I know this might sound soft…
but what if Im not at all interested in a female (mid 20’s) sexually but I want to still get to know her better anyway.
She’s not exactly my “type” physically, but I like her carefree attitude, is there anything out there that might make her want to be involved with me on friends only level? those IG phermones?
Great info peoples! Taking notes and checkin em twice 
Remember all attraction is not sexual attraction, you can use the socials like IO and Ishine or some IG and P74 may be nice. Really even if she is attracted to you thats not a problem, Just because you turn someone on doesnt mean you have to act on that. Just dont make a move.
Tisha
Hey people, here’s the latest scoop on Spanish girl. I ask her how she feels about me calling her and she says she doesn’t know about how her boyfriend would feel about it. Then she asks me why with a smile on her face… I told her I’d like to have lunch with her. She then says she doesn’t know how her boyfriend would feel about it. But she loves when I talk to her.
I don’t want to be friended here and I am wondering what I should do to increase any chances of at least getting a little frisky with her or getting some flirting going… over the past few weeks we talk a lot in person when I visit her and I bought her a coffee once…and made it the way she liked it.
Should I:
a) Ignore her now until she approaches me, making her chase me for a change or give up on the interaction
b) choose a different mone combo… I use IS mx297 ammo to get good conversation out of her but the day she turned me down I was using 2 sprays of chikara.
c) Switch to a different mone combo. Maybe IS/IH? I am probably at the comfort stage now with her I wonder if this is a good idea. Or edge? She is spanish. My none is probably moderate level. I used to flirt with her by calling l her Ms Argentina and kiss her ass. I wonder if I should now turn the tables and not compliment her further.
d) Any more ideas? The chase is obviously over, i want her coming after me. I need her to show interest. Last I left the situation by buying her a free coffee and making it the way she likes. Maybe I need her to appreciate that fact and not be so clingy to her. if it was me in my 20’s she’d be chasing after me as I had the bod and was always so busy. Nowadays at 41 I am pursuing woman and finding it hard to take when I get rejected. Sometimes it takes me a few days to feel good about myself again. I really had a crush on her. She is good looking and also not desparate. thing is I see her only 1xweek (she works at the hotel) so I don’t have that many opportunities to wait for her to chase me. She will only work there for the summer before heading back to college.
dsouza
I actually saw spanish woman this morning and wore IS, IH, and AMMO. I approached her and told her not to feel uncomfortable with me, and we can be friends. I figured that is the best approach. After all she is taken and came out and told me. if anything happens from this point at least she’s on a comfort/honesty level with me.
I do find the IH in there makes me too serious though and don’t know how good that is for my anxiety/depression issues.
dsouza