# Automatic Attraction Triggers Poll

**URL:** <https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829>\
**Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\
**Created:** [February 5, 2008, 8:06am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829 "2008-02-05T08:06:28Z")\
**Posts on this page:** 20\
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**Author:** ![punky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ed8c4c/32.png) [@punky](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/punky)\
**Post date:** [March 7, 2008, 6:44pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/41 "2008-03-07T18:44:15Z")

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I like rocker like guy, long haired musician guys. vocals ,guitar, all rock.

the perfect man, would be a mix between kurt cobain and ben burnley of breaking benjamin. i have a weakness for blue eyes and blonde hair. but i would make en except a guy with talents like ben burnley

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**Author:** ![punky](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/p/ed8c4c/32.png) [@punky](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/punky)\
**Post date:** [March 10, 2008, 7:52pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/42 "2008-03-10T19:52:03Z")

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oh yeah i would lol, MY mom actually has an old beatles magazine he was pretty sexy

> [@LaurieNY](#):
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> Yeah, but don’t tell me you wouldn’t have done Paul McCartney in his prime.
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> Hell, I’d do him now.
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> _looks around_
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> Who said that?

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**Author:** ![EnchantedApril](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/enchantedapril/32/2385_2.png) [@EnchantedApril](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EnchantedApril)\
**Post date:** [March 11, 2008, 2:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/43 "2008-03-11T02:16:55Z")

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> [@Lizaveta](#):
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> I voted for muscle tonality, voice tonality and strength, the way he walks, and ability to lead other men. You can always spot a dominant man in the crowd by these 🙂

Yes. Wistful feminine sigh. That he is COMMANDING.

Shoulders broader than his abdomen. Aghhh, MASCULINE SHOULDERS. Oooooo. I’m getting all googley eyed just thinking about it. You know, kissing him, putting your arms around THOSE SHOULDERS!.. Makes your toes curl, doesn’t it ladies? And motivates you gentlemen to Get Thee to a Gold’s Gym!😃

April

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**Author:** ![EnchantedApril](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/enchantedapril/32/2385_2.png) [@EnchantedApril](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/EnchantedApril)\
**Post date:** [March 11, 2008, 2:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/44 "2008-03-11T02:18:45Z")

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> [@Bella](#):
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> _I_ prefer warm _buscuits! 😃_

Hmmm, perhaps some SAUSAGE and … preferably HOT!

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**Author:** ![tracicollins](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/t/839c29/32.png) [@tracicollins](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/tracicollins)\
**Post date:** [April 3, 2008, 11:18pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/45 "2008-04-03T23:18:06Z")

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> [@alpha\_wolf](#):
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> What are your top characteristics of a man that is automatically attractive to you in the first 3 minutes

i respond to power. Several others have touched on aspects of power as well, but i don’t see a tight correlation between any of these characteristics and a strong sense of personal power.

Definitely something about how he looks at me, something about how he carries himself, something about how he talks, but not necessarily in any of the stereotypically handsome ways.

He doesn’t have to have a powerful position because many of the people in those positions lack personal power. He doesn’t need to have wealth but he needs to be able to stand on his own feet. Whether he leads men will depend upon whether he has any place he wants them to go. i have to respect him to want him for more than a bit of fun.

i’m not sure if this is helping you or not. In general powerful men don’t need me to fix them or their environment. i need to feel like there is a place for me despite that.

traci

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**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2008, 3:45am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/46 "2008-04-07T03:45:39Z")

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Ok, so is this poll about new products coming to the smartmones store? I’ll take a 30 ML botle of muscle mass, a bottle of Jaw structure and jawline, and a couple bottles of wealth, and probably a few more too, just got to check my bank account. 🙄

> [@justonce](#):
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> And they should like cats. 😃
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> justonce

Meow! But seriously I want a girl just like you…One that I can go see when I’m in the mood and want attention, and when I’ve had enough I can just walk away from her, go chase other women, kill things, and come back again when I’m ready, without regard for her feelings. 🙄 😉 😮

> [@Kitten](#):
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> My favorite is when a guy sounds like his natural voice is very loud and booming, but when he speaks to me he struggles to keep it quiet and almost gentle. Shivvers!

Been told all my life that I’m to loud, and always find myself trying to keep my voice down. Not quite sure whether I’m really all that loud, or just full of hot air. 😃

> [@LaurieNY](#):
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> Agreed. Most who consider themselves “educators”, “intellectuals”, “artists”, etc. tend to lean toward the left politically–but many of them are fakes and liars as well. Don’t get me wrong, some of them are great people, but I am both a university student and an actor and I can tell you that artists and intellectuals are not always as accepting as they claim.

Yep, same holds true for politicians and church goes. All for acceptance and helping others out, until it affects them personally.

