# Bartender, Phero rookie **URL:** \ **Category:** Introductions - New Users, Say "Hello"!\ **Created:** [June 19, 2013, 8:03pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bartender-phero-rookie/59359 "2013-06-19T20:03:47Z")\ **Posts on this page:** 1\ **Showing post:** 2
**Author:** ![monesmadedoit](https://sea2.discourse-cdn.com/flex016/user_avatar/pheromonetalk.com/monesmadedoit/32/325_2.png) [@monesmadedoit](https://pheromonetalk.com/u/monesmadedoit)\ **Post date:** [June 19, 2013, 10:30pm UTC](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bartender-phero-rookie/59359/2 "2013-06-19T22:30:21Z")
> [@amanaplan](#): > > Hi all, > > Been loving your posts. I always thought this pheremone thing was a big scam, but reading all of your posts i am open to the idea that there may be something to all this, so I went and ordered some A314, instant shine, and ammo. > > I’m 30, and a great modern professional bartender from Philly. I make great drinks and love the work, but i find it hard to get ahead because i’m kinda dorky and dont get taken seriously. I’m hoping to get a new job, feel more confident, and meet some women as well. > > Will let you know how it goes! > And thanks, you guys, for all the great info. Hello A Man A Plan! Well, to be taken seriously, I can’t think of any thing that says that much better than A314. IShine will help take some of the seriousness or “superiority” if you will down a touch and make 314 more approachable, brighter and younger. 314 can also be paired with IH, but IO is not recommended, at least by some users. The reason is that IO has a flippant quality that may undercut the respect factor of 314. Did you buy the spray or oil 314? In terms of advice, this thread on 314 vs IG my be the best at getting at the heart of the respect and maturity factor of 314. 314 and IG are both heavy in Rone, and Rone signals maturity, but 314 carries a steep leadership and status quality that takes Rone to a higher level. Let us know how that will work for you on the job.🙂 > [@A314 vs Instant Gentleman: repost of the comparison, linking to the original thread](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-vs-instant-gentleman/23600): > > \*\*You may view and post in the original thread here: \*\*[https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-vs-instant-gentleman/11070](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/a314-vs-instant-gentleman/11070) Myself: Athletic, mid-40s, Married with children This is a compilation of thoughts on the differences between A314 and [Instant Gentleman](https://a314.com/product/gentleman/). A lot of this is based not only on my experience but also on some PMs between myself and Renny. So if you like this post and decide to share the love – er, rep points, please do not forget to send Renny some too. For those of you who are not fam… --- _[View the full topic](https://pheromonetalk.com/t/bartender-phero-rookie/59359)._