# Balls of a Donkey! **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [January 29, 2012, 2:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/balls-of-a-donkey/54372 "2012-01-29T14:27:02Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 7\ **Page:** 1
**Author:** ![balls\_from\_a\_donkey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/59ef9b/32.png) [@balls\_from\_a\_donkey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/balls_from_a_donkey)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2012, 2:27pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/balls-of-a-donkey/54372/1 "2012-01-29T14:27:02Z")
Hello everyone, I’m a 25 year old male from southern California. I only recently just got interested in pheromones. I haven’t had a lot of luck with the ladies and I’m looking for something to help me out. Here’s some info about me. **Physical attributes** I’m 5’10’ around 180 pounds. I do crossfit regularly and I would say I am in outstanding shape. I love working out and I’m looking for someone who likes to stay fit. **Personality** I took a personality test and it says I am INFJ Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, and Judging. It’s a rare personality that only 1%-3% of people who have taken the test identify with. That test pretty much hit the nail on the head. To sum it up, I’m damn good at reading people, and if I think you’re an asshole, I’m usually right. [Portrait of an INFJ](http://www.personalitypage.com/INFJ.html) To many of my close friends, I don’t give off an alpha male vibe. I have a very goofy disposition and I tend to be the clown of the group. I love making people laugh, that is my main priority when I am with friends. I don’t get angry easily, and if I do, it is because someone truly f!cked up. In a social setting where I don’t know a lot of people, I tend to be very reserved. It takes some liquid courage for me to break out of my shyness and get friendly. The same could be said if I’m trying to pick up some chicks at the bar or club. I used to be very successful in the past as long as I got drunk, but now that I’ve gotten older, I’m tired of the one night stand thing, and I’d really like to meet someone I have a connection with. **What I’m Looking to Buy** Here is where I seek some great advice. It sounds like I could use a good dose of [Instant Openness](https://a314.com/product/instant-openness/) and Instant Honesty. I’d really like to meet an older (25-35) woman who is mature, has a career, and has her shit together. So should I also spring for getting the A314 since that what it seems to attract? I’m not a gold digger by any means, I’d like to meet someone who I can call my equal. It seems like my ideal going out mix would be A314 + IO +IH. What about throwing some AMMO in there or will it be too much? I’ve been told many times that I am good looking, so is there any need for AMMO or even TUTH? I’d appreciate all your help! ---
**Author:** ![1Alpha](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/1alpha/32/190_2.png) [@1Alpha](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/1Alpha)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2012, 2:55pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/balls-of-a-donkey/54372/2 "2012-01-29T14:55:35Z")
Well, well, well. You’ve got your ‘stuff’ together now! 🙂 Welcome to the forum! I like the way you put your intro together, BFAD… 😃. For what your looking for, and with your sense of being reserved because of your disposition, A314 may come off as TOO serious. So, your feeling of being quiet may come off as aloof with A314. I do like that you try to bring down that One Serious, Don’t mess with this Guy vibe, of A314 with IO and IH. I’d suggest you start out with IG and add IShine or IH to it. IO will give others the blabbering to you syndrome. If you’re looking for someone more mature, you don’t want them to be all over the place with their convo’s… I would guess. IH would be more of a feeling of not seeing a long time close friend that I can confide my experiences with. So, you can go the easier to wield, mones wise, but giving you the vibe you’re looking for, by going: IG + IShine + IH with possible swapping out IG with AMMO as a base. Or, go with the more bold, with a more serious vibe, Alpha Man HERE now, toned down a bit with the combo: A314 + IShine + IH with a possible swapping our of IShine and IH with AMMO as the compliment of A314. At this time, I’d suggest you look at those above combinations as suggestions. I’d much rather you take each of those mones on by themselves without combo’ing yet to know what they do for you and those around you. Wish you well, bud! ---