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**Author:** ![rebel0069](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/f1d935/32.png) [@rebel0069](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rebel0069)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2008, 4:05am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/47 "2008-04-07T04:05:10Z")

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i just couldn’t decide on just one thing… for me its a delicate balance of triggers usually starting out with does he walk, talk and act like an idiot? lol (NO OFFENSE INTENDED FOR ANY OF THE GUYS OUT THERE) so maybe first intelligence/confidence?

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**Author:** ![rebel0069](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/r/f1d935/32.png) [@rebel0069](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/rebel0069)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2008, 4:08am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/48 "2008-04-07T04:08:38Z")

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… oh and I forgot the most important part!!! must be cat and dog lover!!! lol 🙂

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**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2008, 4:36am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/49 "2008-04-07T04:36:08Z")

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> [@rebel0069](#):
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> … oh and I forgot the most important part!!! must be cat and dog lover!!! lol 🙂

More importantly, and it matters not what sex you’re talking about, if animals like them, that’s an excellent indicator. Animals do have a sixth sense, (probably just the heightened sense of smell), and are excellent judges of character.

I have found in the past, from pets I’ve had, that if they didn’t want anything to do with a girl that I was dating, the relationship probably wouldn’t last long. But if they loved the girl, that was a good sign, and I have had lots of pets, including: dogs, cats, birds, a wolf hybred, rabbits, iguanas, etc.

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**Author:** ![sugarspice](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sugarspice/32/1772_2.png) [@sugarspice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sugarspice)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2008, 4:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/50 "2008-04-07T04:56:27Z")

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> [@mark-in-dallas](#):
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> More importantly, and it matters not what sex you’re talking about, if animals like them, that’s an excellent indicator. Animals do have a sixth sense, (probably just the heightened sense of smell), and are excellent judges of character.
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> I have found in the past, from pets I’ve had, that if they didn’t want anything to do with a girl that I was dating, the relationship probably wouldn’t last long. But if they loved the girl, that was a good sign, and I have had lots of pets, including: dogs, cats, birds, a wolf hybred, rabbits, iguanas, etc.

Dogs love me. The big dogs try to play human and get on two legs to dance with me…weird. They seem to always sniff my crotch! Yes, yes, my crotch is very nice, it doesn’t bite. LOL. With Pheros dogs obey.

Cats love me too unfortunately I’m allergic to those bastards. Like I’m always yelling at them. “I gost no food for yah honey!” But they keep on snugglin. But cats are tricky.

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**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2008, 5:10am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/51 "2008-04-07T05:10:33Z")

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> [@sugarspice](#):
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> Dogs love me.
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> Cats love me too unfortunately I’m allergic to those bastards.

I am allergic to cats too, but love them anyway and will live on Benadryl when I’m around them.

All animals love me. Funny story but when my ex and I got our wolf hybred cub (Father -Timberwolf, Mother - Alaskan Malmute), we got it from a breeder. He took us out to the kennels to see the parents, and warned us to stay away from the fathers cage. Within 3 minutes I was reaching throught his cage and scratching under him under the chin and between the ears. The breeder looked at me and said, what the f—k, I’ve been feeding him every day and I can’t even get that close to him.

Same story with a Muluccan Cockatoo (Larger Barretta bird type) in a pet store, and a Scarlett Macaw in another store., among others.

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**Author:** ![sugarspice](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sugarspice/32/1772_2.png) [@sugarspice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sugarspice)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2008, 5:18am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/52 "2008-04-07T05:18:41Z")

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> [@mark-in-dallas](#):
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> I am allergic to cats too, but love them anyway and will live on Benadryl when I’m around them.
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> All animals love me. Funny story but when my ex and I got our wolf hybred cub (Father -Timberwolf, Mother - Alaskan Malmute), we got it from a breeder. He took us out to the kennels to see the parents, and warned us to stay away from the fathers cage. Within 3 minutes I was reaching throught his cage and scratching under him under the chin and between the ears. The breeder looked at me and said, what the f—k, I’ve been feeding him every day and I can’t even get that close to him.
> 
> Same story with a Muluccan Cockatoo (Larger Barretta bird type) in a pet store, and a Scarlett Macaw in another store., among others.

Wow being able to tame a wolf hybrid is some kind of animal magnetism.😉

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**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2008, 5:22am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/53 "2008-04-07T05:22:35Z")

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> [@sugarspice](#):
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> Wow being able to tame a wolf hybrid is some kind of animal magnetism.😉

A wolf hybrid father with a litter of new cubs and their mother. Wolves bond, are very protective of those they have bonded with, and make excellent pets for personal protection.

