# Bad Day with IS/b :(! **URL:** \ **Category:** Women's Pheromone Advice & Field Reports\ **Created:** [February 8, 2009, 5:16am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bad-day-with-is-b/25845 "2009-02-08T05:16:10Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 10
**Author:** ![Bella](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/bella/32/1738_2.png) [@Bella](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Bella)\ **Post date:** [February 9, 2009, 7:54am UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bad-day-with-is-b/25845/10 "2009-02-09T07:54:43Z")
> [@CookieGirl](#): > > So anywaaay, I definitely won’t give up with TAH. Im gonna give IS/b more tests at different times during my cycle _ **as Tisha advised and if all goes well, have a hand at TAH and TAL individually !** _ Yep, it’s best to try each individually first, as Tisha said, then when you have your sweet spot figured out try a them together. It’s interesting how they can sometimes work to create the perfect balance when worn together. Perhaps a spray or two of IS/B to the back of your head and a spray or two of IS/A up front to give you a little more confidence. A lot of girls use it that way. I do, only in reverse. > [@](#): > > When I looked back on it, I also think the same way that you two gals, Maromi and Mademoiselle, thought: _ **that maybe I should try to counter balance who I am rather then try it lay my natural personality on heavier.** _ Funny enough, the exact words you mentioned came into my mind “ maybe Im more alpha than I think I am” lol ! Speaking of being either a TAH or TAL girl. Here’s how it works for me. I can and do wear both, as I said above and often use them together. Though I do have a more naturally TAL personality. Where one woman will wear TAL to _compliment_ that in herself, it doesn’t work that way for me when I wear it alone. It’s too much of a good thing _ **for me** _. One spray too much, without the right buffer, and…well…best just\* run \*_away_ from me… and move over, 'cause I’ll be running away from _myself,_ too. So, _ **for me** _, I need to balance it with some form of TAH or other softener. On the other hand, I can wear fairly high amounts of TAH with NP. But a woman like remmy, who’s also naturally TAL does better _matching_ her signature by using TAL instead of TAH which makes her feel ditsy and/or vulnerable. It just doesn’t work that way _for me_. So as you go along testing you may, as you say above, have more success by going more _with_ your natural signature rather than trying to fight/change it. Very subjective these pheromones. Let me state these are just _my observations_ and _my_ _personal opinion._ > [@](#): > > Also ! This reminds me that I was nearing the end of my cycle, and usually “feeling sexy” is the last thing on my mind. _ **It was almost as if, I caught the kittenish side of IS/b but completely filtered out anything sexual.** _ _ **We women work rather strangely, dont we ?** _ 😛 Cookie, what you said here is important. I’m sorry I forgot to point that out earlier. You really hit the nail on the head and you don’t even know it. 😃 Here’s another link that you may find helpful. You speak about filtering out…this is about _tuning in_. [https://pheromonetalk.com/t/congruence-whats-that/9805](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/congruence-whats-that/9805) > [@](#): > > Tisha, sorry I didn’t specify ! I argued with men, but even with women, _ **I should say that I felt “mousier” and definitely not as confident.** _ That’s the thing. You _felt_ “mousier”, therefore _projected yourself_ that way and others picked up on it. Hence the _feeling_ of being run over. As for making _them_ feel as if they can run over you, well…again…_in my opinion_…it can make them percieve you as a pushover…_because you’re acting like one_. In an argument people are usually looking to push/run you over. Of course, that can only happen _if you let it_. The point worth making here is…pheromones can’t _make_ people _do_ anything. In other words they can’t, in any way, take away a persons free will. I’d also like to say something, to take into consideration, when reading others reports/posts. I’ve read thousands. I pay attention and am always interested in whatever others have to say but I don’t take anything as gospel. I prefer to experiment and draw my own conclusions. 🙂 If they jive with others great, if not then it’s just different _for me_. No harm, no foul. We’re all right and it’s all good. 😉 > [@](#): > > _ **And thanks a mill for the awesome post, Bella !!** _ You addressed a lot of insecurities I was beginning to form in my little head and honestly _ **you made me feel a ton better** _ about my day\*.\* > > _ **I do have another Q for you though; why the hair ? Does it diffuse slower therefore lasts longer ?** _ Or something 😮 Your welcome, Cookie. I’m so glad it made you feel better. 🙂 Well, hair is _very_ diffusive. It’s my favorite application point for [Instant Honesty](https://a314.com/product/instant-honesty/) year round. It doesn’t slow diffusion, it’s actually great for getting the molecules _out there_. Oil based pheromones are slower diffusing than ones that are alcohol based. > [@](#): > > I’m ALSO trying to convince myself to buy Instant Openess and mx135 right now… _ **What dosage works good for you with mx135 ?** _ Because MX135 is TAH based, like IS/B, I usually use 2-4 sprays, depending on the circumstance. I’ll be curious to see how it goes for you. A little patience, some more experimenting and you’ll soon get the hang of it and be off and running. I’ll stay tuned. 😉 Bella --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bad-day-with-is-b/25845)._