**Author:** ![mobocaster](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/m/c2a13f/32.png) [@mobocaster](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/mobocaster)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2012, 3:00pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/balls-of-a-donkey/54372/3 "2012-01-29T15:00:11Z")
I would leave the IO out of any mix involving A314 myself. All they do is wreck each other. A314, IH is good and a little TUTH in that (or just A314/TUTH) can be very useful around women in their late 20s/30s and up - by then they tend to be attuned to a stronger status/sexual signature. Ammo is also excellent but I again personally I would suggest using a smaller amount of A314 beside it. Have you thought on how you want to use A314? Because it is not an attraction phero per se, more it conveys status and other attractive/LTR qualities, which can appear too serious. Your personality description suggests, a lighter more social/sexy signature might be more appropriate? Try looking into [Instant Shine](https://a314.com/product/shine/) and maybe IG instead. ---
**Author:** ![balls\_from\_a\_donkey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/59ef9b/32.png) [@balls\_from\_a\_donkey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/balls_from_a_donkey)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2012, 3:59pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/balls-of-a-donkey/54372/4 "2012-01-29T15:59:12Z")
Thank you both for the greets. To answer your question mobocaster, I want to use the A314 to attract the attention of confident, older, mature women. And it is my hope, that once getting their attention, a bit of IH and a tiny bit of something with a sexual kick (AMMO or TUTH) will lead to some magic magic. The reason why I’m thinking about A314 is that I really want to attract a different kind of woman. I have a baby face (people think I pass for 18) and on the surface I can be silly/goofy, which tends to get me into light-hearted trouble. People have gone as far as to say I’ve got an innocent, naive thing going on. The problem is that, with that kind of demeanor, I’ve only attracted young, immature ladies. Like the ones who get sloppy drunk and hump anything that is hard and breathing. I’m tired of those crazy young un’s flocking to me, and I’m hoping that the A314 will help me grab the attention of an older woman. I’d really like to buy every kind of spray out there, but my current budget only allows me to buy 3. And I’ve got a bit of a time restraint because in a few weeks, I got a crazy fun event/party/concert I’m going to, so I don’t have a lot of time to experiment with a lot of combos. Based on your both’s suggestions, I should def get IH and IO should not be in the picture. And it is a toss up between 1. A314 or IG 2. AMMO or TUTH Thoughts? ---
**Author:** ![bosshank](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/91b2a8/32.png) [@bosshank](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/bosshank)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2012, 8:02pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/balls-of-a-donkey/54372/5 "2012-01-29T20:02:24Z")
Hello and welcome to the forum. 1alpha has given you some pretty good advice so I willnot belabor most of the info he has already given you. What I will add in is that [Ammo](https://a314.com/product/ammo/) & A314 is a great social mix. It combines the I am The Man vibe of A314 and the sexy of Ammo. There is a thread in my signature block that talks about this combo. Give it a read and see what you think. A314 and IH is my favorite work combo. A314 gives you a heavy respect vibe. But sometimes it can create what i call “respect distance” - people will just give you a lot of room and it can cut down on communication. The IH offsets that by making people feel connected to you. And in turn they will talk to you about what they think is important - to them or to you. Good luck and let us know what you decide to do. ---
**Author:** ![balls\_from\_a\_donkey](https://avatars.discourse-cdn.com/v4/letter/b/59ef9b/32.png) [@balls\_from\_a\_donkey](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/balls_from_a_donkey)\ **Post date:** [January 29, 2012, 9:06pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/balls-of-a-donkey/54372/6 "2012-01-29T21:06:50Z")
I took a look at your A314 and AMMO combo thread. Very insightful. I also went perusing through other threads. After careful thought, I’m going to get A314, AMMO, IH, and IS for good measure. One combo I’ll try is AMMO + A314 for the Sean Connery vibe with a splash of IS and IH for approachability. Another combo would be AMMO + IS for the cool sexy vibe with a splash of A314 so that the ladies will know I am VIP. I will be slightly over budget, but I have faith that it will pay off. Thanks for all your advice! I can’t wait to try these out and post my results! ---
**Author:** ![Sillykitty](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/sillykitty/32/1574_2.png) [@Sillykitty](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/Sillykitty)\ **Post date:** [February 7, 2012, 7:23pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/balls-of-a-donkey/54372/7 "2012-02-07T19:23:29Z")
You’ve definitely gotten some great advice from the guys! I’m sure Mickaelia will be around to give you your $25 gift certificate in the next few days! 🙂