# Asking a girl to prom but dont know her...

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**Category:** Men's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [May 7, 2006, 6:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/asking-a-girl-to-prom-but-dont-know-her/341 "2006-05-07T18:32:46Z")\
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**Author:** ![b737pilot88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3ab097/32.png) [@b737pilot88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/b737pilot88)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2006, 6:32pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/asking-a-girl-to-prom-but-dont-know-her/341/1 "2006-05-07T18:32:46Z")

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ok heres my situation,  
for some reason i dont have the balls to ask this cute girl out to prom. sometimes i want to ask her and sometimes i dont. 😕  
Shes half korean/german. I saw her many times in class and smiled at me at times but never talk to her. Ya, me=loser lol

What do you guys recommend to wear when I pass by her and say good things about her like hi and stuff? I want her to listen to me and I take charge that she’ll say yes. HELP!!!😮

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**Author:** ![MHarris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mharris/32/2107_2.png) [@MHarris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MHarris)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2006, 8:11pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/asking-a-girl-to-prom-but-dont-know-her/341/2 "2006-05-07T20:11:52Z")

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> [@b737pilot88](#):
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> ok heres my situation,  
> for some reason i dont have the balls to ask this cute girl out to prom. sometimes i want to ask her and sometimes i dont. 😕  
> Shes half korean/german. I saw her many times in class and smiled at me at times but never talk to her. Ya, me=loser lol
> 
> What do you guys recommend to wear when I pass by her and say good things about her like hi and stuff? I want her to listen to me and I take charge that she’ll say yes. HELP!!!😮

You can either grow the size of your balls, or increase her empathy pheromonally.

If you want to do the former, try A314, Shine and Openness.

The latter, use Openness, and IFM. Shine, too.

A middle of the road approach would be just Openness and Shine – those two tend to bring out a wacky, fun friendliness, that could be ideal for both of you.

To reduce approach anxiety, use traditional “pick up techniques” such as the “3 second rule”. i.e., next time you see her, approach her immediately within 3 seconds (or hower long it takes you to get over there – it’s more of a RULE of thumb to reduce anxiety rather than a “rule rule”).

In fact, do you have any “PUA” material? A good mind & behvioral set is very important.

If you can’t afford something like Mystery handbook, check out their forums instead, and ask the same question there (without references to [pheromones](https://pheromonelabs.com/shop/), though) for an entirely different perspective.

Behavior is all important. Don’t lean too much on any one tool, or that tool is no longer a tool. It’s a crutch.

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**Author:** ![MHarris](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mharris/32/2107_2.png) [@MHarris](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/MHarris)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2006, 8:14pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/asking-a-girl-to-prom-but-dont-know-her/341/3 "2006-05-07T20:14:34Z")

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Also, detach from the outcome here. Think up alternative girls for the prom, even ones that are more attractive to you but you might think are “out of your league”.

Girls only like men with options. No woman likes a man that can’t reject them at a moments notice for something or _someone_ “better to do”.

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**Author:** ![b737pilot88](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/3ab097/32.png) [@b737pilot88](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/b737pilot88)\
**Post date:** [May 7, 2006, 9:28pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/asking-a-girl-to-prom-but-dont-know-her/341/4 "2006-05-07T21:28:02Z")

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🙂 thanks.