I have always been good with animals though, and do not fear any animal, but also make it clear that they need not fear me. That makes a BIG difference. With the Hybrid wolf, I got down on my knees in front of the cage and extended my open hand for him, while talking to him. He quickly saw that I wasn’t a threat and he need not be afraid of, or protect the cubs or their mother from me.

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**Author:** ![sugarspice](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sugarspice/32/1772_2.png) [@sugarspice](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/sugarspice)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2008, 5:29am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/54 "2008-04-07T05:29:07Z")

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I suppose when a dog leaps up and tries to be a person, he’s saying lets be friends. I’m your buddy like all these guys. Hmmmm…

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**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2008, 5:34am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/55 "2008-04-07T05:34:01Z")

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> [@sugarspice](#):
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> I suppose when a dog leaps up and tries to be a person, he’s saying lets be friends. I’m your buddy like all these guys. Hmmmm…

I don’t know about the trying to be a person part, but yeah, the dog’s saying I like you and want you to like me to and show me some attention. Unless of course he’s got his teeth bared, is growling and jumping for the neck, in which case you’re in trouble. 😮

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**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2008, 6:30am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/56 "2008-04-07T06:30:56Z")

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> [@sugarspice](#):
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> _ **Wow being able to tame a wolf hybrid is some kind of animal magnetism.** _😉

Uh huh…I’ve tamed mine…sorta…'cept he’s a pure bred…lol

> [@mark-in-dallas](#):
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> A wolf hybrid father with a litter of new cubs and their mother. _ **Wolves bond, are very protective of those they have bonded with** _, and make excellent pets for personal protection.
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> I have always been good with animals though, and do not fear any animal, but also make it clear that they need not fear me. That makes a BIG difference. With the Hybrid wolf, _ **I got down on my knees** _ in front of the cage and extended my open hand for him, while talking to him. He quickly saw that I wasn’t a threat and he need not be afraid of, or protect the cubs or their mother from me.

They’re _very_ protective and love the knees thing…😃

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**Author:** ![mark-in-dallas](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/mark-in-dallas/32/860_2.png) [@mark-in-dallas](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mark-in-dallas)\
**Post date:** [April 7, 2008, 12:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/57 "2008-04-07T12:30:49Z")

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That’s cause you’re acknowledging they are the alpha.

And to correct a typo on my part, the father was pure Timber Wolf.

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**Author:** ![HollyJ](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/h/7993a0/32.png) [@HollyJ](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/HollyJ)\
**Post date:** [May 8, 2008, 2:20am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/58 "2008-05-08T02:20:22Z")

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I think we are all different.. seems no one has the same attrations.. well mostly anyways.. For me it is the eyes, (BLUE!) and the facial features. strong features I guess.. Nice hair.. I used to go for the shoulder length thing or a ponytail.. but that was many years ago.. now that is not so popular.. I also like a guy that smells good! and I don’t mean with pheramones either!  
I like a guy to be around just about 4-5 inches taller than I am.. I agree about hugging the rib cage.. although some girls do like them very tall!  
I do agree about the kindness.. sence of humor.. and being an animal lover.. I agree about the cats.. it seems to be that a guy that has a cat is always more sensitive!  
I think all in all.. everyone is drawn to different attractions.. if we were not that way, we’d all want the same person!

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**Author:** ![lifeissweet](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/l/97f17d/32.png) [@lifeissweet](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/lifeissweet)\
**Post date:** [May 23, 2008, 8:56am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/59 "2008-05-23T08:56:17Z")

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> [@tisha23](#):
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> There is more to attraction for women then just the above triggers, as you mentioned, men are visual but women at least the ones who are not superficial look for more then that in a man before attraction will occur.
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> Tisha

I feel the same way as tisha here. What more inside of a man that’s very attractive to me. Looks are a bonus if he ends up being hot but I count on what’s inside of him in the long run. It is simple things like how they carry themselves (silent confidence, charistma etc) and how he treats others and himself.

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**Author:** ![mahalo\_silver](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/8dc957/32.png) [@mahalo\_silver](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mahalo_silver)\
**Post date:** [May 27, 2008, 1:41pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/automatic-attraction-triggers-poll/189829/60 "2008-05-27T13:41:43Z")

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so basically what im hearing is that if a guy dosen’t have height, he is screwed…thats why i keep [pheromones](https://a314.com/) a secret. tall guys dont even need it, they naturally DHV. y does a 6 foot guy need a314? i believe its a tragedy that most of my failings with women r down to something i can do nothing about. im 5 foot 6-7. the number of butt ugly guys i see with babes because there tall…how many short guys do i see with babes? even if the guys r cute? al pacino, lenny kravitz - u gotta b alpha in some other way…its the most hidden discrimination there is - heightism.

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