very Asian), responds best when I wear IS/A and Instant Honesty. It makes him open up to me, trust me, and respect me.
Wow, thanks for letting me know!!
And I was seriously considering going the IS/b-TAH route, too! I have a pretty good collection of pheros amassing now, so any good recipes, I may very well be able to make 
What about other things, like EST, a-nol, b-nol, A314, putatives and/or cops?
Of those you listed, i only have experience with a- Androstenol , b- Androstenol, and cops. a- Androstenol , b- Androstenol I’ve only tested in Instant Honesty and Instant Openness. Cops I’ve used in EOW and Blatant Invitation.
I found that when I used Instant Honesty + EOW + IS/A, my lawyer boyfriend responds well = he can’t keep his hands off me, is open and honest about everything we discuss, and treats me incredibly well.
I found that Instant Openness does not affect my boyfriend as well as IH. Maybe it’s because he’s constantly concerned with what he can discuss/what he can’t discuss (what’s privileged or confidential) during the workday, and IH just lets him let go of that filtering process and just open up to me?
When I wear cops with IH + IS/A it makes him very sexual too.
In general, most lawyers I meet (especially the snooty ones), consider themselves competent and alpha. Portraying yourself as someone who is similar will probably make them respect you.
So basically, that would be TAL + betanol. Interesting.
Now that I think of it, there was one time when I went to see a couple of different attorneys to try to get help on a construction-related case I needed help with. Both were male, one was Japanese, the other was Caucasian.
Both appointments, I wore TAH + betanol + EST and I forget what else, maybe some p86.
The Japanese one was friendly and seemed as though he might take my case, but then contacted me to say that he would not, which I thought was odd. The Caucasian attorney, however, responded much more favorably, with an invitation to gather the required documents and return for a second free initial evaluation/appointment.
I wish I was in school at the moment to test my phero mixes on a bunch of lawyer-types for you. =)
I think that it’s not uncommon for Asians (especially more traditional types) to act more soft-spoken and have a softer, more beta exterior, while being more alpha and critical underneath.
My boyfriend is exactly this way, and I have to use pheromones that appeal to his true alpha/confident self (IS/A).
Perhaps the Japanese lawyer is like this also?
Yes, he probably is, which might be why he chose not to take my case, although he appeared interested during the meeting.
Uhh … what is acting Asian exactly? I have heard of acting white, acting black or acting hispanic but not acting Asian. 
Okay, I’m a snooty Asian male with graduate degrees, born in Korea but raised in the USA, and residing in a mainly Asian community, blah, blah.
This statement–while seemingly logical–is not anymore true for Asian men than men in general. It really depends on the individual and has nothing to do with race. However I think SillyKitty is looking to present a case alluring enough this guy will take it for a contingency fee. And, yeah, if he smells plenty 'o benjamins, no prob. But sometimes you can enhance a weak monetary case by appealing to his sense of chivalry. I bet IS/B would enhance said vibe a bit better than IS/A.
Not sure what a White person in the CONUS means by it. I’m Asian and think of “acting Asian” as what FOB men from “the old country” do: adhering to socially rigid, extremely macho and aggressive values of the fatherland, i.e., not Westernized. I know my old country Korean cousins are macho ass kickers to the extreme. I hate to go drinking with them as it always ends up with plenty of insults and a fist fight in the parking lot. For sure a woman is not well regarded among these guys for being smart and strong. Growing up the in USA really mellows us out.
Haha it’s hard to say without stereotyping. He grew up in a highly Asian area (like 80% Asian), and in general acts just like the Asian guys I grew up around. He admits that he feels very culturally Asian.
Yes, it would be great to appeal to his sense of chivalry, but how does one do that while at the same time appearing smart and strong (pherowise)?
TAH for the chivalry, TAL + betanol for strong/honest. And of course I’m smart, thats the easy part (I think). But just in case, what would make me come off as “smart”?
I think that you’re right in the case of the Japanese lawyer deciding whether he should take her case. At the same time though, if a lawyer senses too much ditziness from a potential client, he may not take her seriously.
I think chivalry only comes into play if her case makes her appear to be a victim, and it’s not simply a business-matter that needs resolution.
As for her date, I still think she should used IS/A.
So I guess I might try some TAL, betanol and maybe some A314 or MX300. p91 for some added class/respect, p86 to be pretty 
I’m still learning my stuff though…so many pheros, so little time…
My appointment is on Monday, bleh, I can’t wait til this is all over.
You mean like he takes off his shoes when he enters the house and eats with chopsticks?
Ohhh for some retarded reason, I interpreted your OP as needing advice for a “romantic” encounter. I finally saw “appointment” now.
:o
Apologies for the weak reading comp skills.
I think what you wear depends on what kind of assistance you need from him.
Betanol is a given, but I’m not positive about TAL anymore.
If you want him to see you as smart, capable, strong, then TAL, but if you want to pull at his heartstrings and get him to take a weaker case because he feels bad about rejecting it, then probably TAH.
I still think betanol should be your main weapon, because when I use it, my boyfriend really opens up his heart, and bonds with me.
Actually he does both!
One of few traditions that trickles down through several generations of American born Korean and Japanese. Chinese don’t traditionally remove their shoes although they use chopsticks (the slippery long ones). My mother would have impaled me if I forgot to remove my shoes…
I take off my shoes before entering the house (and always have), and I often eat with chopsticks. I also own a rice cooker that I use almost daily. Do I qualify as Asian?
Well, I drink Jack Daniels (got the buckle too), own a tractor and shoot street signs from the window of my pickup with a sawed off Colt 6-shooter. Do I qualify as a RedNeck? Actually all this is true. I swear. Witness the holes in all the mailboxes and stop signs in my neighborhood…
Do you wear one of those wallets that you chain to your belt loop?